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Archived questions from: 2 December, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Is there such as a thing as a counsellor or psychiatrist that specialises in sexual issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Is there such as a thing as a councellor/psychiatrist that specialises in sexual issues? And if so how do I arrange to see one? When I was 7 my Dad went into prison for sexual harassment on teenage girls. When I was a teenager I had very strict ...

In love with my husband's cousin!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I'm in love with my husband's cousin. I have been with my husband for 7 years, married for 18 mths and we have 3 gorgeous kids. Our relationship has been turbulent but i care very much for him. Just over a yr into our relationship after the birth of ...

We are a pair of cheaters, but not in it for the long haul

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Hi,I am dating a 20 year old guy and i am 25 years old. I find it odd dating him due to our age gap (especially if a woman is older) but i know that i am happy whenever i am around him. He is always there to comfort me and do things for me when i ...

He's cheated on me 8 times. Will he grow out of it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is extremely attractive, like the hottest boy I have ever laid eyes on in my life. He's got the tightest body made of solid muscle and the cutest face and he is sooooooooo much the best sex I have ever had a million times over. The only ...

I've been cheating, but only out of politeness!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

2 December 2009 (?) - I'd been going out with my boyfriend for one and a half years when he cheated on me with my best friend. That was 2 months ago. I saw them kissing at school (needless to say I am only just forgiving my friend). He immediately stopped seeing and ...

Cheating men and pornography..what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I was wondering what do I do? My dad has had issues with watching porn in the past. It was never really a big concern of mine because I thought it was just something guys do. Then just recently my dad has found another woman online (my dad i...

What do to for the best? Should I confront him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is cheating on me. I followed him from home one night and I know where she lives. I want to confront this girl but I don't know that to do. If I confront her I will lose him altogether but if I don't I can always use this as blackmail ...

I'm in love with a guy that made me cry more than once... What do do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - About a year ago I dated a guy who I'll call Dave. Dave and I dated for a little over a year and we were very much in love. All was well until I accused him of cheating. He didnt take it very well so he broke up with me because he felt I was too ...

I am in love with a player who doesn't give a damn

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my guy for five years. He refuses to agree to have a monogamous relationship but says that I am the only one. I have knowledge that he has cheated several time. He wont say that he loves me but wont say that he dosent. Our lives are ...

I worry a lot about his commitment to our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - hey there i have another problem, i have the hardest time trusting my bf, he tells me he is so in love with me and that im the only one, but then he tells me i wouldnt trust you if i were you you and i ask him why and he says look at how much tro...

Do I keep on seeing where this goes, even if he is taken? Or do I just let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I went on a non-date with a good friend of mine from high school, who happens to have a girlfriend who he's been with for quite awhile. Nothing happened between the two of us but the very little that did happen, his girlfriend would not be happy ...

After her affair, all her flaws seriously annoy me. Is it possible to fall out of love with somebody?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - I've been involved with a girl for three years. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years. I've tried hard to make the long distance thing work. It almost did, as she is planning on moving to live with me in 6 months after ...

I have feelings for my boyfriends brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Im in a bad situation.I have been with my boyfriend for almost eight years and we have two kids together. I love him but I dont know if im in love anymore. I cheated on him with his brother almost two years ago. He found out about it and he still ...