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41-50,
*ookiemon77
writes:Ok this is the situation. On Christmas my fiance went to the bathroom upstairs and his phone beeped because he got a text message. I picked it up and saw that it was from some women but didnt think anything of it. But curiosity got me and I opened it up it said. "I'm thinking of you while I'm eating christmas dinner." I went on to read the other messages from her inviting him to the movies and trying to get together with him. Only answer he made was at first that asked her what time did she wake up. I want upstairs and asked him who she was and why was she thinking of him while she had christmas dinner. He said that it wasn't what I thought and that to let him explain. I left because I was upset and was out for a while until I calm down. I came back and he said that she was a recruiter friend and that she had got the DJ for our wedding, he said that she was going to meet with him to give him some flyers from some salsa classes that they were starting up. which I knew nothing about. I was so hurt but he says that I need to trust him and believe that there is nothing going on. He said that he will call her and tell her to stop and fix it. But all I want to do his call her and get the facts. What should I do should I call her. I don't know what to think.
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reader, xAx  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 I think that if you can, you should try and get in contact with her. However, she could lie. Alternatives, you could pretend you are over it and attend the salsa classes or even send a friend of yours who he doesn't know to go to them and report back to you.Or...you could hire a private dectective?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): If I were in your shoes, I don't what I would more insulted about: the fact that he was working another woman while engaged to me or that he couldn't honor me with a smarter excuse. I agree with Celiaaletta in that: YES, that is a rat you smell and you should smoke it out before you let it walk you down the aisle. Be strong!!
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