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writes: I'm a older woman I haven't been in a relationship for two years but I have been sleeping with this younger man off and on for six years he has a girlfriend and sometimes when he calls I don't answer I think I'm starting to really like him I don't call him I just wait for him to call but here's my twist lately we have started hold conversations more than just sex like we were I don't know what to think should I just leave him alone
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): You're old enough to know that what you're doing is wrong. So stop it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 December 2009):
He can't be a good guy if he's cheating on his girlfriend. He's using you for sex, nothing more. Don't be fooled.
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (28 December 2009):
 You don't know what to think?
Well I cannot tell you what think, but I guess you know that what you are doing is not 'right'.
But let me tell you a little story.
One of my sisters was doing something similar to you. To live in this way requires a number of lies, doesn't it? Maybe a different lie, maybe the same lie to buy you time to be together with the young man in question. So there is my sister, happily living her life, husband at home, boyfriend 30 minutes away in another part of the city.
All it takes to destroy a number of lives is an intervention by fate - an act of God, bad weather, a flat tyre, an innocent moment of recognition - then everything falls down.
Is it worth it?
You don't know what to think, because you haven't thought much so far. Consider the variables, and make your mind up about who you really want to be with. Six years in a threesome, and two years in a foursome is a long time to be lucky.
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