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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Will making peace with him confuse him even more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Hi. Bit of a strange situation. A while ago I started having an affair with a guy at work and moved in with him after separating with my husband. About 6 months later another guy at work revealled that he had had a big crush on me for years and that ...

Should I be with a man who is unable to give me the quality of life I have now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - i am a 32 year old female who has two kids i live with a man that is twice my age he is loving in every sense of the word but has hurt me by cheating in the process i lost a baby i was carrying i love him but hate his touch i recently met someone ...

He's the one who cheated but he tells me I can't talk to guys

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - so I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months now since we have been together i have caught him cheating ,i have caught him on several dating websites and also caught him on phone dating services chatting and talking with different girls. ...

I left, she kissed somebody else, now I want her back, but she is wary

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I am a 25 yr old male. Ive been withthe same woman for almost years the first 6 months were better than I could have ever imagined then we hit the one year mark and we start arguing alot more then a few weeks ago I got tired of fighting without ...

Woops, wrong name, wrong guy, wrong time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I met a really cool guy online in Sept. and he lives far away. It was going really well, and then I dated someone else I met a little later who lived closer. I felt guilty as I didn't love the second guy, and when we were intimate, I called him by ...

I am cheating but instead of making me happy, it makes me cry

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - whenever my boyfriend and I have sex i never come unless he goes down on me, but lately Ive been crying after sex, Im also seeing some1 else and after sleeping with him I also started crying and I didnt even come, I laugh and cry alot its wiered and ...

My husband cheated and I am so numb

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Its funny how in a split second everything you knew and loved can just be stripped away from you. I heard a saying the other day and it stayed with me..."what does it mean to regret when you have no other choice." This has really struck a chord with ...

Is / Has my girlfriend cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - i'm an 18 year-old male and my girlfriend is 16 and bi-sexual. my problem is i cant trust my girlfriend cause i keep thinking that she has meesed around with someone or is messing around when im not there. the first time i noticed it was when i ca...

Fiance cheated on me and I can't cope...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and we got engaged last year. we had been very happy and everyone said we were good for each other. I am 33 and she is 23 but the age issue never even came into it, it really didnt, she was ...

I took him back, but I still feel betrayed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years now, but a year ago, he cheated. I took him back after only a week of thinking on it and feeling sorry for myself. I just knew I couldn't handle life without him, but I still get images of them ...

He cheated and yet I'm in love with him still

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - i am sixteen years old. in love. yea i know. i'm an idiot right? don't know what i'm talking about. believe me when i say i do. i fall hard for this boy. lost the vcard to him. LOVE him. he cheated on me...with my best friend. and with a french ...

Why am I having sex dreams about cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I have been having a ton of sex dreams where I cheat on my boyfriend, with boys I used to think were hot. I am still totally devoted to him and would never, ever cheat on him, because that's just not the kind of person I am. I still love him and ...