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Archived questions from: 28 March, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I've invested a lot into this friendship. What do I do now??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My best friend of a year terminated our friendship this week. I don't know what to do. I'm in a mess. This is the situation: We've been friends a year. He's a gay guy I'm a female "Grace". My gay friend I will call 'Will'. We hit it off immediate...

She's with a new guy but I want her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend was going out for to years one day we split up i begged her to come back i pushed her to a point where she asked for no contact i left her alone for about 3weeks i didnt ring her or text her she told my friends she hated me...

I fancy my best mate's ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - my best friend went out wit this girls and she dumped him im still gud friends wit her and now i really fancy her i don't want to tell her because i don't no if she likes me or not but i also dont want to go out wit her because i dont want to make ...

So, how do I find out if he's single??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - right, i really like this guy, we clicked from the start. he said he had a girlfriend so i didn't think about him much. We were both at a party then where we were all a bit out of it. i THINK he said that he was going to break up with his girlfrie...

Follow up: My husband has impregnated a girl-twice in our marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - This is a follow up to My husband has impregnated a girl twice during our marriage! http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-has-impregnated-a-girl-twice-during.html Thanks to all those who responded to my question i really vaue all your...

Will I ever be able to love again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - i was married for 24 years to a man that didn't love me. i fell in love with another, while married, our feelings seemed to be real, specially his, he had been hurt before and he said it was very hard for him. he said that pain is too hard so he ...

Is he sending mixed signals or is he being a duche?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - heyy can ppl please help me understand this its driving me crazy ... my ex boyfriend was at the same party as me last week ... when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him even thou he broke my heart .. afte...

I think he still has some feelings for me a little

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I love my ex so much we split in july last year but carried on having sex after we split, about 2 months ago, we had sex for the last time, as since then hes got himself a gf, but about the 10 feb of feb he said that he wanted to suck my tits and ...

Do I really fancy him, or do I see him as a father figure?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I like a man who is 26 years older than me, he's married and has a son and daughter,who are similar ages to me.He flirts with me a lot,and says he is fascinated with me,that i am attractive.He also says that he wants me to have an affair with ...

I don't know what going on. Can you help me solve this mystery?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

28 March 2009 (F) - ok so my fiance and i have been having some minor/major difficulties in our situation i thought we have finally worked everything out opened up to each other but it dont seem that way. well we have been fighting for weeks over everything and i was ...

I'm in love with my FWB....he is my ex boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I am in love with my friends with benefits....he is my ex boyfriend. we became best friends and then we went to being friends with benefits. the thing is that i have fallen for him and i don't know what to do. he is a really sweet guy. we have date...

I cant stop flirting with other men and it is driving my boyfriend away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - hi i was with my exboyfriend for 7 years on and off i cheated on him and he has left me a few times and gone with other girls and i have bagged him back and he used to come back cos i do belive we loved each other but he could not cope anyway we had ...

Is he just trying to find an easy way out of our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - So recently stuff has been hard. I'm under quite alot of pressure from school to get the best grades I can and at home as well. So me and my friends started going out on a friday night and taking off the pressure by drinking. We've only done it for ...

Now I'm being bullied by the co-worker he's dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I dated a guy in my workplace:we kept it secret due to policy.i previously helped him get a job there. he didn't know at the time that i was bullied there.i didn't want to get him involved and was scared he would think less of me. anyway, i fell i...

Aren't our feelings for each another enough to make things work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I posted a question on here last week about how my boyfriend and I seem to want different things. Last night, after 2 and a half years, he broke up with me because of it. He wants to focus on his career and while I do to, I had also suggested l...

If I try to move on I will be lonely. I don't have that many friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Well.. Im 14 and I have recently broken up with my ex. He was my first boyfriend that I fell in love with. He is in the year above me. And well when we first met he was crazy of me always phoning me texting me and I knew that we would be going ou...

Dont want to push him further but don't want to give up either

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Can time realy heal I met this guy on line Jan 08 shortly after joing a chat site. We became friends instantly as we had a lot in common. About 4 month into the friendship he met another girl that he almost instantly fell for. As there relation...

My husband has left me for another woman and I am devastated,

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - my husband has left me for another woman and i am devastated, i can not cope, he was my whole world and my world has collapsed, just need to know how to get myself strong again. ...

I can see us breaking up but I still have fun with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years and nearlly two months, lives with me and my family and has done for 2 years. Recently tho we;ve been argueing alot, we usualy argue but neevr this much before. He says he doesnt think thing's are working out and doesnt want ...

He's not handling our break up well

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months yesterday and he didn't handle it very well at all. I said we can still be friends, and the next day he tried texting me again because he's upset still. Should I keep talking to him as a friend and console ...

She wants to go see an old guy friend, but won't let me come with her...to meet him! Right or wrong??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I am a 28 year old male, in a long distance relationship with a 22 year old female. I had plans to go visit her, for a week in April 3. But we hit a snag here and now I am not sure if I should go, (in light of what's happened) After my visit...

Who do I choose...my wife or my lover?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I ended up having an affair due to lack of affection from my wife. I know I was wrong and I take full responsibility for my actions. Obviously, I wasn't looking for affection, it just grew from a friendship to an emotional level, which turned ...

After a breakup, is it normal for the person that has broken up with you to still respond to kisses and lingering hugs...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - After a breakup, is it normal for the person that has broken up with you to still respond to kisses and lingering hugs, and engage in sexual activities, as well as calling you beautiful in text messages? I know this person loves me and cares, a...