A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now and we have a son who is 1. We've known each other for about 12 years and have been in and out with each other since high school. He's my first love and still he's the only one I've ever really loved.. The thng is he says he loves me still but I feel that things have changed. We're both in our mid twenties struggling with finances and parenthood and recently we've been fighting a lot for stupid things and every time we fight he goes out and wastes money behind alcohol and friends. We seperated for a few days a while ago and now he's back and he has promised to stop liming and drinking.. But sometimes I sense a restlessness about him.. I've stopped drinking and any time I ask him to go out with me he doesn't seem to want to. He says it's not me it's just that he's tired and otherwise we're getting along okay but I still feel rejected that he doesn't want to do stuff with me. Whenever we do go out it's with our son and I love that but is it wrong to still want to spend time with him alone?? I've suggested counselling and stuff but he's strictly against that and he never really talks about anything. He just stays away when I'm upset and I'm really hurt by his lack of intrest in me as a person.. But I've tried talking and he doesn't understand. What should I do???
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