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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think my husband is preparing for a divorce

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age - Can someone advise me please? Ive done nothing wrong and he is the one giving me the silent treatment, but he left a receipt out for solicitors fees. I think he's divorcing me!!!(he;s been working out figures too and leaving them around, not hidden) although he has password... (190 words)

Does anyone else have friends that don't care about you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this but has anyone ever dealt with bad friends? It seems like the friends I make only care about themselves. I don't want to go on a rant but ever since I was a child I have not had many friends. Until my recent college years I ... (203 words)

I don't hear from him for days -- does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3476 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy at a bar 3 weeks ago. He was wearing the shirt of a band I like and I thought he was hot, so I went over and asked for his name and phone number. He seemed shocked but gave them to me anyway, and asked for mine too. We chatted for a while then I had to go back to ... (325 words)

Do I ask her if she likes me or just move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

18 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl, and to make it short, I feel as if she stole my heart an never gave it back. Therefore it's really hard for me to be open to feel anything for anyone else. I told her I like her but she reacted in the way I figured she would, very level headed. She told... (227 words)

He's not speaking to me. Not calling me back. If he cares so little should I be worried about his car insurance premiums?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 4 yrs hasn't spoken to me properly since last sat when he as meant to come down for weekend. he works away. I'm actually and have susected he's actually found someone else... but only the other week he was taking about spending xmas here and finding a job here.. ... (217 words)

Enjoyed our first date together.Is it too much to send her a card wishing her well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

18 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Just a quick one. Went out with someone (first date if you will), and had planned to meet up again soon. She's since postponed this, I think she has a lot on with work - stress etc. Is it too much to send her a card wishing her well? Have sort of done so via text already, bu... (99 words)

Why does my significant other prefer to hang out with her girlfriends instead of me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

18 October 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing this woman for several years now, and I wonder if anyone can shed some light on this matter. What would make a woman hint at making plans with you on a Friday night only to tell you that day that she's going to hang out with her girlfriend and "you can just... (335 words)

If a guy texts me every day is that an indication that he might like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I know it might be a little trivial but if a guy texts you everyday, does it mean he is interested in you? Recently, I got into contact with an acquaintance (who used to be my eye candy!!) and we've been texting everyday since. Both of us are busy individuals so w... (94 words)

I think I'm over him now. He broke up with me. Why is he now reaching out to me, considering he has a new Gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) age 41-50 - My ex dumped me about 1.5 years ago. He's in a relationship with someone else 3 months after our breakup. I was desperate and couldn't move on. I spent over one year to put myself together and decided to move abroad. The last day before I left home, I wrote him an e-mail te... (381 words)

He says my nature is bad. That was his reason for breaking up with me. What was my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy online 3 months back. On the first day itself I had phone sex with him. Initially he was very loving. We were even planning to meet. He used to say if I make you pregnant I will marry you. He said we will make videos while having sex. I said ok to that. Many ... (381 words)

First my Dad cheated. Now I don't know how to face my Mom now that I know she's having an affair with a married man. How can I face this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3477 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - please help me, my mom and dad are divorced my dad cheated on my mom when I was 9 years old. I went through what I thought was the darkest moment of my childhood. Because of this my relationship with my dad is almost non-existent. I survived this ordeal and until now I was pe... (153 words)

Was it strange that my Bf's Ex was checking me out on FB and discovered that I'd blocked her? Then she rang my Bf to ask why I did that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We have had a couple of discussions about his ex. She is gorgeous (I thought she was pretty but reasonably average but his friends and him seem to think she's the hottest thing in the world). I have been quite jealous of he... (208 words)

Is there anything that can be done to increase the friction when my wife and I have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

18 October 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a married male in my early 40s. When my wife and I have sex she gets so wet and slippery that after a while there is almost no friction. The other night I couldn't even feel anything to the extent that I lost my erection. I had to pull out and get myself ready aga... (76 words)

Does she truly love me? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

18 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have being dating a girl for about two years now and I love her very much. before we started dating she had a boyfriend but I loved this girl because she is so jovial,sweet voice and easy to go along with and so respectful. so I started getting acquainted with her like hav... (622 words)

I love my BF. A flat mate seems to have a crush on me. Though not interested, how should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 22 and live with my boyfriend,a gay couple and a single guy. Recently I have begun wondering whether the single guy might have a crush on me. He's really shy and never had a girlfriend. We get on really well but I don't want him to get the wrong idea as I'm happy with my ... (196 words)

After I married her I found out she had worked as a hooker. Can I make this marriage work? Or should I divorce her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) age 36-40 - A year and half ago i happen to know a girl through her relative. She was living in (Country 2) and i was living in (country 3). But we both were from (Country 1) She was there since she was 8 or 9 living with her parents and two siblings. Her family was completely a typ... (690 words)

Despite all the troubles, why does he keep on coming back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3476 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - i dated a boy for nine months, we broke up publicly in may 2014, however soon realising the mistake we had made and that we still loved each other. We tried to continue our relationship in secret. however one night he held a party, but he spent most of it in his room with a g... (548 words)

Does it mean anything that my boyfriend's family still have photos of his ex in their home?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3468 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I stayed with my boyfriend at his parents place recently. We have been living together along with another couple for a year and together for two years. I went to put some clothes away in a drawer for him and found a photo of him with his ex girlfriend in his draw. There... (154 words)

What can I do considering it seems that I am in another abusive relationship and pregnant too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so depressed and need some help/advice... I am 22 on Thursday. I have two kids (3 and 5) and I am 23 weeks with my third. I have messed up my life up so much... I was with a "man" for 5 years and he physically and emotionally abused me to the point where I am now s... (314 words)

It was an awkward first kiss, but does that make me an a pathetic 24 year old loser? What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I just got home from a sort of first date with a guy. We hung out at my house last weekend just to break the ice so I cooked lunch for us nothing major. Tonight we went out for drinks and when it was time to drop me off we were just chatting talking laughing in his car w... (250 words)

Is it ok for me to send this message to a guy I like? In the closet now, but should I just come out to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

18 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - "Hey decided to just be honest. I’m not gay but I am bi, and I kinda want to ^^^ you off. It doesn’t make you gay to let a guy ^^^ you off, like i said i’ve had friends it happened to and they honestly couldn’t tell the difference. I’d be 100% discrete, I wouldn’t tell any... (191 words)

Ten years later, and despite being in a relationship, I am still obsessing about this guy from the past. How can I move on or resolve this ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is taking over my life. I think about this guy constantly and torture myself by looking at his picture on-line a lot! I hear through the grape vine he's a bit of a player (I hate that in a guy.) But still can't stop thinking what could be if we meet...again. ... (525 words)

I feel like he's playing games!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3473 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Over a week ago, my LD bf and I got into a disagreement when I criticized his spending habits. He didn't return my calls and didn't contact me until days later to text me "Happy Birthday" shortly after midnight. Then called me after he got off work the next day acting as if ... (239 words)

Am I overreacting to the photo of his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for two years and his ex girlfriend has been an issue for a lot of that time. This isn't a recent ex, if it were I could maybe understand, but a woman he split up with 10 years ago, they don't have children or never owned a home together. The ... (462 words)

I like him but I'm too shy to talk to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I like a guy, but I'm kinda shy. I don't have the guts to talk to him yet. I had his sister tell him I like him and he said cool. But the thing is, he doesn't know me. I was going to have his sister introduce us, but I don't have enough confidence in myself. But aside from ... (116 words)

I feel like I always mess things up with my Bf, due to my jealousy. How do I get over feeling so jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

18 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I really feel like I'm messing my current relationship up... or going to. I was cheated on in my previous relationship and it left me broken. I am a very passionate and loyal person so it caught me off guard. It's gotten to the point where if I hear a song about cheating o... (305 words)

Turns out that my mother is a prostitute and everyone at University and school knows. Should I move away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

18 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Turns out that my mother is a prostitute and everyone in school and my university knows. OMG!!!!!!!! what can i do? should i move? i cant believe this, i cant even go out! my life sucks, hope no one other than me ever has to experience this. Everyone will always look down on... (75 words)

I miss her. Do you think she is in a rebound relationship? If yes, how long do you think it will last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

18 October 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello, I have a question, but i need to tell you the most important details you will need for decision in the shortest possible way. My ex (also my Classmate!!) had a boyfriend, but I got her from him and she became my girlfriend, they were together for only a week at that... (808 words)

Could I be Bi? How will my parents react if I tell them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3478 days ago

18 October 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm very curious with boys at the moment. I'm madly in love with a girl (A) and she lives far away and she is very hot but there is also a boy who goes to my school, all boys) and he's called (B) I fantasize a LOT about (A and B). I don't know if I'm bisexual yet but like... (205 words)