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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

As an adult do you discuss your sex life with your parents?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - As adults, do you discuss any of the details of your sex life with either (or both) of your parents? Is it normal for a parent to want to know about your sex life? I am 23 years old. I recently started dating a new guy exclusively a few weeks ago, and of course, we have ... (439 words)

My mother in law acts like a jealous lover towards her son, not a mom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Long story short.....my mother in law had an affair with a married man when my husband was still little with a married man with kids, they both left their spouses to be together. she told my husband she's in a unhappy marriage with his step Dad and she wanted him to be there ... (238 words)

My crush is asking for a threesome! Do I do it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My crush asked me to do a threesome, he has this fantasy. he said I could choose any friend /girl/ of mine to do it and make me feel more comfortable. I am interested in having something more with Him, I'm confused. I wouldn't want to do that if it can create tension between ... (116 words)

Waiting in limbo for love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - i met a guy on a dating site and we agreed to stay friends as he didnt feel ready from what i found out its all true , he said he likes me but just not ready hes been trying to lose weight as he is large but that doesnt bother me and he knows this , so i think hes doing this ... (256 words)

We broke up but are now back together but my boyfriend isn't treating me the same

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3479 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've post questions before and I wish to get more advice and opinion.. Recently, me and my boyfriend getting back after a rough breakup and now he's acting like he doesn't interested much like before.. From what he said he make me feel insecure about our relationship. Li... (368 words)

Do I marry him? Or go with the reality that sometimes love isn't enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very torn as to going through with marrying my fiance. My fiance is a wonderful man-he is a great Father to his kids and Father figure to mine. He treats me amazingly well, and is just honest, kind, etc-all the good stuff. However, he has a lot of baggage in terms of... (390 words)

LDR told me to get lost, then told my Mum she was pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

15 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl about a month ago when I was on vacation in Florida. We spent the last week together and I stayed at her place on the beach and we slept together a few times. She said I was the best guy she had ever met and she could see herself having a family with me. I thought ... (355 words)

I feel like I have to do everything myself, or nag!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I am the driving force behind just about everything in my relationship and it frustrates me. I have been with my partner for 6 years, we have two kids.. It often feels like my partner is like a third kid. Every little thing that needs done, whether it is around the ... (235 words)

How do I tell my LDR husband that he should have limitations on contact with other women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3479 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone ;) Hello i have long distance love affair. He lives in iceland and i live in the uk. Were been 5 years known each other he came here back and forth just to see me and then now Recently i visited there and got married. We decided to get married because i... (524 words)

I've lost respect for my boyfriend after finding out what he has done

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3481 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi could you please give me some advice on this please,I met my boyfriend through his female friend,I became friends with her also,because I discovered he was on porn I wstarted chatting to her as I didn't have no one else,because of me being 6yrs older than him,I didn't think ... (123 words)

My boyfriend treats me like one of his kids!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - (Mod note: please explain why you don't have a job or why you are not actively seeking employment as that is the first thing the aunts will ask you.) "I am a carer of 35hrs a weeks lookin after my son with the autism " My boyfriend treats like one of his kids,he moved in wit... (214 words)

He's started avoiding me. Is it over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married. He's got a girlfriend. We both know that we were in this relationship because it "seemed" like the right partners to be with but were both lacking the happiness/love in it. Before I met him, I had already planned to divorce my husband for several other issues BUT ... (442 words)

I'm worried about my daughter never having a family

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My daughter is 28, her boyfriend is 32. They both graduated long ago and both have masters in different fields. They both have VERY good jobs with VERY nice salaries. They both travelled the world. My daughter was on every continent, and more than 40 countries. Their liv... (439 words)

Was I wrong for asking for time and attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in long distance relationship. Never met him. Initially he took out time for talking. But then he started to work for around 16 hours. I understood his commitment for work. But he even stopped messaging. If I asked him something he replied only in 'hmm' 'ya baby' 'ok'. ... (282 words)

This conversation I had with my boyfriend made me a bit worried.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Just some background info first...I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 22. We met on a dating site where we were a 95% match, and hit it off because of our many, many things in common and common interests. We have been in a relationship for 3 months now. He is by far the best boyfrie... (493 words)

Did he just ''love me'' during his bad time? Should I be more distant with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend (we've been dating for about 5 months) was recently going through a tough time overseas and really only had me supporting him from across the ocean. During this time, he was very vocal about loving me and we spoke every single day. It felt like the many miles b... (302 words)

Should I feel bad or guilty? Or is my friend over-reacting to my hook-up with a guy at the gym?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

15 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, so I have quite the dilemma here. I am a gay man in his early 20's. I just recently hooked up with a guy that a friend of mine was messing around with, which I didn't know. I met my friend a few months ago, and later found out that he works at the gym where I usua... (425 words)

Too embarassed to tell my BF. I really want a baby, but he say's financially we're not ready. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I just too feel too embarrassed to tell my partner how I feel. I really want a baby, and he has told me we are not ready financially even though he is ready emotionally. Twice now I have thought I was pregnant because of my stupid irregular periods. I have just found out I'm ... (135 words)

Is it normal to have my guard up? I want to get over my insecurities with my LDR, but fear he'll leave me for someone better.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3481 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I deeply love my boyfriend. I've known him for 3 or so years, been dating for over one year, and am still head over heels for this guy. My heart still flutters when I see his text or call. There has been one hiccup in our relationship, but there was not fighting or arguing and, ... (289 words)

I like one of my good friends brothers. Should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3482 days ago

15 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I like one of my good friends brothers I liked him way before we became good friends He has told me that he likes me back and we've made out on a few occasions but our friendship is always on and off. I really like him and have thought about seeing if we shoul... (119 words)