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Archived questions from: 25 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend cheated on me twice so I ended things but now he's begging to come back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I'm here again, but I must first thank you all for your tremendous help, I'm glad to be a part of this forum. Pls I seek your advice once again. I've been in a relationship for 7years, and I've lived with him for 2years, my boyfriend is amazing in everyother aspect, ... (176 words)

Feeling guilty about ignoring my family. How can I explain that I want a relationship and to see my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all... Briefly, i am in a new relationship.We have been together a month, met on the internet. Yes we had sex soon!too soon, i;m 24, hes 25. He lives in london. He is lovely! we went to wales last weekend and man treated me like a queen, i treated him like a prin... (273 words)

I'm a compulsive cheater and I suffer depressed. What help do I need to stop this cheating? I do love my older Bf

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 30 year old woman in a committed, loving relationship with a man who is nearly 50. I'm a compulsive cheater. I can't help myself and I hate myself so very much. I've had numerous one-night stands with various men. It is hard for anyone to believe me, but I love my ... (66 words)

I'm hesitant about approaching girls. How do I build the confidence to talk to girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

25 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have found I have no drive to approach girls. I am 23 and never had a gf or been with a girl. I complain and get upset about it but I have no drive to really DO anything about it and I don't know why. The saying goes: if you really care about something you will find a way,... (114 words)

I have strong feelings for her. She says we're not compatible. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

25 October 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I am a 46 year old man, after being out of the dating scene for a very long time I met this gorgeous 48 year old lady at work. We got talking initially I asked her out and she declined stating that she was in a complicated relationship. About a few weeks later ... (395 words)

I was drunk and punched my boyfriend in front of his co-workers. Now he's telling me to come get my things!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is a senior managering director in a company with 750 workers and met me at a social event that my company went to and i work in a factory making pies and at another event i got what you would say had far too many drinks and he did not like it and i swore at him ... (151 words)

I really like this boy but I'm 14 and he's 12. I'm worried what people will think

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I have recently meet a boy a couple months ago and I really like him. The moment we started taking we instantly clicked and I feel like I've know him my whole life, I've never meet anyone like him and I feel as though I could tell him anything. The problem? He's 2 years younger ... (113 words)

I'm worried my lack of sexual experience will drive my boyfriend away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 43 and have had a few boyfrineds but it never lasted so am a virgin at 43 and all my life i was a carer for my parents and never went out, since they died i have tried to meet new people but find it hard until i met somebody that is 15 years older than me a widower with 2 ... (151 words)

My husband is being secretive with his cell phone and is not affectionate any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a lady aged 41, my husband is 44,being together for5 years now,our relationship was perfect the past 3 yrs,but now he is secretive especially on his cellphone,he can't even put it down when he goes out or to bathroom, when he charges it, is off,so I don't know what is ... (127 words)

Why is my ex happier with his new girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me last month after a year together. We had a baby before he left as well. Two weeks after our break up he got with a really young girl. Our relationship was not good. He was always at the bar, drunk, doing drugs, cheating, etc. He would abuse me the ... (89 words)

What's the hold up?! Why won't this guy meet me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

25 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been chatting to this guy online for many months now, and I'm really eager to meet him and get to know him more. Every time I ask him when he wants to meet up, he's very evasive and either ignores me or tells me he has too much on his plate at the minute, but when I ask ... (153 words)

My family kept asking my much older boyfriend how old he was and now he's not responding to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is 14 years older than me and has 2 children of 24 and 26, he is 58 and i am 44 and have no children and the age gap has never been a problem to either of us until i took him to meet my family last week who no joke asked him how old he was 4 times and each and ... (143 words)

Is it common for CrossDressers to have multiple personalities that don't always communicate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is a crossdresser as time hit gone on he has become more and more into dressing up for atleast the last 6-9 months he has been doing things like wearing my favorit lingerie while Im not home usually hes on Craigslist looking for other men to have sex with during ... (111 words)

He's a great guy so why am I not more excited about this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice. I live with a great guy, we started house sharing in June. He is the kindest, loveliest man I've ever known. Our feelings for each changed in September and we decided to get together. Its been lovely and everything with him is so easy. ... (220 words)

As an adult how do you make friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3468 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - do you ever run out of things to say in conversation? ie friends? new friends? how not to do this? what's a good way to get to know someone and keep being a good friend without being too intrusive or running out of things to talk about? how do other people maintain ... (148 words)

Is chocolate syrup safe to use with condoms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

25 October 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - For years I have used chocolate syrup on condoms to make them more palatable for girls who don't like the taste of latex in those situations where one of us (or both of us) insist on using a condom for oral sex. It seems to serve the purpose. However, I read recently that ... (93 words)

How do I bring up trying to have a more spicy sex life? My husband isn't very open!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am trying to spice up my sex life with my husband. I yearn for a exciting, sensual, heart thumping sex life with my husband. I would be so turned on if my husband would masterbate in front of me while I masterate for him. How do I even begin to ask or bring it up? Keep in ... (92 words)

Did hiring a escort make me look bad?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

25 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm doing an update since my post "I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?" (I'm 28 now)and have not post anything for few months. Well I hired a escort and done the deed, and I can my experience was not bad as people made it would be. So far I ... (118 words)

Problems with neighborhood kids. Should we call the cops?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - We just bought a new house in a great neighborhood after a week the house right across from us was rented out. Now we regret buying our house cause the their kids put a baseball goal on the road almost everyday and now there's ALOT of kids running around the road eating junk ... (148 words)

I get creepy vibes from my teacher like he's a creepy sociopath

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

25 October 2014 (F) age 30-35 - I think my teacher is kinda cute but I get weird vibes from him. Some of the things he says lately have been really...off and I think he knows I have the hots for him. Once he stood by my table and said I know this is the time your bladders get full and I don't know about you ... (113 words)

I was called names at an event and now my boyfriend hasn't contacted me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

25 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I got involved with someone that i should have not and nothing ever happened between us and realised that i had made a error and never made contact with him again and have now met a nice guy that is my boyfriend, somebody that works for him told him that i had a boyfriend that ... (182 words)