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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why is this guy's behavior so odd? Have I done anything wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy at work who behaves very odd around me. I've noticed that when I'm either speaking or just listening to a conversation in a group, he will stand off to the side, like he's avoiding the group. When I leave to take care of something he then joins everyone. When I ... (135 words)

They all lose interest after I sleep with them

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been trying to meet someone to have a relationship with for quite a while now. I don't have any problems meeting men both online and in real time; however when ever I do start seeing someone I find attractive and seem to get on well with it always follows the same ... (468 words)

Disappointed that I had a lesser role at wedding of my cousin. Should I tell the bride how disappointed I was?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't help but feel a bit hurt over my cousin giving a more important role at her wedding and more thanks/attention in general to her best friend. My cousin made her best friend her maid of honor, and me her matron of honour. I thought it was sweet of her, but besides giv... (242 words)

Do I have a problem, and should I confront my husband about it? Am suspicions that he's cheating, but have no proof.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - A few months ago I posted about my husband coming home from a branch office visit for day (the branch was closing down) and I saw long scratch marks down his arms and small bruises around his wrists. They scabbed over and the marks were there for a few weeks. He told me th... (575 words)

Engaged for a year. Yet he's rarely in the mood for sex. Has our relationship run it's course?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been engaged to my man for almost a year. We dont go out anymore and sex that only happens when i throw a fit. He always says his back hurts but when it's work he is out the door no problem. So all im good for is to wash his clothes and cook and clean. I'm not sure... (84 words)

Should I tell my friend that I kissed her brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for a few years now but last year he admitted that he liked me and we made out, nothing more. We texted a lot but that faded away. Since then I have become good friends with his sister and now view him a bit more as 'my friends brother'. Recently w... (99 words)

So many lies. Can I continue to believe the things my boyfriend alleges are true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend was madly in love with his last girlfriend. I heard all about her in the beginning when we started to date. It seems she broke it off with him and he was having a hard time adjusting to that fact, telling me he didn't know if he would ever get over her. He told... (567 words)

They say that opposites attract and you can complete each other, but is that too optimistic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I need some help in figuring out if opposites really do attract. I'm 18 and I'm starting to like someone who I probably wouldn't usually befriend, not for any negative reasons, but just because we're very different. For example, I like academic and deep conversatio... (257 words)

Does it make me a bad wife to exclude my husband from my social life and travelings?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Doesn't make a bad wife that I don't want to travel with my husband anymore, and more...I don't really want to involve Him in my socialiZing anymore also. We are married for 23 years. I married very very young right after high school, had a child soon and was stay at home... (873 words)

I snooped ... and I think he's cheated on me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

6 October 2014 (?) age 30-35 - I know what I did is bad, but I think what I found is worse... I snooped on my boyfriend's facebook account and found him talking to an ex flame which he told me they're just friends now... I would like a stranger's opinion on whether these kind of messages are "just frien... (225 words)

My friend's dad is cheating and his children don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is having a real life crisis! Any help would be really appreciated. Her brother was helping their dad link his emails to his phone. When doing this he found that their dad has a profile on a sex website. (Where people message each other to meet up...). Th... (113 words)

I'm 21 and pregnant, yet my Bf is denying that the baby is his. What can I say to my parents?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and pregnant and my boyfriend is denying that the child is his child. Now I'm stressed. I don't know what to tell my parents please help.... (30 words)

Is it really my call to pull my alcoholic boyfriend out of rehab?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help and guidance here because I don't know what i am doing or if im doing the right thing anymore. Right ---- so my boyfriend of six months has entered a rehab program for alcohol addiction and due to problems inside there (some guy tried to physically assau... (375 words)

My bridesmaid told me she is a recovering alcoholic! How do I deal with this when I know there will be drinking at the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm getting married next year and I asked one of friends who I have known since college to be a bridesmaid. She had said yes but then proceeded to tell me about being a newly recovering alcoholic. I never knew that she had problems with alcohol or that she drank and she said ... (326 words)

Are there really any gay guys out there who aren't expecting perfection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

6 October 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - So I'm a 19 year old, college, gay guy. And I just feel so behind. I've never been in a relationship in my life. I've never even kissed a guy before and I just feel really lame about it. I feel like everyone's lives are moving forward while mine is staying stagnant. I'm ... (302 words)

Will the Doctor respect my privacy or is it likely that the Doctor will tell my Mom that I'm not a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 17 and my bf and I got carried away in the moment and so three days ago I lost my virginity. My mom is making me go to the doctor for a yeast infection. I know they will ask if I have had sex without my mom in there but can they tell her I'm not a virgin? This is why I wa... (114 words)

Dated a guy who gave me HIV yet he's not supportive to me. What are my options?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

6 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy since early summer. He was unaware he was HiV. We had sex and I was given the HIV virus. It has been a hard depressing Time for me. He is the only one that knows I'm postive. To me he is not showing no support to me. I honestly Want me and... (272 words)

Haven't dated for a while. How frank should I be about my expectations if I sleep with a guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Been out of the dating game for a while. I'm going on a date next week and I'm attracted to the dude I don't want to jeopardize seeing each other a second time, but I may want to sleep with him. Seems dumb to me that people would drop others like hot potatoes over actually... (191 words)

Is there something hypocritical about this relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

6 October 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - How should I understand this situation? History of a relationship 1. Been dating someone for 2 years. 2. We have had some arguments and she says we are through. Has been like 4 times and we don't speak for a few weeks then everything goes back to normal. 3. At least 3 t... (312 words)

What do I do? Which girl do I choose? How do I let my ex down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

6 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Basically I am in a big dilemma in my life. I am 24 and had a ex gf for 3 years (she is 22 btw) and we split up 4 months ago. Due to the fact that we kept arguing, she lived too far, her parents didnt like me, she didnt want to leave home and she did not want to marry an... (260 words)

I feel stuck and miserable in this town. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

6 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm about 20 years old now. I've been married since I was 18 and I'm pregnant with my second child. My husband is amazing, has a great job, and our relationship is just fine. My problem is, shortly before our first was born, we moved to a new state. Went from a large city to a ... (264 words)