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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I spent all my efforts on a girl so I lost most of my friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

1 October 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - So its my senior year of high school and its supposed to be one of the best years of my life. But its not I find myself alone most of the time I only really have one true friend but when hes busy I have no one. Its because my ex I was with her from my freshman year to my ju... (201 words)

Living with my husband's family is putting stress on our marriage!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunties,My relationship with my DH went from us being happy and ignorning all of the conflict around us, to him and I arguing about his parents. We live with his parents and sisters so we can save money for a house of our own. His father holds that above our heads and gets ... (305 words)

The guy I like has an obvious type, and I'm not it. Should I ask him out anyway?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I fancy someone I know, but his taste in girls is so different to me I'm wondering if it's worth going for it or if I should leave it. He's not my usual "type" (I usually date guys who are quite similiar to me, but he's the stereotypical very academic type of medical student ... (276 words)

How long does it take to forgive cheating and rebuild trust?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf cheated twice and he has slowly made changes since then and im on guard but sometimes I feel like he is quick to jump on me about things I do wrong yet I had so much patiences towards him and his wrong doing. Am I wrong for feeling like im not being treated fair? Also i... (138 words)

Am I kidding myself being with a guy with depression?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy on the internet. He is sweet, funny and we get on really well. He did tell me he suffered from depression and because I have supported a fair few people with depression I thought I would try. So I spent the night at his. I take life slowly so we kissed and slept... (187 words)

For his birthday I'm going to tell him 101 things I love about him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hihi! My boyfriend's birthday is coming up.... I'm making like a 101 things I love about you in a jar... Do you think it's a good idea??? Do you think he'll like it??? :O I have to give it to him earlier than his real day as we are gonna be on a school camping trip so I can't ... (95 words)

He's making me feel like a socially awkward loser

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of almost 5.5 years seems to have a problem with the fact I'm close with my family. I have two sisters who I get along with really well, and I also get along with my parents great too. Therefore, I make an effort to see and spend time with all or some of them at ... (319 words)

There's no spontaneous affection from him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years and we live together. We used to have sex not all the time but 5 to 6 times a month or more. But here recently we haven't at all. We used to sleep naked and now he doesn't at all. He uses his hand more then we have sex ... (200 words)

Am I wrong to keep my distance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, so my boyfriend of two months is currently in rehab and he's upset because it's one that's quite neglected, without much support.I have been very supportive, phoning him as much as possible, bringing him things to make him feel better (like tasty treats i know he... (253 words)

I've been trying for six months -- what else can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

1 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Need some advice from bros/sis, this might be a little lengthy. I know that she have other suitors, and i know its common thing for girls.. :(:( Her short background: [SPOILER]Shes Malaysian and divorced before have a kid around 5/6 years old in malaysia Working as beer g... (643 words)

Is my friend insinuating that her husband likes me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted a general question here before regarding a sticky situation which has now become even stickier. I need advice! I feel like my close friend is indirectly setting me up with her husband, or at the very least seems fine with him potentially liking me. While I have a l... (399 words)

He's terminally ill but I have feelings for him. Is it best to walk away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have feelings for an older, terminally ill man. It was a crush at first, we both had serious relationships end (his wife left him and I left my boyfriend) so we'd talk all the time. One night, we were almost intimate but stopped...anyway, I get so worried about him cause he ... (140 words)

Doesnt he like me? Is he ignoring me? Does he hate me or think that I am boring?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy I see on a class once a week. We taled a little bit once, then ten days ago I added him on fb and he accepted my friend request. He liked two of my photos and I one of his. Last week I started two times chatt conversation online with him and we talked each tim... (621 words)

Should I stay or take another break year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello (I'm 23 he's 24) I met a guy in December last year. We just exchanged contact information and almost a week passed before any of us contacted the other. After about a week of texting, he asked me out. I've dated quite a lot for someone my age I've been told, but this ... (657 words)

I'm ashamed and embarrassed of the way my family live and I feel that my B/f will judge me based on this

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A new Cindrella story!!!! Any advice, please? I've been dating a man for some time,who is much older than me.After many years of hard work,he managed to have fame and money too through his talent.he's a musician.He's not extravagantly rich,not even rich at all.He is middle... (294 words)

I still love her but she's with someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

1 October 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I've been wondering wether or not ask someone about this for a while, so I'll just go straight into it. I've had feeling a for a girl for many years now, after finally plucking up the courage to tell her how I felt, she unfortunately did not share my feelings. At the... (239 words)

I'm 19 and like a 15 year old from a different city

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

1 October 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - So I met this girl while I was away for a weekend. I straight away liked her and we hung out a little and I seemed to think got along. The issue is at the time I thought she was 16 or 17 to then find out a few days later when I got home 15. We've only talked so theres no... (324 words)

I know I'll never have a proper relationship if I don't cut contact with my old flame ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

1 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Please bare with me as this will be long! I'm in such a predicament and I'm getting too old for it to be a problem any longer. I was 23 I met someone who no one else has ever come close to. He was everything I looked for in a partner and I know I truly loved him. We had a... (556 words)