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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Over a week ago, my LD bf and I got into a disagreement when I criticized his spending habits. He didn't return my calls and didn't contact me until days later to text me "Happy Birthday" shortly after midnight. Then called me after he got off work the next day acting as if everything was fine. I told him I was busy and he didn't answer when I called back a few hours later. Days later, I called and asked him why he all of a sudden stopped texting or returning my calls, he said he's been really busy at work, commuting, blah, blah, blah... None of these were a factor before the disagreement and none of which I believe are a viable reason to ignore a loved one, someone you should WANT to contact. Plus, I know for a fact that it's not like he has NO free time. If he had told me that he was avoiding me because he was annoyed or whatever then we can work on that but I feel like he's not being honest and I don't know how to deal with it. I don't want to keep fighting about it but I don't want to let it go either, I need resolution and I don't know how to get it at this point. Sorry, I know this is petty but what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2014): There are two ways to handle this conflict. (1) wait it out, and see if he calls you. He will either miss your or not, want to work things out or not. (2) Call him and tell him you need to resolve this issue. If he drags his heels, or continues to play phone games, move on.
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