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I don't think I am that much in love with him. Is it key to a happy marriage to be absolutely in love with your future spouse?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

8 October 2014 (F age 36-40 - The story of my life is that never ever a man who I was in love with and adored was in love with me back. Every time something starts and I feel incredibly in love, after awhile an interest in me fades. My boyfriend is a very nice man. He has a good job, handsome enough,... (298 words

Why would he hide this friendship with this 21 year old?

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8 October 2014 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 45 unbeknown to me has befriended his neighbours granddaughter of 21 as she has been helping out there with the grand parents who have been unwell. He works from home and she is next door helping every day as she is unemployed. I had no idea she had been cal... (242 words

Does this suppressing of feelings really work? Will she just eventually forget all about me?

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8 October 2014 (F age 36-40 - Does suppressing your feelings after a breakup really work? My ex of two years and I split up a few weeks back and since then, it has seemed she doesn't care at all. I seem to be the only one having a hard time. According to her, we are just coping differently. she just dove ... (235 words

Why would a guy avoid saying your name?

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8 October 2014 (F age 36-40 - I've known this guy for a long time through friends, and I've noticed he never, or rarely, says my name. In a group setting he always refers to me in a group as "she", rather than my name. He'll say things like "what is SHE doing?", "I think it's HER turn", like he won't look ... (217 words

I'm still left wondering.... does he see a future for us?

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8 October 2014 (F age 26-29 - what does he want from me ?!?!? me and my partner have now been dating for nearly 4 years and its fair to say we have had our shares of ups and downs. but now I'm left wondering what is it he wants... a couple of weeks back he said that he wasn't sure whether or not he... (273 words

I want to be a better boyfriend and be able to trust her again, how do I do that?

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8 October 2014 (M age 30-35 - (Sorry for the length but I have to vent)... Me and my gf have been dating since we were 16, she was absolutely perfect, beautiful smart funny. Everything I've ever wanted! I've had girlfriends before but never as serious as her. She was very hesitant when I asked her out but ... (1417 words

It seems that feeling left out has become a self-fulfilling prophesy, any suggestions?

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8 October 2014 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I feel sad as I haven't got very many friends or people to connect with and share my feelings to. You know how women have a support network and they share things amongst one another, like they might have girly chats on the phone and talk to one another about st... (161 words

I'm really down over a family sex affair!

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8 October 2014 (F age 51-59 - I was working my normal Sunday shift and was able to get out early. When I came home I saw my sister in laws car parked in my driveway. I thought it was odd she was at our house,then thought it was probably my brother who was there. I went inside and caught my husband and my ... (443 words

I've discovered what he and his mother think about me and it's very hurtful! I don't know what to do next!

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8 October 2014 (F age 30-35 - My bf of 4yrs and I are currently on a sort of "break". It has been about a month now. The reason for the break is something very minor and working towards repairing our relationship. Today I logged into my other laptop and I realised that he'd not logged himself out of f... (540 words

My girlfriend runs hot and cold. We are engaged but she has cut down the time we spend together!

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8 October 2014 (F age 41-50 - hi im a gay woman in my 30s and engaged to my girlfriend who i dont live with but i do stay most nights and go home a couple of nights a week because she did want space and not to live together until were married which is all fair enough. i know all relationships need space. ... (270 words

How do I put these thoughts back where they belong and continue building on our relationship?

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8 October 2014 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year and have lived together for 8mos. We have set up a cozy little house and love spending time together as a couple. We basically have the "perfect" relationship (if there is such a thing, I think you get my point though). We both have ... (365 words

I need help to know why he is behaving like this!

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8 October 2014 (F age 22-25 - im a quiet type of girl until i know the person. There is this guy in our school. During the first day of our class he was sitting with another girl as there was no other place left. I was sitting behind them with my friend. Later that day our teacher changed the seating... (493 words

Am I putting my own future first or am I being selfish? How can I improve?

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8 October 2014 (M age 30-35 - This has been happening for a long time now, and I always attributed it to a lack of confidence and trying to constantly please other people. I can be a really confident/outgoing person when I want to be, but recently, I have begun to notice things about myself that have really ... (298 words

Can you help me interpret this whole situation? Am I just admiring him or am I starting to like him?

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8 October 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone :) I have met him during a summer program in my school which lasted 8 weeks. We didn't really talk much, if we ever passed each other we would just say 'hi'. I never actually payed attention to him during those 8 weeks even though I knew he was a genius. We are m... (746 words

Bf watches porn but rarely gets intimate with me. Is it time to call it quits with him?

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8 October 2014 (F age 30-35 - We've been together for 3 yrs now. We've lived together for a yr until we graduated college. I still see him everyday and spend most of my days with him. When we first started sleeping together, we would play around in bed almost every night (we didn't want to do sex bc we both ... (670 words

Can someone please help me to stop feeling so sad and anxious about bullying at school?

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8 October 2014 (M age 22-25 - Every often i used to get shame because of my face. When the clock goes time to go to school, i feel upset because i have an ''afraid feeling'' of being bullied once again. Bullying makes me feel like I can't stand for being an ugly freak. Can Someone help me to stop being s... (64 words

How do I let him know he needs to step up as a man and woo me?

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8 October 2014 (F age 41-50 - BIG DILEMMA. My LDR boyfriend who has been chatting me up non-stop everyday is coming to visit me next month. His plans according to him is to hopefully meet my parents, discuss his plans to relocate and scout around my town for business and future job opportunities so he has t... (290 words

Should I ask her if she wants a relationship, or just be friends?

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8 October 2014 (M age - I'm divorced for 5 years. I'm looking for a relationship. I have a friend, a woman I've known for 15 years. I met her when our kids were going to school together. We've been dating, going out to dinner having drinks for about a year now, but she seems to keep me at arms ... (192 words

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