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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there a way for me to make my mother understand that she's not being left out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3459 days ago

17 October 2014 (?) age 26-29 - Hey everyone, I'll keep this short. Basically, I have never been the sort of person that discusses my feelings or anything relationship related with my friends and family, there is no reason for it, I just don't like talking about it with people. I've never discussed any ... (221 words)

Is he interested? We are playing the part of husband and wife in a drama at his suggestion!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok. Here's the deal. I've been attending a new church for about 6 months. After a few months or thereabouts I have a thought that the worship pastor and I would make a good fit. Move forward a few months and he sends me an email (only me) asking if I want to take part in a ... (134 words)

He says he doesn't want sex with me because he's bored!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 22, we used to have sex like 6-8,times a month which I was fine with but now he doesn't want to do it at all because he says he's bored. And it really hurt a lot. Shouldn't we be doing it a lot more since we are young?,I've never had a problem with ... (95 words)

What do I do about my nitpicking fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I moved in with my fiancé. I am finding out that he is a nitpicker. He tells me how to cook or what I should do with this or that recipe. He was the first one to ever complain about a recipe that I have cooked for years and years that everyone has always loved during... (535 words)

He's odd because he's very hot and cold one minute really likes me, the next behaving like an idiot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont understand guys! I've been doing a bit of online dating, met a guy we went out for a drink, we got on really well but i didnt fancy him at all. He text me a few days later and asked me out on a second date which i agreed to, just to make sure... We went out for din... (849 words)

Still hung up on a guy from my past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3450 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so, I'm having a little bit of an issue with a guy that I used to have a crush on from earlier this year. Sorry if this is a tad lengthy, but I promise I'll make it a good read. Back to last August, I was dating this one guy that I really cared about. He was the only guy... (525 words)

She never seems to have time for us to talk

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3464 days ago

17 October 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Well, I've been dating my gf for 29 months now. We are in high school. We talk everyday in class but only for a short time cause everytime we try to talk, our classes start. So yesterday I got really annoyed by her behavior when she promised to spend time with me but didn't and ... (113 words)

He says that he loves me only after a month of dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - {Moderator note: two related questions from the same OP combined} Hey, so, I'm feeling a little out of sorts. I've been dating this guy for a little over a month now, and he said that he loves me. I was completely shocked, and I didn't really feel like I thought I would ha... (414 words)

He doesn't show me love or appreciation! Should we just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up in June 2014, but then we decided that we waned to be together and work things out. So we are still broken up and we are trying to build our self back into a relationship. He moved back in and the first month he moved back in things was perfect! He ... (304 words)

He asked me to marry him but has no notion to set a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So I got engaged August 11th of this year. We are together two years . He told me the day we got engaged we will set a date 2 weeks after so I got excited and thought he really wanted this. I had my hopes built up but instead he got my mind busy with a small engagement party. ... (209 words)

Why did he suddenly brush me off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - A question mostly to men: Why would a man show interest in a woman only to complete ignore her all of a sudden and not even look at her or say hi when he sees her, when the last time he saw her he insinuated otherwise? He does know I am in a relationship, but why is he not ev... (259 words)

Early 20s and having sexual issues. Why does this keep happening?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I'm a college student in my early 20s and I really need some help. For quite some time, I've been having some troubles with my sex drive/virility in general. Whenever I'm able to get an erection, it is almost always at "half-mast", since about a year + some mont... (431 words)

Do I walk away? I'm torn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone... I realy need objective advice, here. OK (((*deep breath*))) it's a bit of a long story... Been dating a guy for 6 months during which time I discoverred he had an alcohol problem. (Yikes) I supported him but then one night he ran away for the weekend with a ... (276 words)

What is causing the u-turn in these relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Firstly, thank you for reading, and secondly I hope you can help! So I’ll keep it as brief as possible. I’m a 27 year old lesbian and I have been back on the dating scene for about 6 months now, having previously been in a 3 year relationship that ended on ... (593 words)

Can people be in long term stable relationships that they don't realize are wrong for them until a particular passion comes about with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Without dragging out too many details, I joined an outdoor activity club over a year ago and met a guy on a weekend away with it, at the time we were both in relationships but after I got home he messaged me just general chit chat and it has continued on as very long ongoing ... (242 words)

I'm pregnant and not happy with the demands my boyfriend is making of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am pregnant and due feb. I havent been with the dad for long.. the baby was defo a surprise. Heres my problems - I have moved in with my new partner just a mth ago.. he wont let me bring my cat which ive had for 9 yrs he wont let me find out the sex and when he wa... (180 words)

Is this normal for friends with benefits? Or is this leading to maybe more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Aunts and uncles.. This I'd a question about how friends with benefits should act. I'm super confused, as I've only had one other before this one. So.. Here it goes. Me and a guy we'll call Matt, recently started hooking up about a week and a half ago right. I met him... (340 words)

Will he ever forgive me for the way I broke up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I just ended a pretty horrible 2 and a half year relationship. There is no justification but I did it through text message. Each time we talked on the phone prior to break up it would start and I would say that I wanted to break up and then he would just grid me down and by t... (105 words)

I lost my virginity. What should I do? Talk to my Dad? Or talk to my Dad's apprentice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3459 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm a 16 year old girl and I ended up losing my virginity with my dad's apprentice. My dads apprentice (J) is 18,and I've known him for 3 years . He came round last week to drop off the keys to my dad's work car. I was home alone as my family was at a party. I invited him in... (109 words)

He has a tattoo of his ex. And he kisses it. Does this mean he's still in love with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend had a tattoo of his ex inked on him a long time ago, when they were together. They haven't been together for a long time now and my boyfriend and I have been together going on 2yrs. I constantly see him kissing or looking at his ex's tattoo, but tries to hide wh... (73 words)

Huge crush, but now she has resigned. Why!?! What the hell is wrong with me? Have I let my lunatic ego take control?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Turning 50 is not fun. My loving wife after 25 years of marriage tells me time has been kind to me and she still calls me sexy. I adore her. She is as lovely as the day I first saw her. I have always been somewhat shy. I never considered myself to be hunkish or even somewhat... (851 words)

Passive Agressive: What should I do, and how shoudl I react and respond to his behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - How to deal with passive aggresive boyfriend? We've just get back from breakup and now he treats passive aggressive. He texted me yesterday I reply and he left it there didn't text back. But after 3 days he treated me this way, I don't show that I'm bothered and I don't find... (142 words)

Is it possible to stay married, and be happy, even though you are not romantically interested in your husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I are trying to work things out after many months of suffering because of my affair. I have hurt him so bad that I realized he loved me after believing we were just living as roomrates which I got so used to. My problem is that I care for him deeply and I... (220 words)

Friend has set us up for a date. What's the best way to meet? Suggestions, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - A friend from work is setting me up with a girl she knows. My work friend has obviously pre-vetted each of us in that we know the other isn't crazy. What's the best way to meet? I was thinking about just asking from her number, calling, and asking her out for a drink. She woul... (74 words)

Was a wrong to contact a women to see if her baby was my boyfriends ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently found out that a few months before my boyfriend met me he had an affair with a married women . I found old text messages he still had on his iPhone with nude pics they sent each other. he admitted he slept with her but didn't know she was married this was before me ... (465 words)