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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm just not feeling it for him. He should be perfect for me but I'm not feeling a connection or a spark.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal to date someone and not be in love with them? And if you are not in love with someone, is likely to change? I've been seeing someone for about a month who should be perfect for me. I did meet him on a dating website--the only time I have ever done that--and I... (398 words)

Whenever he said her name or showed me her photo, I could feel the hairs on the back of my neck stand up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, a high school friend of my husband's has contacted him. He has had female friends before and works with lots of women, which I've never had an issue with so I'm certainly not the jealous type, but this woman gives me a funny feeling. Whenever he said her name or ... (286 words)

My girlfriend is not making an effort to do things for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

21 October 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I do a lot for my girlfriend and I don't feel like she is doing much for me. She doesn't really ever surprise me, give gifts, or even just little things. It kinda makes me unsure how much she likes me. Her birthday is in 2 days and I'm not sure how much I want to do. Its not ... (76 words)

Can soul mates find each other at such a young age?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there people, I was just wondering is it possible to meet your soul mate in school. I have been with my boyfriend 7 years (since we were 15). We have an amazing relationship i really couldnt complain. We both have good career paths hes a project managment apprentice in ... (321 words)

Should I accept a fixed term contract if I'm offered it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am trying to stand on my own two feet financially after a very bad break up with an abusive ex partner. I have worked at a university on 2 temporary contracts with different departments (yearly contracts, but limited hours/not enough to really live on) for the third ye... (547 words)

Cheating boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend known each other for 10 years but have been together romantically for the last year. A few weeks ago I noticed he had been sending sexual messages to another girl over skype; when I called him up on it he broke down in tears, admitted sending the messages ... (112 words)

Boyfriend went away on a trip and I am upset it was not a long, romantic good bye like I expected.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend went away with his family for a couple of weeks on a holiday. Before he left, he kissed me on the lips. That was it. We talked for 45 minutes first. He was joking and playful with me. Generally seemed happy to be with me. He kissed me already once during this... (241 words)

I'm in love with him but there's another woman in his life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid am dating a man I met and dated two years back we broke up that time and I got married to another man, now my marriage did not workout so am single now and this man I knew before has asked that we be together again, I have fallen inlove with him now, he says he loves ... (269 words)

Lost him after 8 1/2 years overnight

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age - 8 1/2 years we were together through all kinds of troubles but after 8 1/2 years he ended it in a cruel way. I think he planned ahead. Came to my house took things he hdId for and ended it by telling me I was selfish stubborn ect.... I was in shock , in the past he would always ... (275 words)

Is it okay for my girlfriend to sleep in another guy's bed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

21 October 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I just recently started dating someone new and she has had a lot of friends that are guys most of which state she's hooked up with or has had sex with in the past two weeks ago she slept over at her friends house which was a guy in the same bed and she has had sex with him in ... (110 words)

I love my husband but I've fallen out of lust with him. Will the feelings come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone Thanks for offering advice I've been married for 10 years like everyone we've had a few ups and downs but the bottom line is we love each other very much and I'd say my hb is my best friend, again like many relationships our sex life has taken a natural eas... (226 words)

My parents object like crazy that I wanna go out with a guy alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3473 days ago

21 October 2014 (?) age 22-25 - Hi there :) I recently told my parents that I like a guy and that he likes me too. And I really wanted to gain their trust of just hanging out with a guy. They object like crazy that I wanna go out with a guy alone. Which in a way I understand cuz they are afraid if the gu... (186 words)

Sleep-over: Just friends or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Background: I met a guy at a concert. After talking and dancing the whole night, we exchanged #s. Then, we sent flirty texts to each other and finally met up last Sunday for afternoon drinks, which turned into a fun night of hanging out with his friends. Thi... (246 words)

Am I trying too hard to get this girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

21 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. Quick recap: Met a girl at a bar and we hung out the entire night. Danced, laughed, etc. I drove her home and we kissed outside her door. Made out up the staircase almost to her main door entrance. Not only made out but she let me put my hand inside her pants on... (351 words)

He said he liked me and was going to ask me out but then asked out another girl instead!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - So I have been talking to this guy, and he was honest about liking me and this other girl, he told me I was the one he chose and how it was going to be me, and then he asks out the other girl and I really started to fall for him and his been my Bestfriend since forever and I ... (112 words)

Is my boyfriend gay? Would another guy not want me because of the acne between my legs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years the past few months our sex life has been dead! Now we are busy I work all the time an we have kids but we have had times where we can have sex but we both don't act on it I keep telling him I am tired of this sexless ... (246 words)

I have a double standard when it comes to porn and it makes me feel disgusted and humiliated with myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel completely disgusted and humiliated with myself. I am 23 and feel like the worst woman on the planet. In high school and at times in college I explored pornography (much more then). My fiancé has confessed as well that he would look at pornography in college and before ... (244 words)

I'm not jealous or possessive but I am worried about this guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

21 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi people. First of all, I'm not a very jealous guy or possesive, but I'm a bit worried about this. Me and my girlfriend are both 22, we have been dating for 7 months aproximately. But lately I'm concerned that she is spending too much time with her friend (another girl). ... (265 words)

Is my group fitness instructor boyfriend fliritng or just being friendly with women in his class?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

21 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. My boyfriend is a group fitness instructor. I met him as one of the participants in his class. I noticed that he seems to talk to the women in the class while conducting the class. He jokes, takes part in playful banter back and forth. Sings. Tells joke... (480 words)