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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sometimes my boyfriend is a mean drunk!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

7 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is lovely 99% of the time but sometimes when hes drunk he can be mean. Not everytime but about 50% of the time that hes drunk he will say things as a joke but i think he means it. An example being at the weekend he said i had a fat face, then talked of how my feet ... (217 words)

Seeing my ex has brought up all these feelings of being an oddity, help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

7 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Its probably a bad idea to ask for advice on this subject but I'll give it a go. I know its silly but I would like some opinions. I am going to be 18 in a couple of months and about 3 weeks a go something really weird happened. I'll give... (1200 words)

My fiancé has a past of the 'down low' lifestyle, should I believe him that he no longer wants sex with men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

7 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - If my boyfriend/fiancé has had a past life style of having sex with men can it be possible that he's no longer into that lifestyle since being in the relationship he has with me? This is what he claims is that it's over that past life style and he no longer thinks about it or ... (68 words)

I am starting to wonder if he will ever propose!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

7 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. I am watching everyone I know get engaged, married and have children and I am starting to wonder whether he will ever propose. I want a family life with children, so I cannot accept a life without weddings/kiddies. I don't know what to ... (97 words)

I'm still thinking of my ex even as I'm worried about developing feelings for my potential FWB! Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

7 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! :) hey... I really need your advise on something that's been bothering me almost this whole year...I've asked people but most of them just brush my issue away,and advise me to just move on..but its not an easy thing to do...so please do help me out and I shall be really ... (500 words)

How can I let her know I am interested, without being too pushy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

7 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I am an expat from the UK in Austria. Last weekend, I played rugby 2 hours away from home and we won quite well. After the game, a girl who lives in that city came and talked to me as I was walking back to the dressing room. She was complimenting me on how well I played, a... (338 words)

Please stop this ride, I want to get off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

7 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid,I still find myself still crushing over a guy I met years ago.We talk on and off from time to time.I still keep in contact with his family even though we aren't together.This man keeps sending me on a emotional ride and I really don't know how to get off this ride ... (68 words)

My boyfriend spends more time with his ex than he does with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

7 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has been spending a lot of time with his ex girlfriend. This has been going on since they split up a year ago. I tried to be tolerant of the situation as I didn't want to control his life. I did however bring it up with him once and he said that I didn't have an... (187 words)

I extend the hand of friendship, but they do not reciprocate.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

7 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I am not sure what to do about friends/acquaintances coming into town. Should I let them stay at our flat or just give them the brush off? I should start by saying I am in the performing arts or use to be with my DH and I am not much anymore. Several years ag... (379 words)

What should I do, the lack of communication has me confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

7 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - 6 months ago i went on a trip around europe for 3 weeks. I met a man and we continued to keep in touch after i left the trip. I live in Canada, he lives in England. When I returned home initially we talked a regularly. he even surprised me by calling me through Viber one even... (756 words)

We want different things but I keep going back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

7 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I keep going back and forth with my ex. Every time I say I'm done, boom, a few weeks later I'm back at his apartment. He has told me that he does not want a relationship right now and isn't ready to get back together. He claims needs to figure out his life, and blah blah. He ... (194 words)

My girlfriend breaks up with me, over and over and over again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

7 October 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - okay I'm really confused on this one. I am 47 my girlfriend 45. Will be going out for 6 months and ever since day one she continually breaks up with me.I mean literally she can break up with me more than once in a week and then she comes running back or I go to her. So the ... (194 words)