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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Attending college leaves me little time to work out

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all! Hope everyone is having a good week. Some of you may remember I posted a question a few months back about losing weight, I bought an exercise bike and managed to lose a stone! However I am now having some problems with it, and would love some more advice, as the a... (623 words)

I only seem to hear from people when they need my help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

4 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Helo.i usually help my friends and most of the time when they are ok i don't hear from them and this has happend to me for the 3rd time , i don't understand, like i don't expect something in return when i help someone, but it bothers me so much to help someone i know then whe... (130 words)

She told me she has a boyfriend but now she's calling me every day

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

4 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi,i met a girl on some online dating,so we text for like 3months ,she told me she has a bf, but he does not take her seriously so when she tell me this i thought she gave me ammo,so we agreed to meet one day cause she stays almost 1hr away from my town then we met last wee... (238 words)

I've never been attracted to anyone and it scares me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never met anyone who has made me think "Wow, I want to be with you." I worry because I'm afraid it may never happen. Is this a common phenomenon? To make this clear, I do have sexual attraction to actors and such, but I've never had a crush on an "actual" person. I... (232 words)

I'm Hindu, he's a Roman Catholic and neither of our parents will budge

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi readers, I'm really in a mess. Belong to India and I am a Hindu. My bf is a Roman Catholic. His parents want me to convert and my parents are dead against getting converted. We both really love each other but due to caste issues, we both are getting tensed. Both parents ... (92 words)

My new boyfriend can only become aroused by blowjobs

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My new man will not get hard for me. After making out, kissing, touching...nothing. I did a sexy dance for him and thought it was working when I spotted something in his pants...but after finishing, I realised it was only my imagination! He was not at all hard. He says he ... (244 words)

My 17 year old niece was extremely rude to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, this might sound trivial but it is really upsetting me lately. My niece is 17 and throughout her teenage years she has been a typical sulky teen. However since her 17th birthday she has been downright rude to me. She lives in another country so I sent her birthday... (240 words)

I want to see a doctor about a reoccuring UTI, but I have some concerns

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - My age is kinda important in this so, I'm 16. Every time I've ever had sex I've gotten a uti afterwards. I always pee when we're done, but I still get one. I've even tried peeing at different times afterwards. One time I peed right after me and my boyfriend were done. (I li... (370 words)

I haven't had a significant other in years and I'm feeling very lonely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like I am dying of lonliness. It has been years since I have had a significant other. I meet men who are interested, but I am not. The last sexual encounter I had was a horrible one night stand because I was desperate to feel human (loved) again. Sex is part of what ... (96 words)

I have mixed feelings about my husband's ex girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3490 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I was raised with the values of compassion.Long story short I got married to a guy who was with other girl for 6 years before plunging in love with me.They were in constant fighting/breakup mode during the last two years of it that is when I came into his life. M... (278 words)

Every time I try to ask her out, I fold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

4 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - For the past few months now ive had really strong feelings about a girl i work with, its now got to the point where i cant stop thinking of her all day and night! This girl is amazing, tall, funny and mind blowingly stunning! Where as im just your average Joe guy. Ive never ha... (132 words)

I love my boyfriend and don't want to leave, but how can I make him see what a monster he is when he's drunk?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance has a binge drinking problem. When we are on a night out, its as if he just can't get enough and he doesn't know when to stop. He blows all our money on it too! And he gets violent.Last night, he was invited with me to a function and I was so looking forward to him ... (278 words)

I thought it was a relationship, but he was just "test driving the car"!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid.. Did I over react? I was talking to my bf the other night, and we talked about sex in relationships and I was saying how I prefer to wait until its been a little while in a relationship before sex. So as to get to know the other person. I though he agreed with me, ... (328 words)

I need to see a doctor but I'm afraid my mother will assume I'm sexually active

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My vagina has had a fishy ordor on and off again for the past year or two and I know I should have gotten checked out by a doctor a long time ago but I'm not sexually active so I'm worried my mom wont believe that because I want to see a doctor. Is there any soaps that wou... (65 words)

My mom is going to visit me but I cant stand the way she constantly criticizes me. How do I handle her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My mother and father are visiting my brother and his family today and tomm its my turn, they will be staying with me. I live alone. They live interstate and I see them maybe twice a year, I enjoy catching up with them, and we mostly get along, as long as I avoid too personal... (381 words)

Was this office hug inappropriate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I started a job a couple months ago. I work with a group of Christians. My boss is a woman and her boss, the big boss is one of the owners. He and I had a meeting the other day and after the meeting was over he asked me for a hug. I said okay and hugged him. As we were about to ... (106 words)

What's the deal with this girl? Is she playing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

4 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok... So basically at work, we had this national conference (a place to mingle). Anyways I went to work the next day at my local branch, and received an email from this girl who I noticed was at the conference. Asking if I enjoyed it. This was a shock to me, because she must ... (211 words)

Is my boyfriend more likely to cheat by associating with cheaters?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with two of my boyfriend's (boyfriend of 2.5 years) friends. He has three people that he considers his very best of friends: Me, a guy we shall refer to as B and a girl we shall refer to as G. I like both B and G as people. G occasionally has issues with ... (263 words)

Should I just give it up and stop wasting my time on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm confused and need advice. I like this guy and love talking to him. He admitted he also likes me and would go on a date with me when he is in the city. We have had all night long conversations but why am I ALWAYS the one to initiate? Sometimes he doesn't even reply or ... (127 words)

I only want sex with my boyfriend when he is emotional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

4 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - How bad is this? In my current relationship that I've been in for years we always have this problem and that's our sex life. The problem is I have a very low sex drive compared to my boyfriend who wants it almost 24/7 (he is older than me by a few years he isn't the same a... (147 words)