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I told him I wanted more but now I miss him like crazy

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9 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy in class. He's 23 and I'm 21. We got along so well and I felt really comfortable with him. He got my number because we planned to do a study group with 2 other people and from there he started texting me everyday. He asked me to hang out with him on his ... (338 words

How much angry behavior is too much?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

9 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - How far is too far? My husband got really mad this morning. I'm a house wife and I'll admit I'm not the best at keeping up with everything. I had two loads of laundry in baskets on the floor this morning. I had folded one load and just needed to put it away. My husband could... (343 words

I want to say sorry in a Christmas card!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3387 days ago

9 December 2014 (M age 36-40 - Does anyone know how to write an apology in a Christmas card? I've never been good with words so I'm not sure if i should just wish the person i care about a happy holiday or to just say "I'm sorry" for hurting them? Ideas? I screwed up and said some hurtful things when i wa... (114 words

The drama is getting too much ...........

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9 December 2014 (F age 51-59 - I am dating an almost divorced man. His final court date for his divorce is in February and that's it. For the past month his soon to be ex is in overdrive trying to patch things up even though she filed. I beleive when she filed it was to scare him into running back but ... (257 words

He is trying so hard but my trust is gone

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9 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm in a horrible situation and I would like some advice please. Me and my boyfriend of 5 years had a horrible year last year, I went through a stage where I didn't think the relationship was for me and broke his heart and walked away. After two months by... (865 words

He isn't willing to spend New Years with me and his friends because his ex will be there. Am I overreacting?

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9 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Going to try and keep things to the point. I am 22, the guy I am involved with is also 22. We are not in a relationship but that is what we're working towards, there have been a few hiccups in our situation which is why we aren't official just yet. I met him i... (584 words

How can I get over my brother-in-law?

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9 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have had a crush on my brother-in-law for over a year. I thought this feeling would go away, especially when we live quite far from each other. I am always happy to see him and to know that he's doing good. We get along well and are pretty friendly to each... (196 words

My boyfriend has had incest fantacies and it only complicates from there

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9 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 1 year has had a past form his teenage years where he writes and fantasizes on online portals, about sex with his mom. I was never aware of this and have recently came across this profile of his. He has used her real name there and I even suspect that its his ... (255 words

I feel lonely, tired and depressed!

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9 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I was in long term relationship (3 yrs) and broke up about a week ago, i still think we broke up. Long story short, he became verbally emotionally abusive for past 1 yr, ignoring me for weeks, not spending any time with me, calling me names if i ever quest... (241 words

My obsession is screwing up our friendship!

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9 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - I feel so bad and low these days and need help! I really like this friend of mine who puts up in another city. I know there is no future since I have to move abroad, make a career while he is from a very rich background, settled with career and planning to get married in a ... (165 words

My visiting a strip club upset my girlfriend ... how do I fix this?

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9 December 2014 (M age 36-40 - I need help fixing things with my girlfriend. Over the last few months she has gone off sex quite a bit and we only really have it once a week just now. She's been to the doctor who said she is physically fine so it might be stress or something. I've been very frustrated and ... (243 words

I want to initiate contact!

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9 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - I go running at the park nearby. There is a guy who has shown interest in me multiple times. I am also somewhat attracted to him. I have never spoken to him but he must be married and in his late 30's or early 40's. I am also married and I will turn 30. recently he tried ta... (112 words

I don't want to pay for her martinis and lobster plate.

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9 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - I have a question on what to do in this situation., We go out once a month with my girlfriends. we usually split the check equally., We noticed long ago that one of the girls when we re out orders in exess. By that I mean: she orders always the biggest and the most expensi... (208 words

I kissed his friend years ago ..... should I tell my boyfriend?

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9 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and we have a great relationship, he's 23 and I'm 22. We have not yet had sex because we want to wait a few more months as we are both virgins but this is a pretty irrelevant detail. Four years ago when I lived on campus,... (434 words

He went from being passive aggressive towards me to being very kind..is that weird?

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9 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Well, a few months ago me and this guy were talking to each other and he had asked me out to dinner with him. I insisted that I would eventually go out with him, but 3 weeks later me and my ex got back together. (I never went to dinner with him either) I text the guy and... (250 words

Why do men persist when they know you are aleady attached?

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9 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hello all, just curious, are there guys out there who despite knowing that a lady is attached, still goes all the way out to ask her out on dates because he is interested in her? And if so, why would they do that when there are many ladies who are available? ... (51 words

I've gone a week and a half no contact, how long should I wait before contacting her again?

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9 December 2014 (M age 41-50 - Hi there, I began dating a friend of mine who is 40 years old and her and I were together for 11 months. It seemed like things were serious as she moved to a townhouse closer to me so that we could see each other during the week. During the time we were together I was going ... (406 words

Would every man cheat if he could?

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9 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - I have big problems trusting men One of my friends claims that almost every man would cheat on his wife if given the opportunity to with a woman with a porn star body if he could be guaranteed not to be caught The sad thing is I think she might be right I can honestly sa... (153 words

My mother sucks the joy out of life.

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9 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - Limiting or completely putting a stop to spending time with toxic people is always recommended. But, what if that person is your mother? I feel sorry for my mum because she is SO insecure that she leeches the life and energy from anyone she spends time with. It is exhausting ... (542 words

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