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My boyfriend always puts me last to everything...

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7 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We will be a year in about two weeks. Anyways, I just always feel like he puts me after everything. Money, friends and skateboarding. I work 8-5 so when I come home from work I just wanna chill at home, ya know? He'll ... (346 words

I don't match his preferences so I'm leery of dating him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 836 days ago

7 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - I met man online and we have become very close . The only concern I have is that he is a self confessed 'leg man' . Being that I am only 5 foot and my breasts are by far my best physical assets I feel like I would be starting a relationship already knowing that I'm lacking ... (170 words

I'll never be his perfect trophy wife -- I think he's settling for me

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7 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hi guys it is my first time writing on this so here goes... Ive been seeing this guy for around 6 months now and its been very rocky... our personalities clash on so many levels but we cant help but feel what we do for each other... we recently said that we love each other ... (423 words

I am always scared that my boyfriend will fall in love with someone else, cheat on me, or break up with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 837 days ago

7 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I'm a very anxious person when it comes to relationships and I still haven't found a way to fix it. When I'm in a relationship, I get very worried about my boyfriend crushing on other girls or cheating or just breaking up with me. I think it's normal to be worried about yo... (552 words

My husband slept with his cousin before we married and I can't get over it!

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7 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - My husband slept with he's cousin before we got together. she doesn't live in the same state as us.but when she comes down we obviously run into her seens she part of the family i don't like being around her or even the thought that she slept with my husband she's a whore I ... (119 words

Why am I never good enough for more than dating or them wanting sex?!?

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7 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - Why am I never good enough for more than dating or them wanting sex?!? They don't get the goodies, but that seems to be the only thing men want from me. I'm an attractive woman and get told this many many times by men and women alike. I'm good-hearted, have reams of confide... (211 words

My boyfriend didn't back me up when someone attacked me verbally. Is he not right for me?

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7 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I flatted with another couple and a guy this year. We moved out of the flat a couple of weeks ago but I still have to finish collecting my stuff and do a clean. I have planned to do this in two weeks time. Our lease runs out in mid january. Yesterday the girl... (230 words

Why does my boss avoid me and give just one word answers to my questions?

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7 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Can I please get some opinions on something that recently occurred. Last week we had our works Christmas party and it was a really nice evening except that I think my boss was avoiding me... Now just to give you some background - I barely speak to him during work unless ... (295 words

What's the point of giving her a card?

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7 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - A guy is in a committed relationship married, however fell for another woman and flirted with her. However, he was not aware really that he was falling for her until she was about to leave the company. I want to know what is the point of giving her a card which tells how ... (70 words

Why is my affair partner behaving this way?

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7 December 2014 (M age 51-59 - It just doesn't make any sense to me because one week she's all affectionate and the following week she's missing in action. It seems as if this behavior pattern has actually gotten worse now that she is officially separated and ironing out the details of a divorce. One the o... (150 words

Has anyone else had second thoughts about getting married?

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7 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - I am 20 and my fiancé is 23. We have been dating for 4 years (so since I was 16). We are both in college and about to be finishing up. We are set to get married in 6 months. However, I'm feeling doubtful. He is the most respectful, loving, caring man I could ask for. Literally ... (251 words

How do guys feel about that playful, affectionate, sweet girl?

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7 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - I am married with young children and am considered to be an attractive female. I am a very playful, affectionate, caring person, sweet person. I think people see me as that innocent yet fun flirty girl. Anyway, my question is, sometimes when I show affection to a male friend, ... (210 words

I want to tell him I've fallen for him but I'm afraid it will scare him off

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7 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hi Just hoping to get some outside perspective on my problem so I can make a decision on what I'm going to do. Any advice is appreciated :) Me and this guy have known eachother for almost 6 years. Met when I was 20 I'm now 26. Basically, because I was studying for a cou... (826 words

My friend seems awfully possessive

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7 December 2014 (F age 51-59 - I'm a female and my very best friend is a female as well. She claims to have low self-esteem but honestly I don't see it. We work together and I have to say I am friends with other staff. The problem I'm having with my very best friend is that she sometimes can be what I would ... (271 words

Asked out by 2 men but who do I choose and how do I let the other down gently `

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7 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - i dont know what to do , i asked a question about letting a guy down because he missed his chance he was taking too long to if he wanted to date me but then i suddenly met a new guy who wants to date me and we are arranging a time to see each other again but now im in a ... (150 words

Should I confront him,or not?

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7 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Just looking for abit of advice in coming up to 3 months pregnant with my fiance's baby but i keep finding that he secretly is masturbating over his supposed to be old crushes photos on Facebook ,his also friends with her and have found out his doing this often,its upsetting me ... (102 words

Why wont he tell me why he doesn't want a relationship?

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7 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I met a guy at the start of the year, everything was good, sex was great, enjoyed his company. After the 4th time we had sex he decided to ignore me and go back online dating. I demanded why he done this and where I stood and he apologised to me and we meet again for lunch ... (303 words

Did he feel something?

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7 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - I have been friends with a man for 8 years and now I will be leaving to go elsewhere. I believe there is an attraction between us but we have never really spoken about it and he has never touched me. The other day he asked if we could have a bittersweet, final chat. He said he ... (160 words

I Don't Like When This Girl Needs to be Comforted by my Boyfriend

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7 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend is one of the nicest guys I've ever met. But sometimes I feel like it's a problem because he feels the need to cheer up everyone, especially this one girl he just met at the college he's going to. She has stuff going on in her life and she texts my boyfriend to ... (161 words

How do guys ever meet women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 832 days ago

7 December 2014 (M age 51-59 - This is probably a stupid question, but how in god's name do guys even meet women, let alone become friends, partners etc. I see thousands of couples ever day, and I am always thinking, how did they meet.. I'm not counting work, where I meet women occasionally, howvere... (246 words

I love him but am terrified that marriage with him might not work!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 838 days ago

7 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I love my boyfriend dearly. We've been dating 1.5 years. But, we have totally different personalities. I am very friendly, outgoing, love to get out and do stuff. I run and hike several times a week. I am very affectionate with him. Sometimes I worry that I am too clingy, b... (387 words

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