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Is it too late to start college?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - I just turned 30. Is it dumb of me to start college now? i feel old and i also know that if i don't do this no company will even consider me until i have a degree. i just hope i am making the right decision. 5 years of school is a long time at my age and it scares me that it ... (77 words

I caught my girlfriend wearing sexy bra & panties...cheating right?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 963 days ago

3 December 2014 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend of two years came home from work and was undressing out of her work uniform when I walked into our bedroom and saw that she was secretly wearing sexy lace bra and panties under her work outfit. I never saw or got her the sexy panties and bra that she had on that ... (123 words

I won't let my ex take my daughter for a weekend if I don't know where he's taking her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I have a situation I would like to hear the opinions of others on and I appreciate any advice in advance. My ex and I have been separated for seven years now, you would think after all this time we would be settled in a schedule with our daughter having contact ... (700 words

Is having a really intense and perverted makeout session as good as sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - Is having a really intense and perverted makeout session as good as sex? Soo....Let's say me and a guy had a makeout session...with me in panties and him only in boxers.....and he ejaculated through them and onto my stomach....and then he grinded on top of me until I O'd...an... (104 words

How can I get a date with this shy guy before I lose my chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - Hello. I'm in a band and have suffered from some hearing damage so may need to leave. I am band members with a guy I really like but we only see each other at these rehearsals and if I leave I know I won't see him again until I go to my band's gigs etc. I'm pretty sure there's ... (194 words

My boyfriend doesn't wan't to spend time with my family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about two years now. He has a child and every other weekend he brings his kid to his parents house so they can see his child. Since I am in school and only see him on the weekends, I will normally visit his family and kid on those ... (231 words

Where can this relationship go if he wont be honest and commit

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - i met a guy on a dating site 3 months ago and had some dates we both came off the site but recently hes gone back on he hasnt told me this, i just found out. he said he wants to see me again and likes me then tells me (what i think is rubbish) he cant wait to see me again how ... (268 words

Boyfriend got another girl pregnant and I don't know what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and the relationship had its ups and downs.last month I found out that he impregnated another girl and I don't have a child with him because I was using the contraceptive I was not ready to give him a child. I'm so confused I don't ... (198 words

Discreet bi guy needs help urgently

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

3 December 2014 (M age 26-29 - Okay so, I'm male and secretly bi, I was happy with the bi part being secret and just always having discreet fun with guys when I'm single. So here's the problem. I was on Facebook the other day and see this guy I don't know why but I was just really attracted to him... (270 words

A friend has become obsessive and the guy can't see it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - hi everyone im hoping someone can shed some light on what i feel is an obsessive situation, my friend has this friend who i have never met and everytime he puts something on facebook she likes it any photo she likes it he could just put a random word like 'paper' and she would ... (107 words

Should I see him just for sex or find someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - I am a 28 year old female. I got sick of being a virgin, so recently I went on a few dates with an older man, and we had sex. It was great, I enjoyed our time together so much. It hurt the first time, but the next time was perfect. However, I dont want a relationship wit... (128 words

In anger he said I'm unattractive

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 929 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have been married for 4 yrs,my husband treats me well except for few small fights.last night we had a fight,he told me in anger,I dont look attractive,he is making love out of sympathy.next moment he realized what he told and not accepting that he said those words.i am ... (70 words

I think I'm bisexual and I hate myself for it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

3 December 2014 (M age 22-25 - I recently discovered that I am bisexual. I'm a 16 year old male. I feel like I am a straight guy trapped in a bisexual guy's body. I don't think I was meant to be this way and it makes me sad because I don't accept myself at all. I hate myself deeply. I have decided that I d... (192 words

Will my boyfriend's feelings for me become stronger now that he's finally had an orgasm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Okay sooo, I made my man cum for the first time ever in life from fellatio . We hav been together now for 6 years and not once could I. He's told me that was his first time cumming this way . Will this change his feelings more now in a good way or does feelings have nothi... (68 words

Is it ok to change my mind about staying with my boyfriend who cheated on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I can't get over the fact my boyfriend cheated on me , pure and simple. But I'm so worried about how people will view me leaving him when I took him back only a few months ago. So basically, my boyfriend slept with some random girl over the summer. He admitted it to m... (264 words

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years but am looking...am I bored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - My partner and I have been together for 6yrs he is loving and caring wants me for the rest of his life and I am not sure. I am very attracted to man at the sports club I go to and would like to know him more....no overtures from him yet but I know that I can encourage him. I ... (98 words

I have a secret crush on my cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 13-15 - Hi I'm here because well to ask a question about this person but not just any person he's my cousin and I really like him but I don't know if he will feel the same what should I do im 13 and he's 13 also ... (45 words

I had an affair, he broke it off and now has sent me an email. Do I reply to it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - I am married with 2 children. Last August, my relationship with my husband was not great at all and I met someone who totally swept me off my feet. I wasn't looking for the opportunity, it just happened. I wasn't proud of myself and, in hindsight, I realised that it turned into ... (343 words

My LDR boyfriend seems to have no plans for us moving forward!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Help! I have been in a long distance relationship for 6 months now, and I am so confused about how he feels about me. He hasn't said 'I love you', he is moving into a mortgaged house with his guy mate, which means he's making no plans to move anytime soon. He's really nice guy, ... (112 words

My ex FWB called me a stalker and then blocked me. Why cant he see I was just trying to help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - So a little background: a guy that I was having a friends with benefits situation with for a year and 4 months, started talking again after we had a fight a few months ago (he also knows that i did like him and had feelings for him in the past). His book was being released s... (748 words

Why does my boyfriend want to break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - So my boyfriend seems so obssesed about my past since he wasnt the guy i lost my virginity to last night we had a couple of drinks and then we had sex after we were done he gave me oral sex and fingered me he then the next day told me he was able to put 3 fingers in me and ... (103 words

My wife and I have survived so much and made it through hard times, why now am I so upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2014 (M age 36-40 - My wife had serious problems in her family several years ago, including a father who was terminally ill. It took years for him to die and it was a long downward spiral as his brain atrophied. He eventually passed away right around the time I lost my job, we ended up in heavy ... (584 words

He wants everything I'm not - am I plan b

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

3 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - My bf seems attracted to everything I'm not and whilst I realise that it's natural to be attracted to a wide range of attributes , I can't help but wonder if he is only with me because he can't actually find a woman who fits that bill of what REALLY turns him on The other wo... (154 words

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