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A guy I liked at work is taken, but I think he knows I fancy him, should I avoid him?

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6 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - So I'm 21 and met this 29 year old older guy at work a few months ago. He's from a different department so didn't speak often but stupidly I really fell for him as he is quite smart. We've talked a few times as his department is meant to be doing some team building presentation ... (391 words

He's missed his chance, but I'd like to let him down gently, how do I word it?

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6 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - theres a guy i went on a date with hes very shy and so am i, he said he is thinking about us starting a relationship but hes taking too long (2 month) and ive now met someone else who knows what he wants how do i break it to the other guy hes missed his chance without being ... (96 words

Time to open the marriage?

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6 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - Here's our situation: not having sex. I am about 50 lbs overweight. I have been working on losing it but it's going very slowly (I have lost 20 so far). My husband has told me I'm unattractive--yet he still wants sex with me and says he still loves me and wants our marriage ... (397 words

I'm worried about if he likes me, that I will scare him away.... help?

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6 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Does he like me? Ok so I have recently been seeing a guy who I met online. We met in August and on our first date got on really well together, then we sort of kept missing each other as we both live very busy lives, the second date happened a month after the first and we sti... (620 words

Is he an alcoholic, or just a heavy drinker? What steps should I take?

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6 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I'm trying to convince my boyfriend of three years to seek help for his drinking issues, but he refuses to accept he has a problem and his family aren't helping when they tell me to back off. His father is a heavy drinker, he always has been from what I understand and a... (535 words

Breaking the girl code?

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6 December 2014 (F age 16-17 - Okay so at first this question sounds super cliché but it's more than how it first sounds, so please bare with me. My friend and I like the same guy. Cheesy, I know. My friend has dated this guy for about a week and they broke up in early October. I'm good friends with this guy ... (202 words

I feel like my romantic life is constantly on a fast track to destruction.

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6 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I want to start off by saying I have serious issues with self worth. Some was instigated by my family situation growing up and has been perpetuated by guys that I date. I realize that I am typically attracted to a certain kind of guy who i know is bad for me and will only hurt ... (506 words

Almost 17 and not kissed yet. Am I a freak?

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6 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - Hey guys... I just want to know something... Does it make me a freak to be almost 17 and not had my first kiss yet? The fact doesn't really effect me, but my friends like to make a big deal out of it so it makes me feel like I'm a freak. They all like to make a point ... (179 words

I'm 31, moved back home and my mom is driving me crazy

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6 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - I'm 31 I moved out of my parents house for a little over a year to live with my ex bf. He cheated on me we broke up and I met my current bf, my lease was up so I decided to move back home. My mom has never stopped treating me the same way when I was 15yrs old, if I stayed... (537 words

Advice please? Fiance's daughters treated me terribly while he was in jail when all I tried to do was help!

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6 December 2014 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my guy for 5 years. At first it was rather bumpy between he and I but as far as his grown daughters (ages 28, 29 and 30 married with multiple children of their own and all three have previous as well as children with their current spouses)and I we got ... (1096 words

Broke up yet.... Is sending him the Christmas gift a good idea, considering that we haven't spoken since the fight?

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6 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - I bought this guy that i was seeing a Christmas gift a few weeks before we got into a huge fight. Things were left badly where he blamed me for things that weren't my fault, and still blames me for something that i did almost a year ago. (i wrote something about him on my fa... (189 words

Did I over-react or does work consume me? how can I apologize to him if he will not answer my calls?

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6 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I over reacted and broke up with my boyfriend of two years because we were not spending a lot of time together. Now, I realize that I have been working longer hours and spending time with my family for holiday limited our time. I want to apologize, but he is not answering my c... (62 words

Why are the men in porn so average whereas the women are usually very attractive?

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6 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - Why are the men in porn so average whereas the women are usually very attractive? My SO and I watch some porn and it seems that in the vast majority the women are outstandingly attractive whereas the men are, very often, borderline ugly. This leaves me feeling a little insecur... (125 words

I'm 31 weeks pregnant I love him with all my heart. But now he's not interested. Can I get over this?

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6 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hi, Sorry in advance for the essay but I really need to know how to cope with my situations. My ex and I met online nearly 2 years ago, neither of us wanted a serious relationship but we ended up falling in love anyway, we got engaged and he moved to the other side of th... (494 words

I love him... But I feel like I want to be single again?

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6 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - I'm currently in a relationship, we've been together just under 2 years and have a flat together. He's my first serious relationship and I love him to bits... However I get this feeling that I want to be single again now... He means the world to me but I just have this fee... (104 words

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