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She complains about masterbating and about porn. But she never wants to initiate sex. What's a guy supposed to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

16 December 2014 (M age 22-25 - Hi , what can I do about my girlfriend of 7 months ? She insists i'm not to watch porn when I masterbate but declines my advances to initiate sex? Just the other day I tried it on with her and she had a go at me stating all I'm ever interested In is sex of her , which I took o... (249 words

She's really slow to reply when we communicate online. How can I determine if she's really interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 978 days ago

16 December 2014 (M age 18-21 - I have just started talking to a girl on an online App, and we are getting along really well. I gave her my number she texted me and we've been talking, however she takes ages to reply even though she posts on twitter etc at the same time, but when she does reply she is bein... (112 words

I'm so confused. Does she just see me as a friend or is it possible she sees me as more than a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 978 days ago

16 December 2014 (M age 26-29 - She first suggested doing something together we have since met a few times. During the 1st occasion she was fairly scathing about a girl I occasionally speak to. On the second occasion she informed me she had broken up with her boyfriend but I was only 1 of about 2 she had ... (185 words

Why didn't he look for me, is he not interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Why didn't he look for me, is he not interested in me? So my brother invited me a function at his church and I got talking to this lady and she said I was very beautiful and that there is a guy she'd like to set me up with. I caught her speaking to a guy I was ... (232 words

Unrequited love - should I say anything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 849 days ago

16 December 2014 (M age 30-35 - I live in a remote Scottish isle, as such its not easy being a gay man--even one who isn't 'out' (though I'm fairly certain all those nearest and dearest to me know or at least suspect). There aren't many other men nearby for friendship or fun, let alone anything more su... (393 words

Annoyed with his manipulative ex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - Let me start this by saying that my new boyfriend is wonderful. I'm 34 years old and have never met anyone so perfect for me in all of my life. He goes out of his way to do things for me. This weekend I had to be away for a business trip and he spent the entire weekend cleaning ... (391 words

I like her except for the lack of punctuality

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 978 days ago

16 December 2014 (M age 26-29 - I've been dating a girl for about 2 weeks now. It's going great but very early days. The one problem I have is she's always late! I know to most people this won't be an issue but it really annoys me. Turning up an hour late and then with no apology. I mentioned it to her once ... (105 words

Does my husband even love me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 974 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - How can you tell if your husband still loves you? We've been together for 11 years, met young, have two kids. I feel like whenever we have arguments my husband gets very defensive...it's like I can't bring anything up anymore without worrying how it going to react. I just want ... (599 words

Love Triangle - The Aftermath

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 979 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I was pushed out of a love triangle not so long ago, as I mentioned sometime before. My female friend is dating the guy who wanted to date me. Anyway, having told him, I couldn't cope anymore with the situation - I now find that the girl (my supposed friend) is no lo... (181 words

Why is he allowed to complain and I'm not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hi my partner is quite complex we have been together nearly 3 years and have a 2 year old son. Ok so I go to college and work and pay for everything in the home my partner is currently unemployed and hasn't really looked for a job either. I'm not happy as he has not contributed ... (284 words

Love, or my dreams?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - So i am in serious help and i need some opinions on what to do. Ive been in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now! It started off perfect and i was happier than ever! I live in Texas and he is living in Oklahoma. We are actually 15 years apart (me 20 him 35) so it makes ... (784 words

My boyfriend is a gamer and I don't know how to deal with his hours, suggestions would be helpful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 978 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I have a bit of a problem.. My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost two years now. I'm 25 and he's 24. Our relationship started out as long-distance for eight months until he moved away from his small home town, family, friends, and a job he loved to the big city ... (938 words

Will anyone who follows her first love be second best?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 973 days ago

16 December 2014 (M age 26-29 - A girl I know told me that the love of her life ,her first BF(broke up years ago after a few years of relationship), will always be the one she carers about. I have a question: is this fair to the guy she marries? I mean her future husband (she wants one cause she's getting ... (99 words

Would a letter be a good way to tell him how I feel?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 968 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 16-17 - I might be going to meet a friend that ui realy like i have known him for 6 years and loved him for 5 years i was wondering how to tell him i realy like him and this is one of the rare occasions i get to see him . I was thinking of writing a letter explaining how i feel and ... (93 words

Thoughts about how to give her my number?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

16 December 2014 (M age 26-29 - So there's this unbelievably cute girl that works at a drive thru near me. Shes 19 and im 24. She and I always chat it up when I go there and she's really friendly and funny. The other night after talking with her for a few minutes I popped the question and asked if I could ... (178 words

I can't decide if it's worth trying to make this relationship work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 979 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend of two months is starting to swear at me. He even went to an extent of calling me a bitch. It happened after he claims that i don't have time for him; because frequently he told me that love is time and i dont seem to do as he says. Whenever i do something he ... (317 words

My wife's day is filled with pills, potions and quackery!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

16 December 2014 (M age - Until a couple of years ago we were the average happy middle aged couple but then things began to turn for the worse. My wifes day is now spent worrying unrealistically about her health. She imagines every spot, pimple or ache is serious and needs immediate attention. Her day ... (234 words

He keeps thinking I am flirting when I am not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - Hi everyone so recently I got into an argument with my boyfriend. The main thing is that he keeps on thinking that I'm flirting with guys when I'm actually not. If I wanted to flirt around I wouldnt have chosen to date him cuz its plain wrong and disloyal. However, my ... (476 words

I know its my hormones but sometimes I crave sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 978 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 16-17 - I'm 15, this is a weird question, I know. I sometimes crave sex a lot. Every time when I see my crush want to grab him and kiss him, when I think about having sex with him the feeling sometimes goes away but I still want to kiss him. I never had sex before, I know it's the horm... (142 words

Should I stop going on about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

16 December 2014 (M age 30-35 - I have bein going with my girlfriend for ten years and the orther night she went out and had a few drinks and slept on a couch by or self . The next day I found out their was a male friend beside her then she confessed and sai. She slept in the middle of these two mates .when ... (95 words

Should a girl like me just learn to be happy with what she has? Are my expectations too high?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - I started dating my current boyfriend about 7 months ago. I didn't know him well, but had gone through a really devastating year trying to adjust to a very competitive program at school, dealing with depression, family trouble and being abused by men. He was interested in me, ... (384 words

How to get over him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 978 days ago

16 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Ive been hanging out with a guy who has a gf. Nothing happens between us except for a couple dry humps and kisses.. Recently, he told me that he was trying to replace his gf with me and that I was a not so far replica of her. He then stated that his gf was a real woman... ... (119 words

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