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Why do we need a Dr check up first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 768 days ago

8 December 2014 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I was wondering since I am a virgin and my fiancé is too should I go to the doctor for a checkup to make sure everything is okay? In other word in the up in up. Do people do that kind of thing? Or is it okay to not go to the doctor before the first time? What do ... (73 words

My boyfriend has no time for me and calls me terrible names

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

8 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - Hi, everyone, hope your day is going well. I have been with my boyfriend for two months now. He lives an hour away, I drive to see him just about every weekend. When I go all he wants to do is play video games. So, for hours I just sit there and watch him. I have told him that ... (234 words

After five years he still won't commit to a date for marriage or children

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 772 days ago

8 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - I am a 29 year old woman, and I've been with my boyfriend for 5 and a half years now. My problem is, he can't tell me when he sees us getting married or having children. Each time I have asked him, he says things like 'I don't know', 'not any time soon' or 'I've not given it ... (303 words

My wife wants my permission to go out and flirt with other men when it suits her

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 403 days ago

8 December 2014 (M age 36-40 - My wife and I have been together for 17 years, married for 12. We're still young-ish in our 30s because we met young. We've had a great marriage overall and have a relationship that was genuingely best friends first, then it became romantic. She pursued me at the time, despite ... (601 words

Can you change a bad boy?

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8 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - Dear cupid, i just want to understand this. Is it possible to change a bad boy. Like he drinks a lot and has two kids with two different woman, he owns his own business and has lots of friend who they enjoy top life.ive seen all this on his facebook wall. Even when he chart ... (199 words

Why does my ex keep asking about who I might be dating?

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8 December 2014 (F age 51-59 - Ex, who is now married and I'm sleeping with (not proud of this), keeps asking me about who I'm dating. Why is he asking me this? Why does he even care to know? When I ask him, he changes the subject. He doesn't want a relationship with me again, made this perfectly clear! So ... (63 words

What she told me during our breakup haunted me ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 774 days ago

8 December 2014 (M age 26-29 - Allright not sure how to start this off, my ex and I broke up years ago and it didnt go well. She freaked out over something that turns out I didnt even do, anyway when we broke up she told me I was a freak, a monster, that she regretted ever wasting time on me, I was the ... (326 words

I'm agitated -- I can hear the clock ticking

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 767 days ago

8 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - Well this is very very odd. very.. From the past few months I've begun to feel very agitated and fearful about settling down. I'm 22 and I'd like to marry my bf of 5 yrs after my higher studies. number1. my real plan was to work for a couple of years, save up and do my masters.... (493 words

I should leave him over his emotional affair, but it's complicated

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8 December 2014 (F age 51-59 - Last month I found out that my partner of twenty years was having an emotional affair. With a work colleague, twenty-four years younger. Which first began in January. She has worked at his firm for nine years and originally lived with a younger bloke, who also worked there. ... (616 words

Do I keep being her friend or do I tell her how I really feel?

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8 December 2014 (M age 41-50 - For the past 2 years I have been close to my female friend as she dealt with her divorce and some serious health issues. She says she has told me things she has never told anyone else and I felt we were drawing close. During this time she went on a couple dates and there wa... (223 words

I think this is disprespectful -- am I right?

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8 December 2014 (M age 18-21 - Girlfriend told me that another guy has been touching her butt in school and she basically just lets him smack it! I feel so betrayed by this. Dnt I have the right? Is this not super disrespectful? ... (37 words

Boyfriend wants MMF threesome... With one of his best friends?

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8 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - So here's the backstory... My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We've always had an adventurous and hot sex life. We are in our mid-twenties, no kids, and no rush. But he's the one, I knew it three months into our relationship. Anywho, he is very open to ... (617 words

Why are my siblings so envious of me I'm only trying to make it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 774 days ago

8 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid,today is the first day I finally step back in church.I want to get my life together and I know that it will be the best thing I ever did in my life.I'm changing my life in order to be a better person for me and my children but I have alot of negative people in my ... (191 words

He's so good I wonder about his past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 775 days ago

8 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - I've been dating this guy , he's amazing and there's no doubt we have chemistry, endless amount of affection towards each other. I Just turned 20 and he's turning 25 in January. I don't see much of an age difference but at times he says certain things that get to me. I know ... (195 words

I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't intend to have sex with him again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

8 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - I feel bad about this whole situation. I have a friend who is 11 years younger than me. I was actually friends with his older sister long time ago, but we lost touch and with him kept in touch through emails and FB. I didn't see him for 15 years, as he was abroad studyin... (964 words

He seems like a guy that I would like to get to know and I wouldn’t like to let the chance go.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 774 days ago

8 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hey everyone, well this is my situation. My sister is a freshmen in high school; since the first week of school she’s been telling me that her science teacher is very cute, nice, and that I should meet him. I never paid attention to her due to the fact that I always busy. ... (693 words

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