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Expecting a baby but I can't seem to forgive him

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11 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - In need of desperate help...I can't take it anymore! It all started in the very beginning. We started dating in march 2013 but I broke up with him cause I felt he was too needy, he just had gotten out of a 6 year relationship 3 months prior (she cheated on him) and I had just... (847 words

Is this attitude toward porn reasonable?

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11 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - I spent many years having a problem with porn. The main issues I had with it were three things Firstly I admit it made me feel he wanted the perfect bodies and saw them as more attractive My second issue was more that the secrecy around porn made me feel excluded My thi... (246 words

Why would he star her on FB?

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11 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - A few months back I found out my bf "starred" a fb friend (which meant he will receive updates on her statuses and photos) but upon asking I realized she was a random cutie he found on fb! I asked if he could "unstar" her and he did it. Today however I found out he "starred" ... (66 words

Do I continue indulging in what used to be an affair or just end it?

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11 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - Okay so please don’t judge.. the question is somewhat selfish and I get it. I was in a 9 yrs LTR and recently broke it off. I was engaged to my ex and It was one of the hardest decisions I had to make. I am still struggling to get on the right path but it was a RIGHT decision ... (377 words

My fiance's ex wife and adult children have been very abusive toward me

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11 December 2014 (F age 51-59 - My fiance has 3 daughters in early 30s all with huabands and kids. They have been so a abusive verbally to me and finally have begun treating their father the same he has just cut off any contact with them. Now they are accusing me of breaking up their family all over on ... (143 words

My period was late and it's lasted longer since I gave up my virginity

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11 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I Have a question. i usually get my period for 4-5 days and i lost my virgnity one day before my period. it was late by 2 days and now im on my 7th day of my period. What can this be?... (46 words

She wants to be with me but feels guilty about dumping her boyfriend

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11 December 2014 (M age 26-29 - I started hanging out with this girl whom I knew had a boyfriend of 1.5 years. In our talks, I found out that he had been nice to her. However, had a tendency to look at other girls on the internet and that crushed this girl. She tells me that she would like to be with me ... (396 words

His mothers engagement ring never feels like my own?

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11 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - I got engaged last August, his mother died a year beforehand he said he will give me her ring but i never felt 100% happy with it as i never got to see it till i got engaged. The ring keeps slipping off and when he tries it on my finger he says its fine nothing is wrong wi... (369 words

It's as if she has dropped off the earth ..........

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11 December 2014 (M age 18-21 - I think I've just been late "Turkey-dumped." I am a college freshman at a state school around an hour from my home town. I have been dating my high school sweetheart for around two year, and we have been fairly happy all of this semester (My first one away). She had plans ... (213 words

I want long term, but I don't know if she wants it as well

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11 December 2014 (M age 51-59 - Hi, Just a question if anyone ever succeeded with respect to different views about living together. I was married for 16 years and then divorced after my wife cheated. I met a new woman after that and we have been together 3 years now. She is a flight attendant, so she ha... (519 words

Maybe I am overthinking things!

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11 December 2014 (? age 18-21 - Hey everyone :) I really need some good advise here.. And tbh you all have given really good ones so far.. So here's my story.. It might be a little lengthy but I hope you'll take the time to read it and hopefully understand me :) I've been with my boyfriend for almost a yea... (603 words

Do my feelings matter? Do I have to accept this?

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11 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - Do I have to accept my husband looking at porn . I have told him before that it makes me feel compared and ugly whe. He is constantly looking at perfect porn star bodies. He says he loves me but that doesn't take away the hurt. I read lots of posts that say just accept i... (116 words

Does he just love my mind? Does he turn to porn to due to some dis-satisfaction with my body?

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11 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - My partner seems to get more excited over the women in porn that he does me. I have also noticed that they have several things in common. They are all young thin and beautiful. He never looks for any woman with a body type remotely like mine. I'm older and defiantly not thin... (124 words

I just don't know what to do .............

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11 December 2014 (F age - I have seeing my neighbour for about a month. We were getting on really well. It was my birthday and we went out for a meal. When we got back to his place I was trying to make love and he rejected me. We had sex before. He said he was depression. We talk about his mood and he ... (249 words

I cannot imagine dating him. I like him as a friend only. Yet I've been told he likes me. What to do?

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11 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - Today, a friend of mine told me that this guy, let's name him A, is interested in me. However, I consider A as a very close friend, possibly even a best friend. After hearing he likes me, I don't know how to react to this. I never realized that because we treat each other l... (205 words

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