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I'm a virgin and have questions about sex help??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - Hello all, I would like some (kind please!) advice for my situation. Starting off, I have been with my boyfriend for a little less than a year and we're saving ourselves for marriage (yes we do intend to marry each other in the future). I am still a virgin and he slept with one ... (173 words

I'm too shy to talk to girls I'm interested in

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 903 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - I'm 21 and came out as gay last year but still have no idea how to talk to girls I fancy. It seems so simple in my head, yet whenever a girl I like actually starts chatting to me, I get too shy to make any form of decent conversation! For instance, the other day my fri... (158 words

Missing a summer fling and can't move on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

4 December 2014 (M age 30-35 - Please help. I recently started hooking up (amazing sex) with a younger coworker. She is 20 and I am 30. I usually am not attracted to much younger girls, but me and her connected in what I thought was a special way. She is intelligent, curious about life, classy, and mature ... (485 words

I'm so anxious its making me miserable and ruining my relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 901 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Lately I have been suffering from increasing anxiety. It's happened on and off throughout my life. For months I will be fine, but sooner or later I become incredibly anxious for weeks or months at a time. Sometimes constantly. It's gotten to the point where I begin to stress ... (329 words

Boyfriend will be gone for 2 months, should I worry about him cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 817 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend has family that lives in California,and he`s planning to go to Cali for about 2 months to stay with his fam,to attempt to get a record deal (he does Hip Hop), while I stay here in NC with our daughter until he comes back. Should I worry about him doing the ... (107 words

Boyfriend refuses to talk about possible bachelor party

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 817 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 or 6 years,only living together for about 3 or 3 1/2.In 2011, I gave birth to our one and only daughter. His brother got engaged a while back,maybe last year?! My boyfriend wanted/wants to give him a Batchelor party,including ... (372 words

Why would someone be ok with you one day then ignore you the next day!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Why would someone be ok with you one day then ignore you the next day! There is a man I know from work, well superior that and wee seem to get on even flirt sometimes. Then other days he ignores me, I mean he doesn't say hi when he sees me, makes no effort to stop and talk. ... (151 words

Boyfriend’s Past Sex Life Bothers Me

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4 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me, things are pretty good between us. We are like perfect together and I trust him with all my heart which is really hard since I've been hurt really bad by my ex. We both agreed not to talk about his sexual past. I'm still a virgin and ... (340 words

I don't want to be pushy but I want my boyfriend to stop smoking!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - When I started dating my boyfriend, I knew he smoked in the past but had quit. Now, he has started smoking again. I lost my uncle to smoking so I am not ok with smoking at all. Plus it smells! He doesn't go through a pack a day or anything, but it bothers me . I tell him this ... (114 words

My boyfriend has become so lazy and its driving me crazy!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 893 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - We have been together for half a year. We agreed that we would get engaged 2 months ago, but he eventually cancelled things because his family was not home at the time. We then rescheduled our engagement to Christmas Eve. We decided 5 months ago that we would spend the holida... (382 words

Why do men treat good women bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - So I'm going to give some background before I ask my question. I have been dating this guy for a year now and he has told me that he has gotten cheated on mutiple times before and used by females because of his generosity and kindness to buy females gifts. I recently broke up... (407 words

He wrote such sweet things on the internet but now he ignores me! Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 733 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - I've posted about this guy before and I got some great advice from this community so here I am again.. I met this guy last August while he was travelling through my country. We spent a few days together and it was amazing. He left to Peru to study a semester abroad afterward... (700 words

She says I make her feel like no one ever has, but she has a boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

4 December 2014 (M age 41-50 - Alright so i'm going to do my best to make this as concise as possible. I met this girl from another country on the other side of the world via the internet. She is a very social person and is almost always out and about but she is also insecure and shy, ironic i know. The ... (742 words

I took my begging ex back but I don't feel good about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - Hello! :) I'm a 19-year-old girl who has a 31-year-old boyfriend. We're from very different cultures and things have been bumpy recently for us. We've only been together for six months, but somehow I feel unhappy when I'm with him. I'm a helplessly romantic and he's more re... (327 words

Is it normal to be sexually attracted to your cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

4 December 2014 (M age 26-29 - I've been attracted to my cousin for as long as I can remember. She is the only female cousin I know of, and on my mother's side of the family, she is the only girl. At least in my generation. I didn't think nothing of it when I was younger because I was younger and did not ... (160 words

How to hide teen hard-ons?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

4 December 2014 (M age 16-17 - Quick note: I have searched the site A TON already, and can't find anything useful on this, and desperately need help. Hello DC, I'm in a bit of a pickle... I'm 15, and "well endowed" so to speak, at 7 inches. In my gym class, we have to wear basketball shorts as part... (217 words

Is the lack of compliments a sign that I'm not attractive to him anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - My husband never compliments me. I have talked to him about it and he now occasionally will but it seems somewhat forced and rare still The other night I dressed up and thought I looked nice . I had a new dress, my hair done , make up and the whole works and as usual nothing ... (133 words

Emotionally manipulative sibling

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 907 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I have a very difficult relationship with my brother, who suffers from a lot of mental health problems. I am 35 and he is 40, but neither of us are married or have families. I live abroad and have a good job. He is currently out of work and has been for about a year. He... (270 words

How do I reply to an amazing compliment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hello :) Me and my friend who i have know for more than 4 years, and I haven't seen for 2 years (he is in a different city for school) were exchanging emails about a video he sent me, discussing some science and I told him some crazy ideas I had, and then he answered me with ... (179 words

I'm so unsure what he wants from this relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 907 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - Hi aunt's and uncle's. I have a confusing situation regarding a man I am dating. We have been dating about month now and talking since the beginning of September. I sometimes get the feeling he's not interested, but then all of sudden he'll make a comment that throws... (251 words

This doesn't seem like a very fair arrangement

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - Hi I've been in a relationship for almost 4 years, we live together, have a baby, mortgage. I stay at home in the day with our child then go to work in the evenings. I work for very low pay, he makes £40,000 a year our mortgage is very low, I cant afford to get my hair done or ... (165 words

Can males and females really just be friends?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 906 days ago

4 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - This seems silly, but I honestly wonder this. There was a few posts on a social media site that claimed while females will look at a male as just being a friend, the same is not true for the male. The male, supposedly, almost always has some level of interest in a female ... (88 words

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