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My boyfriend loses interest in a girl if she puts out too soon.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 828 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - So my boyfriend has this "thing" where he loses interest in girls if she puts out too soon. I know this because we were friends for a long time before dating. And he would meet a girl, he seemed interested cause he would even tell us, "I met this girl, were going out, she seems ... (327 words

We've not dated or had sex but he said he would leave his wife for me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 802 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys, I'm in such a pickle and I wish I didn't have this to worry over right before Christmas. Me and my partner have been together for six years, happy years and I love him dearly. My partners boss is 14 years older than myself and I first met him 4 years ago. It ... (801 words

I am boring my husband, how do I get the fun back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 830 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - Hi cupids, I'm after some advice on how to "re-attract" someone's attention. My husband and I have been together for 17 years, married for 5 years. We have 2 beautiful sons. The problem is that I feel like he is not interested in me anymore. Like I'm not fun or interesti... (204 words

Is he still looking out for me on Facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 831 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I was close to a guy on Facebook and having quite flirty chats with him - until he suddenly decided to move onto another girl who was obviously more appealing to him. I feel sad that we don't talk now like before, but I have noticed I am still one of his FB friends and tha... (126 words

I really like her, but so does my friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 830 days ago

18 December 2014 (M age 22-25 - me and my friend are at the same uni, same course and same accomodation and we live next door to this girl who is a really nice girl and very pretty. my friend and her have a close friendship with each other. my friend feels that she likes him and i could see it at the start ... (328 words

He kicked me out because I cheated. Will he take me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 830 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - I have been with my my boyfriend for a little over two years. This week I had went behind his back and hung out with my ex, my ex would call me beautiful and do little gestures like put his hand on my leg while driving grab my butt randomly and open doors for me something my ... (291 words

Living with his lazy dirty family has me at the end of my tether

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 829 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - Hello. I don't know how much longer I can put up with this. His family is starting to become a deal breaker for me. Right now, I live with my boyfriend and his family. We pay rent, we buy our own groceries, and we pay for whatever else we use. We both go to school and work,... (874 words

I went back to my abusive ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 830 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I broke up with my abusive bf a month back. I was crying at the start and trying very hard to move on. He contacted me twice I didn't pick up the calls. Yesterday I saw his old tshirt in one of my boxes which triggered a memory before I knew what's happening I call... (173 words

My first real relationship and I'm feeling smothered

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 830 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - I am currently seeing a guy that I have been friends with for just over a year. We met each other through work and still work together now. We started talking more regularly a couple of months ago after he went through a break up, and soon after he took me on a few dates and ... (233 words

The relationship is dead --- why doesn't he let me go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 830 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - My relationship has been dead for the past year been with him for 2 years now ,problems began early on in our relationship due to his insecurities and I had some family problems so that pushed me away because he started drinking on a few occasions he said he wouldn't do it no ... (263 words

I want more than an ordinary life, but my husband is very ordinary

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 827 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hard to know where to start and I'm going to try not to waffle on for hours.... In a nutshell I have been with my partner 3.5 years, married in August (so married for about 4 months now). For the majority of the relationship it has been happy, he is wonderful to me and still ... (985 words

He says it to make me feel better but it actually makes me feel worse.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 831 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - My bf makes such a big deal out if how much he likes mature women in porn ( I'm mid forties) yet I simply don't understand why? I often see the porn he uses and the women all look early to mid twenties just like most typical porn and I never say a word so why does he feel the... (160 words

Like cinderella I want to go to the party, but instead of an ugly sister an ex friend will be there!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 831 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - Hi ive been invited to my partners office party. I feel nervous as have not met any of his friends or wives/ partners. My major problem is a ex friend of mine and his who he also was very close to will be going as she used to work there and her husband is a boss. She has told ... (106 words

I am also fed up with his manipulative ex girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 830 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - I've been following a recent post here titled 'Annoyed with his manipulative ex'. I'm in a similar situation. To give a little back ground. My current boyfriend was in a relationship with his ex for about 3 years. He says that even from the start of their relationship, they arg... (409 words

He called me a selfish (expletive) because I want a specific colour.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 828 days ago

18 December 2014 (? age 30-35 - Holiday help! I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 5 years. Everytime around the holidays, especially my birthday and Christmas he gets in a 'mood' like he's so unhappy in his life and then it ruins my days. I hope I don't come off selfish here, but I need ... (251 words

I am loving who I should't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 829 days ago

18 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I really have no idea where to start. My brother passed away 8months ago from an infection in the valve leading to his heart, it had ruptured and he had gone into cardiac arrest the night he was staying over at my house, I was with him from the moment he felt unwell and I ... (476 words

Is it me? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 830 days ago

18 December 2014 (M age 22-25 - So, I'm a 20 year old gay guy and I'm feeling a little lonely and vulnerable right now. I'm already in my 20's and I've never even kissed another man yet alone have one as a boyfriend. And I really wanna know why that is. I mean, I know the fact that I don't have 100% of ... (326 words

I'm a cheater trapped in a sexless marriage and my wife has cancer. I'm at a breaking point here...help me please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 830 days ago

18 December 2014 (M age 36-40 - My wife and I have had a sexless marriage since shortly after marriage in 2003. This made me feel alone and unwanted so I started cheating to fill this void. Everything else in our relationship was fine and we had two children within a few years. She found out about the ... (375 words

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