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Met online, had 6 dates, had sex on 4 of them, is he just using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 904 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, I met this guy at an online dating site about two months ago, and after we met in person (about seven weeks ago) we have been out about six times and we had sex four times out of the six dates. The other two times were nice and romantic; just cuddling and rel... (689 words

Why did he change so quickly? Now he has said we can still talk and we can be friends, but I want more than that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I really need some advice? ok so I met this guy about 9 months ago, we started texting and then went out for some drinks where I ended up spending the night at his house. Nothing happened because I was a virgin (I know strange as I am 22) anyway I carried in seeing him goin... (659 words

When I'm with him I feel loved. I love him. But am I getting too attached if he does not yet feel able to say he loves me after 3 months of dating? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hi thanks for reading. In a relationship with a guy three months this month. He's 25, I'm 24. We live other side of england in a sense so we go for weekends away. I did suggest dates etc (we only ever had one day date was our first date) since then he said wants to spend m... (325 words

My wife of ten years says abusive things and then expects me to apologise. How should I respond to her accusations and her insults?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I'm really concerned. Ours has not been the best of marriages. We're 10 years in, we have two beautiful daughters. I'm the stay at home parent and I've thrown myself at the role. We've moved 3 times and I've made new friends/ a new world each time. I'm worried ... (428 words

How long to wait before having sex with a guy? Not sure what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - How long should you wait before having sex with a guy? Ok, I met this lovely guy in September, we've been on 5 dates, third date he kissed me and stayed at mine, fourth date same and fifth date same too. He lives out of London, so we usually go out, then come back to mine bec... (222 words

Am I wrong to feel hurt that she let her exes give her oral sex but not me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 909 days ago

22 December 2014 (M age 22-25 - My girlfriend and I have been together getting on for five months now and at some point we have had a chat about the sexual experiences we've both had in our pasts. My girlfriend has openly talked about how she enjoyed oral sex when her ex's have performed it on her, but when ... (412 words

Building confidence when I can't find any redeeming features about myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (M age 26-29 - I was forced to do two extra years of high school, I had to retake some of my final high school exams and I still did poorly. I entered a weak college but I flunked out and failed many classes, at the moment I'll be graduating in 2017 despite having begun my degree in 2010, I ... (105 words

His trust in me was undermined by my threesome proposal. Should I contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (M age 30-35 - I'm a 32-year-old guy. After chatting with an older guy online, we met 3 times for sex, but there was nothing declared as to what's called a relationship. A month ago or so, I suggested he check out another guy visiting from out of country for a threesome. He visited his ... (104 words

How do I distance myself from my abusive mother? Anyone else experienced anything similar?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 911 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - I need some advice from people who might be in a similar situation to me. I’m a 25 year old woman who has always had a very strained relationship with my mum, but which recently has become unbearable. I’ll try to only give the information which is relevant here but I’m sorry ... (1617 words

How should I come clean about my feelings? And should I be worrying about the long haul?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (M age 22-25 - Quick question(s): I've been getting to know this girl for about two months now. The first half of that time primarily consisted of us meeting up for drinks with our mutual friends. Then we started texting, then we met up for drinks in a much more intimate group, and then ... (370 words

Should I just cut my losses if he's not serious about us having a future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of over 5 years told me last night that he loves me and thinks we'll probably end up married one day but he can't say for sure as he 'doesn't have a crystal ball.' I'm quite gutted and think that if he doesn't know by now he'll never know, but he wants me to stay ... (104 words

How do I get over being wrongly accused of cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - Greetings fellow souls, Recently, I was broken up with by my boyfriend of around 9 months because he thought I cheated on him. The only problem is that I didn't, nothing. No flirting with intention, kissing, touching, etc. nothing. Just some theories he created in his h... (256 words

He is dwelling in the past when we need to move forward!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - Hi everyone.. I am quite in a pickle at the moment and i urgently need some advice... So about a week ago, my boyfriend and I were in an argument and things got pretty bad. And we were both invited to the same party. At that party I was feeling stressed out and didn't reall... (358 words

I'd like to rekindle our friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - I am after some advice...I had a best friend throughout my primary school who was amazing then we went our separate ways in high school. I now want to see whether she wants to become friends with me again. We haven't spoken for about 7/8 years now so what are the chances of her ... (102 words

I am beginning to hate my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 18-21 - i am beginning to hate my best friend and i don't know what to do so basically... we have been friends for the past 3 years, since the start of high school and now i'm beginning to find her more and more annoying she is REALLY moody, and it's not her period or anything because... (362 words

Is it okay to go out alone on New Year's Eve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (M age 26-29 - The last few years I've been single and primarily friendless so I've stayed in watching tv trying to convince myself I wasn't bored. This year I'm still single, but my friends are coupled or will be out of town and I just can't stand the thought of yet another new year's at ... (163 words

I said " I love you" but he said he doesn't love me but is enjoying our time together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - I told my bf I loved him after 1 year. He stood quiet and didn't say anything. I left home and all day he did not call or text me. I called him late to talk and he basically said that he doesn't love me but is only enjoying time with me. He does care for me more than a ... (174 words

How can I get a new razor without having to ask my parents?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

22 December 2014 (M age 16-17 - Hey, this is a bit awkward! I'm in desperate need of some help. I'm a 15 year old guy, and I keep myself clean, grooming, etc. So, I shave. All places, and "down there" (if you catch my drift) is the problem. Well, not the shaving part, but the razor part. My parents don'... (282 words

After two years I want to tell him I love him, but what if he brushes it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 914 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. He's wonderful in every way. I want to tell him I love him but what if he brushes it off like it doesn't mean anything? We've talked about our other relationships and before with another girl, he didn't like telling her ... (71 words

We are working on things but the spark has gone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been through a bit of a rough patch. Arguing and falling out over petty things. We are okay and have decided to work things out and put everything behind us. However, now it seems the spark is gone and I don't know whether it's just me or we both nee... (187 words

Should I email now that they have deactivated their social networking sites?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (M age 22-25 - Hi Well my situation is quite simple and i just wondered if anyone had any insight. Someone who has been a good friend over the last few years has deactivated their facebook account and has apparently changed their account on a mobile messaging service we use as well... (315 words

Am I better off dating someone within my own culture/race?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

22 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - Five years in an interracial relationship with a man fifteen years older than me. I thought I loved him but now, I'm unsure. Holiday season is depressing. I've never been invited to a family dinner or functions and I hate it. My friends are always with their boyfriends AND ... (252 words

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