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If he wants to break up I accept, and if he just wants to be friends that's okay, but I really want to get back together with him.

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12 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - So I had this thing with this guy, I'm not really sure what to call it. The first day we met, we hit it off immediately and we were holding hands by the end of the night. He got my number and texted me and we hung out the next day with a group of people. We texted often and ... (851 words

Am I just being a paranoid wife or is there something going on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 895 days ago

12 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - Okay I have been married for ten years to a military member. Moved around many times and recently moved to California 5 months ago. I am a stay at home mom for my autistic daughter and have had a hard time finding work due to limited schedule. My husband has gained a new female ... (313 words

I only contacted him because of the baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

12 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - i tried posting this yesterday but i can't find anywhere. My situation, i contacted my ex bf to inform of our baby. he wanted a dna test so i was just following up to see when/how, if he had found any info about getting a test done, etc. He said he hadn't really thought about ... (565 words

Can an abuser ever change?

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12 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - My partner and I have been together for a little while now. Up until about two weeks ago, we only had usual couple arguments. Here lately, I've been wanting to break up. Over the course of a week, every time I would say I want to leave, he would get physical. The first day he ... (176 words

He told me about his past to try to seem "more desirable"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 897 days ago

12 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for 5 weeks. He already tells me he thinks I am the one and that he is falling in love with me. He has a female co worker who he sits next to. However after a drunken work party he came to visit me, he was drunk andstarted to show me photos of his wo... (171 words

I'm obsessed by this girl! How do I get her out of my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 896 days ago

12 December 2014 (M age 22-25 - recently my friend has changed, we were friends for over an year, she used to talk to me daily , message me daily and we used to talk a lot, i always liked her, i still do . problem is recently she has changed, she dont message me daily and doesnt respond to mine, she talks ve... (195 words

I don't know how to read her -- does she want to be friends or what?

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12 December 2014 (M age 22-25 - Hello there I need help regarding a girl I was pursuing about a year ago at my university. Background In three months, we became really close and went on few dates. We were talking three four hours a day and meeting as well at campus. Then, about in fourth month I told her... (556 words

I found a teen porn web site address in my husband's phone. What should I do?

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12 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - I have been married for 2 years and have just found a note in husbands phone with a porn site (it was in a notes app and looked like he cut and pasted the page). I understand men sometimes like to look at porn but the title of the porn site was teen sex. I havent looked at the ... (136 words

A terrible co-worker that I once thought was my friend is holding things over my head. Help!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

12 December 2014 (F age 41-50 - I am really in a difficult situation that I wrote about on here before and took people's advice about, but the situation is somewhat worse after acting upon it. I apologise profusely for the length of this post. Basically, I have been being manipulated by a colleague who in... (1533 words

Why does this man give me the silent treatment? Why not just tell me what is wrong?

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12 December 2014 (F age 30-35 - I have been seeing this man for 3 years now. A few months ago he got really upset with me and wouldn't talk to me for a month. Finally, we talked and began seeing each other again. Now, the same silent treatment is happening, and he has blocked my number from his cell phone. ... (165 words

I am a lesbian crushing on my older male co-worker

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 889 days ago

12 December 2014 (F age 22-25 - I am so confused and lost. I am a woman, and I currently have a girlfriend, we've been together for three years, we met in college, and we've been through hell and back. The problem is, I have a huge crush on my older male co-worker. It's been almost a year since I've started ... (242 words

Does one bj make your husband gay?

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12 December 2014 (F age 51-59 - My husband used my laptop and forgot to close the sight he was on, when I got home I turned on the computer to check on a recipe and there it was: My husband was making a date with a woman ( he gave her his cell phone #), I was furious. He said that he was just "messing" with ... (244 words

He complimented the online girls but never me

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12 December 2014 (F age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for 15 years. We split because of his powerful porn addiction and the fact he would compare me with the porn stars. Anyway after a year of seperation and him repeatedly saying he now realises how much he values the relationship we reconcil... (161 words

Did he have an emotional affair?

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12 December 2014 (F age 26-29 - Did my bf have an emotional affair? He used to regularly text a female friend (almost on a daily basis). Initially whenever he got a text from her when I was around, he was fine with me reading her texts. Gradually, whenever he got a text from her, he'd not open her texts a... (224 words

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