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How do I not be threathened by her around my crush?

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Question - (20 April 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2013)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Hi so I have this girl who's a friend. She's really pretty and all the dudes like her they don't bother to get to know her though. We ride the bus together and she is reply nice she has a boyfriend and everyone tries to hit on her but she says she's taken so that's good . But I feel a little threatened because just a few weeks ago her and my crush were sitting on the couch we have in class and they were laughing and play fighting and stuff. I feel threatened by her and I really want to tell her that I like him cuz she doesnt know I do and yea. So then like yesterday friday she told me that he went snooping in her dask and stuff. Of course it ticked me off but for the wrong reason she was mad about him snooping and I was mad that he never does that to me haha I know I sound stubid but I just don't like them hanging around together my crush he gets easily attached to things and people and it makes me feel weird whenever she's around that he can be all attached when he usaually is ALLWAYS attached to me so yea I no I sound stubid. But how can I not be threatened by her helppp !

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A female reader, HeresBoo Australia +, writes (23 April 2013):

HeresBoo agony auntJust let her know that you do like him and, as the other DearCupider said, she may even try help you guys get together.

She's taken, so you shouldn't feel threatened but she may even take it as a compliment if you tell her you're jealous or threatened by her nice personality. I did that with a friend of mine and she needed up saying she was jealous of me too and felt the same and we laughed about it.

Good luck with your crush :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2013):

tell her but make sure your clear that its not just an attraction thing, that you do actually like him, not only will she back off maybe she'll try and get you two together.

as for the threatening thing, so what if shes pretty she cant be perfect, she probably wishes that she has something you dont

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