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*randon11
writes:Ok, here goes nothing. I met my ex while attending university. Everything was going fine for the first 3 months until she found out she was pregnant. That's when I began to notice a change in the way I was treated. She blames says its bc of old pictures she found (not nude) and explicit text messages she found on an older phone I had. We recently broke upw2 months ago. She hahasn't called or text in those 2 months except to show me pictures of a sonogram she got done. I've tried to talk to her but to no avail. I've done nothing wrong in our relationship and have began to wonder what truly is going on? I'm in the dark with an ex that is now 4 months pregnant. Any advice? I'm worried sick.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (21 April 2013):
I think you should find out through medical means if this child is yours or not, chances are that she may have cheated on you and she feels a lot of guilt from it. Another reason could be that she feels lost and isn't reacting to the situation very well. Either way, these are just assumptions so you will have to step up and try to find some solid information else just give up on her and move on. If it is as you say, and you have done nothing wrong, then she doesn't deserve someone like you.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (21 April 2013):
 It's hard to know with that little information. You are trying to ask us why she broke up with you and whether her reason was legit. Were the pictures and text messages there before you dated her? I would wonder if she got pregnant by someone else and didn't know how to tell you. I think because she broke up with you, you have the right to demand a paternity test later. Most young women who are knocked up are possessive of their partners, and not the other way round, wanting to leave. Whether you could patch up the relationship later, you should know the truth and she can't hide forever.
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