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anonymous
writes:Hi Guys, I hope someone out there can help, cos Im at my wits end.Im in my 30's and have had 2 serious relationships, recenltly i met this great guy and we got on brill, however, I cant drink alcohol, I black out and get agressive, cry uncontrolable and am jus a mess and i wake up so embarrassed and ashamed. This happened early on into the realtionship but for some reason he forgave me and we had an amazing few months, I did not drink, and he said if it ever happened again it was over. I know I cant drink andI have a dark past that I try to hide and I know I need therapy. To cut a long story short, I had the most amazing night with him ever, we got on great evrythignwas fab I had a glass of wine, 2 glasses, 3 glasses and so I cried and cried and shouted and cried and now he never wants to see me again. He said he cant forgive me he needs time to think!!! I totally think hes right but unfortunately for me I think I actually liked him because I cant get over it, I know what I need to do personally, but do you think there is anyway he will forgive me?? again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): Well err, you know what happens when you drink. You had a chance and obviously thought because he`d gave you a chance that he would again. I think if he did give you another chance you will only end up doing it again. You need to sort your problems out. That is far more important than anything.
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