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anonymous
writes:I would like a little insight and advice on a situation I'm in. I have a coworker that I have been interested since he started in December. We had alot of innocent flirting at work for awhile. About a month ago, I suggested we should hang out and gave him my number shortly after. We texted for a week or so then started hanging out. The first time he just helped me hang some paintings. He asked me to go bowling a few days later and when I got to his place to meet up, he had cooked dinner for us and payed for the evening out, (very nice) He continues to invite me over and cooks for me. He even always has my favorite beer which he doesn't drink. We kinda cuddle up together on the couch when we're watching movies, but after 4 times hanging out together, not even so much as a kiss on the cheek! Our daily texts sometimes get on the suggestive side which has me confused as to why this hasn't gotten at least a little physical. I'm uncomfortable making the first move. Any ideas why he would be holding back? It really seems like he's interested in me...
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reader, s143k  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 He seems to be interested in you ,, well try to give him some hints like when you see each other or kissing goodbye or even when you are cuddling try to kiss him near his lips maybe he'll understand or if you think he is shy you can try to make the first move its not wrong if the girl makes the first move maybe he thinks that it's too soon or afraid that you think it's too soon so try to give him some hints that's you are ready, good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): That's a tough one to answer. Maybe he's shy,inexperienced,or maybe he's thinking the same thing you are. Invite him over tonight for dinner. Tell him you gonna make something special. Then answer the door wearing a towel like you had just gotten out of the shower. When he asks what's for dinner you say "me". If that don't get him going he's a lost cause. Good luck!
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