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writes:Im in a relationship with a lad 2 years older than me, and its a long distance relatioship. We see eachother every 4-5 months and we both feel the same and want the same in the relationship, i cant see my future without him. But theres one problem, my mum and my mates arnt sure. I've told my mates i dont want them getting involved in our relationship as a relationship is just between 2 people, no more also, my partners last relationship ended because of her mates getting involved. When i think about it, i really dont want that to happen and i dont want to lose him, he's the best things thats ever happened to me. I dont know what to do, my mum keeps asking me questions but i dont feel comftable answering them, i dont want her getting involved either. Also the other day my mate was making me choose over her and him and she put me in a position i didnt want to be in, it was so difficult and i didnt know what to do. Please could you help or give me some advice, much appreciated. x x x
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reader, petina1 +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Long distance relationships are difficult at the best of times. Some do work. Your mum will be wondering what he's like because she won't be able to see him either enough so she's bound to be worried. I had a friend who was in one for five years. As soon as they spent a week together they constantly argued and split up. So there's the getting to know each other properly up close and personal aspect of this kind of relationship that can be a bit of a shock to the system if you really arent ready for that. Your friends shouldnt be giving you a hard time over it though, it isnt any of their business unless they know something about your partner that isnt favourable. Ask them politely to support you or keep out of it. Try to be open with your mum and if she thinks everything is okay you will get all the support you need there. Hope this helps.
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