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Struggling to give my boyfriend oral..

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Question - (11 June 2010) 8 Answers - (Newest, 15 June 2010)
A female Bahrain age 30-35, *143k writes:

How can I blowjob my boyfriend with out hurting him with my teeth and I can't get it all inside my mouth how can I get it all inside cause I feel I'm gonna vomit because its long ??

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A male reader, rivi United States +, writes (15 June 2010):

Concentrate on just the glans penis - the purple helmet: use your lips and your tongue: you could see if he likes it when you use just the tip of your tongue to stimulate his urethral opening. Use a hand to grip the shaft fairly tight.

Another thing to try is 69-ing : I love it when I-m not only getting sucked off but also I-m getting to give oral attention to the gf-s clitoris and vagina....... Heaven ! Plus she says she likes seeing my ass descending on her for the penis to get into her lips ; mouth.... So the pleasure-s mutual.....

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (11 June 2010):

dirtball agony auntAlso, don't suck too hard, that can be extremely painful. Just ask him for some directions. I'm sure he'll be happy to tell you what he likes.

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A female reader, s143k Bahrain +, writes (11 June 2010):

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s143k agony auntThank you all for the reply (f)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010):

Unless you have given a lot of deep throat head, you will not be able to take it all in. Concentrate on the head, where the sensitivity is.

You need to mix a hand job in with the blow job. Get it good and slippery with your spit and then you can stroke a little and suck a little. My b/f said the head gets really sensitive as he finishes so just press your lips gently against the tip with your lips slightly open as he explodes in your mouth. This way you don't ruin his orgasm by overstimulating the head and there is no mess to clean up afterward, which is always nice.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (11 June 2010):

person12345 agony auntDon't put the whole thing in your mouth if it gets your gag reflexes. The head is the most sensitive part so focus on that part with your mouth (licking and sucking) and use your hand to stimulate the shaft. You can buy some flavored lube to use with your hand that will make it feel great for him too.

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (11 June 2010):

C. Grant agony auntYou don't need to get it all inside. Just the head. Put your hand just below the head so you don't get more in your mouth than you can handle. Wrap your lips over your teeth.

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (11 June 2010):

TimmD agony auntThis may sound weird, but if you're looking for tips on blowjobs watching some pornos will help. You can learn different techniques and how to deal with a penis that may be larger than you can handle.

Just make sure you are of legal age to watch them, otherwise... nevermind. :-)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010):

Try just licking on it and sucking the head at first you don't have to try and fit it all in your mouth the first time...most of the time their just happy that ur trying to give them oral...u can use your hands anytime you feel like ur going to vomit just make sure your not giving a dry handjob guys hate that

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