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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): Nope, in fact I don't believe in the whole concept of cheating. I've been married for 10 years, and love my wife dearly but honestly don't care what she does.
Here's Why...
I don't look at marriage as a chain to be used to deny people their natural desires. I believe marriage is two people saying they love each other and want to stay with each other. trying to make it otherwise is just dangerous, and boring.
My wife can do what she wants in front of me or with out me (as can I), and as a result we have a strong healthy and dare I say HAPPY marriage.
People are people and should be allowed to act as such not be tied down with antiquated beliefs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): Nope, in fact I don't believe in the whole concept of cheating. I've been married for 10 years, and love my wife dearly but honestly don't care what she does. Here's Why...I don't look at marriage as a chain to be used to deny people their natural desires. I believe marriage is two people saying they love each other and want to stay with each other. trying to make it otherwise is just dangerous, and boring. My wife can do what she wants in front of me or with out me (as can I), and as a result we have a strong healthy and dare I say HAPPY marriage.People are people and should be allowed to act as such not be tied down with antiquated beliefs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007): Hey, I don't know. I'm trying to figure that out myself. I am married 17 years, very happily at that, we've know eachother for 23 years which make us in our early 40's. I went to a Christmas Party for work tonight and a guy that works for us, really kissed me goodnight passionately, but I wouldn't alow any further because of our spouses. Is it sill cheating if you don't go back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007): If you are in a committed relationship, and kiss someone else passionatly, then it is very much cheating!! Your girlfriend/boyfriend/ fiance/spouse would probably dump you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): YES
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): The best way to answer all relationship questions of this type are simple: Do you want someone who's dating you to be kissing someone else?
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 Definitely
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reader, eddie  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 Of course it's cheating. If you need to ask the question, you already know the answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): Most definitely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): totally agree with stina on this one. I think kissing on the mouth could be classed as cheating.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 Agree with stina - it depends on the motivation behind the kiss really.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): yes
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reader, stina  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 Hey Anon,
Personally I think kissing on the mouth is cheating. BUT if it's a quick peck on the lips with a good friend you haven't seen in a long time, it's not cheating in my opinion (although I do still think it's strange and I would never do that).
Take care.
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