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writes: i love my sister,she is younger than me with 10 years she is 26 , i had touched her twice during her sleeping and she had feel me but she made her self sleeping,and we touched each other in the swimming pool,but as we having fun in the water, please advice me?? thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (2 January 2007):
 Is this Borat?
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reader, Furthling +, writes (2 January 2007):
 It's very unusual for emotionally healthy people to be sexually attracted to anyone they grew up with (whether relatives or not); look up "Westmarck effect." Which doesn't necessarily make it immoral or deeply sick.
If you didn't grow up with her, it's actually not very unusual, though it still does pose serious problems. Also, if you did grow up together but had serious bad experiences, and maybe have trouble expressing affection, it's not unusual either (still poses problems though).
Try and take a step back and think about this carefully-- sometime when you're *not* aroused or feeling lonely. Are you *sure* she likes it? If not, and since you've already had contact, you should stop, and tell her that you love her as a sister, and wouldn't ever want to do anything that hurt her or made her feel bad. And never have contact of that sort again unless she's very clear about wanting it.
The scorn heaped on you by other posters here was stupid, because we don't really know what your scene is based on what you posted. The only way I'd share their opinions is if I knew (they don't either) that you just don't care about your sister's feelings; in which case, you should go ahead and make a mental health professional, and your community, aware that you need to be watched.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006): i was abused by my own sister when i was 7 i'm female, my sister was fifteen at the the time. I wanna kill her for the past 15 years of my life that she's spoilt and made me feel dirty. It didn't go on for long thank god but i'm scarred for life.
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reader, bby_gal06 +, writes (28 October 2006):
 hiya
i dont think this is right for family's to do this, how ever you cant help who you fall in love with but i think you should try and get out of this becuase a lot of people would not like what your doing.
i think both of you are in the wrong here but different people have different ways of dealing with things.
try and get your self a gf that isnt your sister and see how that goes.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): you both already in age to think what is right and wrong but you also both absulutely sick physicaly and emotionaly' go and see mental health doctor. it will help you guys a lot. and make it hurry' do it, not tommorow not next week not next month. before its too late do it now., now.., nowwwwwwww........ gladyz
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): I don't think it's not normal. Of the some 6.5 billion people on Earth, I'm sure there are at least a minority few million of them that think of their siblings in a sexual way. As with other things in life, sex isn't necessarily related to having a emotional relationship with someone. Surely, ethically, it's not a good thing, nor is it legal, and I'm sure it's possible to find things in your siblings, cousins, and distant cousins that you cannot find in lovers outside of your bloodline. We are all human anyhow. It's how others perceive us that we end up doing what others feel we should be doing.
Think about the risks, and think about how much you feel tht others see you.
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reader, chunkymunky +, writes (28 October 2006):
 It's not normal and it's VERY illegal. You shouldn't be having this kind of relationship with your sister, maybe you should get some help.
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reader, sherimo1970 +, writes (28 October 2006):
sherimo1970 is verified as being by the original poster of the question to all friends who thinks that iam sick or not normal : i had a girlfriend and we are in a good relation ship together, buti adore my sister , i dont know why or how,but ofcource i will not sleep with her or make love to her,thats all. many thanks to all who care about me. yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): you are a joker. please try your pranks elsewhere, this is a relationship site for people in need!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): Keep your hands to yourself.
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reader, motornut +, writes (27 October 2006):
It is really weird that you have any sexual feeling for your sister. I guess touching is ok if she consents but you really cannot go any further, morally and for legal reasons.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): Come on you know this is wrong! what your doing is incest
I know you may have these feelings and they may seem real to you but I promice you could could have a normal healthey relationship with some un-realated to you, if you choose to carry on like this you will hurt your family and even your sister, these feelings of "Family love" and "attaction" are totally seprate things dont go into bed with you sister, avoid situations like this its just not right, dont touch her in that way, seek councelling or a confidential helpline for more help with this you need to try and not act on these feelings and get help good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006): Sorry but that is not normal. Were you sexually abused as children? I think you both could do with some counselling.
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