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writes: does he still love me as before?i have a relation for almost 5 years we were so perfect love each other. he always took care of me. ofcorse we had problems like any1 else. i noticed that after 2 years of our relation istarted to discover that he is moody. and when he is angry on anything else he shouts or talk to me in abad way but latly he qurelled with me without a reason at all about something not even important that i told him iam going out in some place with my family then we went to another place. he said that i should have called him to tell him but ididnt have aphone at this moment. on the other hand that day in the morning he told me he went to a party the day before and saw some girls he knew and sat with them there but he couldnt tell me he was goin to that party bec he didnt have time or phone to tell me. he give himself right for things and me not as if iam nothing.also that week was great for us we had fun he was perfect why he change so quickly,whats in his mind. icant give hime chances like that every now and then. and if i told him i cant go on this way he begins to cry and say he loves me,bec it happened before. iwant an answer plz plzi love him so but thats to much i cant go on iam scared whats the right decission. Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 Hi,
Perhaps u should trying talking to him. A loving chat and see what happens. Let him know how u feel and that his mood swing and temper get to you. If u really do love each other then both of u have to work out ways to deal with this. There is no one perfect out there. Even brother and sisters and family members have feud. It now depends on how much love and patient u have with each other. If he cares then i believe he will try to curb down his temper. You can work out a plan on what to do when he get in that way and let him be aware. e.g when i know my bf gets in a mood and doesnt want to talk i give him some time-out until he is ready then i lovingly ask him what is bothering him.
Take care now and goodluck
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