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writes: hiya, i met this lad on holiday over a year ago we have met up twice since thats all because of the distance! but we speak on messnger, phone and txting all the time, however he is coming up 2 stay with me for a few days soon, would he think i was a slut if i slept with him! or is this ok because were so close? any advice would be great :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): It sounds like you have a special relationship with this person, so I don't think that having sex will make you a slut at all. Follow your gut instinct and you will know what to do when the time comes.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (28 October 2006):
 to be honest from my point of veiw you do not sleep with some one because you are sexually attracted to them nor because your horny or because its a close freind in my eyes big mistake yes certainly a slut. you sleep with some one because your in a ralationship with them and have got to know them and possibly even fell in love with each other. but you dont hear much of that today do you. but if you really want to then wait untill the last day of him leaveing so that way youve got to know him a bit better too. also ive got a male freind ive know 4years and he is sex on legs but i would never sleep with him as im not in a ralationship with him even when i was in a ralationship with him at 15 i never slept with him because i didnt get to know him that well. but now i do and still i wouldnt even go there.
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