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writes: I just got married five months ago, we just recently moved right after getting married. I find myself now with a schoolgirl crush on my boss, who is about 15 years older than me and has a wife and toddler at home. He's really smart and attractive; I don't want to pursue anything with him because I refuse to be the catalyst for ruining five lives. I think that may be attracted to me but is conflicted as well. When we first met, he used to be touchy-feely (but not in an uncomfortable way) and friendly with me, but now he never makes eye contact, and he's somewhat terse and nervous around me compared to others. How do I remove the sexual tension and make our work environment more friendly?
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reader, eddie  +, writes (27 October 2006):
 It sounds like he has already started to distance himself from you. A question, if your priorities are to keep this cordial, why are you so concerned about how he reacts to you not noticing him. How do you know he's not making eye contact unless you're staring at him waiting for eye contact. Concentrate on your man. It sounds like you're ready to flirt. Treat him like any other person, male or female. You sound hung up on the schoolgirl stuff.
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reader, eddie +, writes (27 October 2006):
It sounds like he has already started to distance himself from you. A question, if your priorities are to keep this cordial, why are you so concerned about how he reacts to you not noticing him. How do you know he's not making eye contact unless you're staring at him waiting for eye contact. Concentrate on your man. It sounds like you're ready to flirt. Treat him like any other person, male or female. You sound hung up on the schoolgirl stuff.
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