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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Can I prevent my cheating GF from getting hurt by her guy-on-the-side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - My girlfriend has been cheating on me for 6 months behind my back. We took a break over Christmas, when she met this guy and continued to see him when we got back together in February. She told me last week and said that she loved him but loved me also. She asked me to forgive ... (218 words)

On off guy, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - Im a 17 year old girl and ive been with my boyfriend on and off since I was 15, he was my 1st and I no I love him and he says al the time he loves me but then for no reason he will end it and be nasty and hes gone with other girls and ive 4given him cos I love him so much,he ... (126 words)

Need some ideas to make me FEEL ALIVE...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

21 May 2006 (M)

- I'm in need of some serious help. I have totally and utterly stagnated in my life. For want of a better word, moribund. Possibly depressed although who knows. I need some suggestions of things to do, to make me actually feel alive, in the next week. THANKS :-)... (57 words)

Always ending relationships quickly.. can i stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - I've always been really bad at relationships, never having one for longer than a week because once i've got them i'm no longer attracted to them, and i give them the cold shoulder until they dump me. Then i met this guy and we fell in love and everything was perfect and i felt ... (118 words)

I like him better when he's not with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - This sounds weird but I'm only attracted to my guy when I'm not with him. What's going on?... (18 words)

My fella has a big fella! Can it damage me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend's penis is massive but we're planning on having sex soon. It'd be my first time and i'm so scared. It's painful enough being fingered, i'm worried he'll do actual damage to me. What can we do?... (38 words)

C'mon you blokes! How long should it take?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - How long does it take a guy to come? My guy takes ages and i was just wondering if it was normal, and if i should be taking it personally.... (30 words)

Do others feel the same pain on the anniversaries of painful events?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

21 May 2006 (F)

- It was year ago today that I broke up with my longtime partner and things are getting better and better. For some reason, though the week leading up to the breakup day and the day itself have been hellish. I feel as raw and upset as I did on the day we ended it and was ... (86 words)

My friend's girlfriend would be better off with me! She knows it, but still sticks with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - I have fallen for my friend’s girlfriend. The trouble is that they have been together for 9 months and in that time I know he has cheated on her at least three or four times. He’s just one of those guys. We have been getting quite close over the past two months and I have fal... (230 words)

Is my ex only interested again because I have someone new in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - I have split from my bf nearly a month and a half ago and things are starting to get a tad better. A few Saturdays ago I went out to party and met this really nice guy. I had a great time and he came back to my mate's. We shared a sleeping bag and we kissed but that was it. ... (226 words)

Still in love with the "guy I couldn't have". Should I pursue it or stay with my current BF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - A few months ago I met a new guy from work who had moved here from London. We got on well but he had a girlfriend. We went out a few times as friends but we were both really attracted to each other. We talked about how much we liked each other and how he and his girlfrie... (251 words)

Can you get an STD from fingering?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - my boyfriend fingered me last night. Could i get an STD?... (12 words)

I'm 20 and I don't think my boyfriend knows I'm a virin...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

21 May 2006 (F)

- What do I do? My boyfriend of 2 1/2 months is very keen on me. I do like him a lot but I don't believe that I love him or anything. I have known him for 2 years. He doesn't know that I have never had a boyfriend before and I reckon just assumes I have had sex before. He has ... (215 words)

Can't help wondering if he's seeing someone else behind my back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and have come to a brick wall. He was seeing another girl behind my back for a few weeks last year, but swore that they didn't do anything. They split up when he realised that she didn't really want him as she had a boyfrien... (176 words)

He broke up with me so suddenly... I don't know what happened!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - Hello, I've recently just broke up from a 2 years, long distance, emotionally-abusive, gay relationship. I'm having a real hard time, as everything reminds me of him, and what breaks my heart is that when he finds someone new there'll be someone else holding him and it's not... (266 words)

I suspect her of cheating, but don't want her to know I snooped to find out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 561 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - Hi All I thought I trusted my girlfriend 100% untill today! Let me know what you all think of this please......... Firstly to start of my story I'll rewind a month back, my g/f is out on a work night out. Usually she'll text me a few times etc but she didn't at all this n... (247 words)

How do I know if he liked the bj I gave him... and does he shave his "shaft" ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - hi, i gave my boyfriend a blow job recently and im not sure how he felt about it. It was my first time so id like ta know how it was for him but we havent really talked about it. We've been together awhile and can talk about almost anything but i dont want to jus come out and ... (126 words)

Is my partner cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - hi. i have been seeing my fiance i love for two years almost three. i want to know if he's cheating on me? the one night my freind went out with him and went to a freinds house. they were outside and my freind went to go to the toilet leaving my fiance and this girl behind and ... (245 words)

My boyfriends grandmother hates me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and his grandma absoulty cant stand me! Anytime i call she hangs up on me. When i go knock on the door she just says go away he is taking a bath (even though he comes out like 5 seconds later)For our anniversary i gave him a ... (125 words)

My boyfriends eyes dilate during sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - When I make love with my boyfriend I notice that his pupils really dilate when he's just about to orgasm. I've asked him if mine do and he says no.I thought that maybe it was because it was dark. However the other day in full daylight his pupils actually dilated the whole of ... (92 words)

My ex is being horrible to me, why is he behaving like this

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - I have been going out with this boy for a year and a half now and he breaks off with me for no good reason al of a sudden, and then he would be horrible to me sending me pics of him naked with other girls and saying he only wants me for sex then he will be all nice to me again ... (72 words)

Bored with my sex life, how do I put the spark back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - Me and by bf have been together for a while and yes we have had sex, But when we do its the same thing over and over and i was wondering does anyone one know ways to put a spark in your sex life? ... (44 words)

How do I get my ex back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 632 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - i am 15, i want my ex back! we broke up a few months ago cos we wanted a break and consentrate on school. now i really want him back and i think he would get back with me cos no other girls like him or would go out with him cos he really isnt the best looking guy in the world. ... (81 words)

I still like my ex but he has a new girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - ok. this will probably be long. i have liked this lad for 4 years. we met at school, and he has always felt the same. however, we didnt actually get together until january this year. it was brilliant, and i really grew close to him. but after 2 weeks, he said he still had ... (157 words)

I still like my ex but I am doing my exams and my Mum is not happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - I'm starting exams next week, and my mum has been nagging me to do revision, which i have been doing for ages. But for the past week or so i've been getting 'close' with an ex bf. My mum thinks we've got back together again, which we haven't, and she won't listen when i tell ... (249 words)

Fantasy sex in my head is better than the real thing, help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - I get really turned on thinking about doing stuff with my boyfriend, but when we're actually doing it it's nowhere near as good as it was in my head. Do i just have an over active imagination or am i having trouble getting an orgasm just because he's just not got what it takes? ... (54 words)

I like this guy but he has a girlfriend and he hasn't left her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - A few weeks ago I met a guy who I was instantly attracted to.We would flirt all the time. and he told me he was attracted to me. All was going well until i found out he had a girlfriend!!!! We did talk about his girlfriend and he said it wasnt really working out and that they ... (159 words)

Pursued my x for months but now i have him, the feelings have gone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - I spent 4 months trying to get back with my ex, and it's finally happened. But for some reason i'm not enjoying it. I think i had finally excepted that it was over, and we were beginning to become 'just friends', but he asked to meet up yesterday, and we ended up laying in the ... (117 words)

I miss this girl in school, should I ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - Please help me! im 16 and im desperate to see this girl who is a year younger than me who was my best friend because i haven't seen her in 3 months and i personally don't know why. I want to see her because i really do miss her and i deeply care for her and i know this becauase ... (115 words)

Its dry down south this summer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F)

- I get really sexually aroused when attempting to have sex with my boyfriend, but so far we have not succeeded as I don't seem to get "wet" at all! Is there any other way than to use lubricants??... (40 words)

Her mood swings are driving me away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - I have been in an international relation ship with a girl from Japan. I am from south Asia for the last 3 yrs. When we met I was a virgin and she was not. Any way, we have been living together for the last 2 years. She and I are the same age. When we stated this relation... (335 words)

He cheats but i love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend since last summer,although i met him and dated him three years ago for a while. i recently found out that when i met him he had a girlfriend that he never told me about, i can't understand why he chased me for so long to go out with ... (132 words)

I Do ...... But i don't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - Marriage: am I wasting everybody's time? I have just asked my girlfriend to marry me. The trouble is that I don't feel elated. I feel anxious. In truth, and I have never said otherwise, I would not have asked if I had been left to my own devices. It's just that my partner ... (253 words)

What is oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - what is oral sex?... (4 words)

Do boys prefer the natural look or makeup on girls

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - ello i am 15 years of age and just wondering, do boys prefer the natural look or girls that wear make up?... (22 words)

Should I worry that a married, flirting friend now wants to get at job at my company?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F)

- Background Male acquaintance who is married, And attracted to. I've known him about 18 months. Started off flirting and teasing me. Didn't know he was married to begin with, but when I found out, stopped the flirting, just acted friendly. Couldn't avoid him due to our paths... (174 words)

I know where he's going to be, so how do I "accidentally" run into him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - To start off, I am 15... not exactly the "type" guys are after, but I'm not a total hag either... but I am extremely shy! And when you're not as pretty as the other girls and are shy you don't tend to find many guys who are into you. Because they are just so shallow that they ... (373 words)

My stepdad would rather have sex with me than with my mum!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - Dear cupid I'm an 18 yr old girl and my problem is that my stepdad raped me a week ago, so my mom kicked me out. I enjoyed having sex with him and he has come to me twice( I'm living in my friend's apartment) and we've had an amazing time but it's not possible for him to come ... (78 words)

Can you be "too young" to get married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - Is there an age too young to get married by other peoples' perspective? Just wondering :)... (16 words)

Am I nothing more than a sex partner to my BF?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and he is the one I lost my virginity to. Well see, we have fun and all hanging out and stuff, but when we are alone he is a complete nympho. As soon as we finish having sex he wants to do it again and again ....and again. ... (107 words)

Two drinks a month isn't excessive, surely? My boyfriend thinks so...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend won't compromise with me. He wants me to be completely sober or he won't marry me. It's not like I have a drinking problem either. I drink VERY infrequently. Maybe 1-2 times a month. I enjoy a glass or two of wine. I've gone out to restaurants or bars with fri... (183 words)

She thinks I'm too needy and clingy...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is accusing me of becoming too clingy. Things were fine up until a month or so ago. Now she pushes me away. We were very close and always inseperable, but now the rejection is getting worse. Is it my fault? Am I too clingy?... (48 words)

My girlfriends and boyfriend hate each other! How do I get some balance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 798 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend have been going through a really tough time lately. He says that I always blow him off for my friends, and that I treat him terribly. How can I have fun with my friends, but show him that I care at the same time?...The worst part of it is that my bf hates my frien... (86 words)

BF's so "protective" that he won't even let me go out with HIM!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - My current boyfriend is very protective and doesn't want me to go out with out him. The only time I ever do get to go out is if he's somewhere I can't be. If I ever ask to go out then he ends up getting stroppy and distant, whereas he can go out whenever he wants, whether I ... (108 words)