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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Will he lose respect for me if we go to a f***-buddy type relationship from just friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 786 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - hi im curious if there are any guys to give me some perspective. im contemplating a strictly sex/friend relationship with a friend of mine who has wanted to for some time now. i have no worries about it, i know about the attachement problems and i know i wont get attached,but ... (115 words)

I married a guy into his metal music... and now I hate it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - when we got married my husband was interested in metal music. I did not care since i liked pop music and everyone likes different types of music. The problem began when 15 years later he met other people who were mad into this metal music. Now all he does is go to concerts... (118 words)

What does premature ejaculation mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 786 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - hiya just a quick question that im concerned about...what does it mean when a man ejeculates too quick during sex?... (20 words)

My guy just wants to be friends with me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 786 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - my partner of 1 yr wants to be friends,he lost his job 5 wks ago also he has a daughter of 3yrs old who he hasnt seen for over a yr which is getting him down,do i just be friends and wait a while to see what happens?... (48 words)

My BF says he's "busy" all the time. Does he mean we're over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I am confused... Me and this boy are meant to be going out and have been for a few months but haven't seen each other much. Recently I phoned him up to ask if he wanted to meet up but he said he was busy. Then a week later, I phoned him up again and he said he was busy agai... (171 words)

I really like him, scared to make a move as he works at my school, would it be wrong ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 785 days ago

30 May 2006 (?) - For the past few months, I have been growing increasingly close to a guy. From nothing I would now say I can consider him a friend, and I know that I have supressed feelings for him. The thing is, that he works..at my sixth form. I'm not yet 18, but I am above the age of ... (169 words)

How do I hide my sexaulity, without avoiding people I care about and becoming lonely and depressed ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 776 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - When I was little I was always a tom boy. I'm 18 now, and I'm not TOTALLY like that anymore, but I have been hiding the fact that I'm homosexual for as long as I can remember. When I look back it's obvious that I've liked girls since I was in 1st grade. I don't really mind ... (171 words)

Why do I think non stop about anyone that shows an interest in me, im confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - hi i ave a problem and its so annoying. basically if i meet a boy and i here he fancies me i start to really like him too. whatever boy shows any interest in me what so ever i start to always think about them non stop and i dont even fancy them! i just cant stop thinking ab... (124 words)

I've fallen in love with my childhood friend, Its ruining our friendship, what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - Okay since I was a kid me and this girl have been best friends. But, a little over a month ago I fell in love with her. I tried to ignore it but I just can't. Our friendship has totally changed. I can't be around her enough now and I still haven't told her how I feel. I ... (97 words)

What does it mean when someone says listen to your heart ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - when people say 'listen to your heart' what does that mean? how do you listen to your heart?... (18 words)

How can you tell if a teenage boy is a attacted to a teenage girl ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 786 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - question 1 - if a teenage boy finds a teenage girl attractive and fancies her, when he looks at her what is his reaction? what is his face expression? question 2 - a magazine said they give a girl the 'smokey look' when they fancy her but what does that mean?... (52 words)

My online guy won't ring me, only chats with me on IM!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 786 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I met a guy off the internet about 3 months ago. He lives in GA, and I live in NC. It's about a 3 1/2 hour drive to see each other, but so far the distance hasn't been a problem because after talking to each other on the phone for a month or longer, we then began seeing each ... (863 words)

His ex's bits and pieces are still round his flat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Dear cupid I have started seeing a new man. He seems really nice but there is one problem. I went round his flat and he still has her shampoo and other bits in his bathroom and Her exercise and weight chart on the fridge. Is it something to worry about? or am I worrying ov... (93 words)

I'm confused... we're friends, we go out, we sleep together... but when things start getting "hotter" she says "stop!". Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (M)

- Can someone please try and explain whats going on for me? I'm 25 year old male and have a 17 year old female friend that i've 'kinda been seeing'...we talk on msn nearly every night and meet up every week or two (she lives about 15miles from me). My question(s) are... ... (193 words)

My boyfriend lives far away, will he get fed up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - i have been seeing my boyfriend for about a month, i really like him but he lives quite far and cant see me every day, i understand this but i just feel as though he will get fed up and meet someone who lives closer to him. what do you think?... (51 words)

He lasted under two minutes, was lazy at oral and had a pointyh shaped "thing"... But I was good to him so why did our relationship cool off?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I recently dated someone who was a good bit younger than I. We're both professionals in our 30s. I'm 38. At the beginning of this short relationship, he did say he was reserved and devoted to work. When it came to sex, he always climaxed in under two minutes. the only way to ... (229 words)

I would like to initiate more from him, how should I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 785 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i makeout A LOT! and we both def. enjoy it but i feel like we could be doing more (but NOT sex) if we both wanted to, i feel like we're both ready but how do i or does he go about initiating something more.....if possible i would appreciate some advice on how ... (65 words)

I had a booty call, I got a new booty-call... Now I have a boyfriend but booty #2 tells me he loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Hi,I had a booty call(Mike) for the past 2 years.I met his friend at a party and his friend(Todd) started coming on to me,i wasnt really interested but he calls me 2 days later.My bootycall(mike) gave him my number,Todd offered me a part time job with him.We worked 1 day a week ... (170 words)

I like this girl and would like to be with her again, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - do you think i may be in love??? a few years ago i went out with this girl at my school for 6 months but we broke up due to harrasment from other people. her friend asked me if i still liked her. i lied by saying no because ever since i have gone out with her i dream of her ... (157 words)

I forgot to get his phone number, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 374 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - heya i reasently went on holiday (camping)wiv my family and i met this boy there and i fancy him a lot and he told me he fancies me a lot. but we forgot to get eachothers mobile numbers! he really really likes me and so do i and i know he will be really upset that we didnt ge... (101 words)

I feel me and my boyfriend should just be friends now, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. I've been with him since I was in high school. Lately I've been feeling like we've grown into mere friends and sometimes I even feel like we're roommates. Just recently when I was out with my friends and I ... (125 words)

My wife says she thinks of us as just friends, how can I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - My Wife says her feelings for me have changed. She says right now she just thinks of us as friends. She told me this after I directly asked her about her obvious lack of interest in any type of physical affection. Holding hands, a hug, a kiss, sex. She faces opposite when she ... (371 words)

Found out my husband was calling another female, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I have been married for almost 7 years and got married straight out of high school. My husband and I have 2 children together. I have recently found out that my husband had a woman's phone number in his cell phone under a guys name. I called the girl and she said that they were ... (303 words)

The sight of showing skin makes my boyfriend cringe, what's wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - My 26 year old b.f. cringes when he sees anything that remotely show cases anyone showing skin. He tells me he does not know what kind of women he is attracted to. Is this normal???? ... (35 words)

I'm concerned about how I'm feeling, any advice please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - hi there, im feeling sick, my heatbeat has increased in speed and my underarms are sweating so badly! Whats wrong with me??? Im concerned! Thank you! ... (26 words)

We were texting, but I asked to meet up and haven't heard from her...HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - I don't know what to think so please help. I was texting this girl last night and it was going great. I have only seen her twice before but anyway we said we would be best friends (even though i have only really started talking to her) and i asked her if we wanted to meet up. ... (146 words)

What is my ex thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me a month ago and moved in with her aunt. She has been hot and cold towards me ever since. All of her personal property is still in my house and the bills are still in both of our names. She has no desire to move her stuff or change the bills ... (117 words)

Torn between two girls, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - Hi Everyone! Im 23 and ive been in a relationship with a girl (lets just call her girl A, she's 26 now) for almost 6 years now! We were going out really well, and everything was wonderful for 2 year until she decided to move out of the country to work! Thinking i was strong ... (572 words)

I love my friend but I think he still likes his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - ive been friends with a guy for over 3 years in the last year we got really close and have slept together, he says he really likes me and texts me every day,we have a good time when we go out togther.get on really well,he was with a girl and broke up and it broke his heart they ... (153 words)

All of a sudden he doesnt want to get married, and cannot give me explanation! What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 786 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I was due to get married on August 19th. My fiance told me that he doesnt want to get married and he isnt sure if we have a future. He says he loves me and doesnt want to hurt me, but other than this he cannot give me a reason why this has happened. We have agreed to have a ... (119 words)

I love my boyfriend but there is another guy I like too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - have been with my boyfriend for just over two years and while we have had our ups and downs things are good between us. the problem is over the last month i have been chatting to another guy and have starting to get feeling for him too. i know before long im going to have to ... (88 words)

My boyfriend doesnt involve me, could he be seeing someone else ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 705 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - my boyfriend does not involve me in his social life im a little concerned if there is another gal besides me please help me... (24 words)

I want my ex back but I have a partner right now and so does he

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Hi again, I recently posted a note on here about my ex wanting me back. I notice that this is quite a common problem on this site. The same as all of you - im confused just as much as you all are!!! Ive been thinking so much over the last 3 weeks that ive given myself ... (231 words)

Problems with the boyfriend I love, but now my Ex is back and wants me too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Help me Please... My ex left me because one girl says he is pregnant with his baby. At that time my ex left me without any explanation, leaving me nowhere to go. I knew it from our friend and I was really hurt. Then after 6 months I got my new boyfriend and we stayed for 4 ye... (324 words)

I want to talk on the phone, and my BF doesn't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

30 May 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend and I are having terrible disputes over being on the phone. Ikay I've been with my bf for 2, going on 3, years and he knows I love talking on the phone and particularly with him. So he always gets on the phone and don't say anything and I get mad becuz I'm feeling ... (96 words)

I don't understand what is going on in his head

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 782 days ago

30 May 2006 (F)

- I have been casually seeing a freind of mine for a three months now. We had been freinds for a while and kissed one night when we were out drinking. We are both single and happy to be single. We kissed the following weekend have been kissing and having sex for the last 3 ... (606 words)

My friend went through the 'Mummy Test' and I might have overreacted

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

30 May 2006 (M)

- Fellow agony aunts, I have a friend who has been seeing a guy for about a month. Her guy wants a wife and kids - he is at the stage of life where these things should have happened by now. My friend is a few months away from starting her doctorate in a city thousands of miles ... (306 words)

I acted like a chicken...Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - I'm 24 yr old international graduate student and I like a hard working american undergraduate who works in the opposite lab. Of late, we were involved in eye-flirting episode which continued for a month (despite the fact that we'd never talked to each other before). One fine ... (177 words)

In love with my ex again but I also love my boyfriend, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 788 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Help me Please... My ex left me because one girl says he is pregnant with him, at that time my ex left me with out any explanation,leaving me nowhere to go, i knew it from our friend and iwas really hurt.... then after 6 months i got my new boyfriend and we stay for 4 years up ... (181 words)

He just left for the army and i miss him, how do i through the lonely nights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - i know this is gonna sound sad bt my bf went in the army 2day and i miss him so much already, ive been with him over 2years and normally i wouldnt b writing how much i miss him at 3 in the mornining but i cant get it out of my head that im not gonna see him for another 48days, ... (120 words)

How do i get him to come visit me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 788 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I am currently seeing a guy who is 13 years older than me. I met him because he's my dad's friends son. Everything is great between us except that he lives one state over from me and never wants to drive down and see me. I almost think it is because he is afraid of my dad ... (114 words)

Should I let my 17 year old daughter date a 31 year old man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - My daughter is a mature 17 with excellent grades and a good lifestyle. I've never had to deal with any problems with friends, drugs or school, and she is going to be an adult soon. She tells me all of her problems, but recently, she has told me that she has had feelings for a ... (322 words)

He has a problem with alcohol, should i try fix his problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I've been with the same guy for about a year now and it seems that we have overcome every obstacle that was in our way. We overcame the age difference of 14 years, we got our parents to accept the relationship, and we made peace with eachother's differences. The only thing ... (172 words)

I worry he enjoys the company of his female friends more then me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 788 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - My bf and i,are staying for 4 years.... When we was 2 years,i discovered some letters from his things founding out that he has a girl,a friend of his sister, and he keeps on denying it.. I love him that's why i am still here for him, now i don't know if he and the girl is still ... (137 words)

Im interested in my friend, how do i tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Finally going to tell the man of my dreams that I have feelings for him. I have known him for nearly five years and in that time we have been friends. Both of us are single and have been spending more and more time together and I have decided that I have to let him t... (237 words)

Im shy and need some advice on some good conversation starters!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I am COMPLETELY shy around guys. I never know what to say and the conversation always ends quite awkward... I also have a few self confidence issues but i don't want them to apply too much to this question. I've met this guy,... he's extremely good looking, i know his parents ... (194 words)

Is it wrong to hang out with my ex-husbands family when they come to town? My fiancee was furious! Please advice

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Is it wrong to hang out with my ex-husbands family when they come to town. I have 3 children by this man and i took them to stay at a hotel with their grandparents and aunts and cousins. I havent seen these people in 7 years. So i sat with them a couple of hours to catch up. ... (69 words)