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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Am I not pretty enough? I think I'm only with him as his last resort!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months so far, but we dated before and broke up. After his ex left him he came back to me and I accepted him back, but something inside me keeps telling me he doesn't like nor love me, and he is just dating me cuz I'm his last res... (221 words)

He wasn't ready for a gay relationship-so we ended it and I need advice on how to cope. Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - Hello everyone, this might be very long, please be patient, but I have finally gotten a SERIOUS WAKE UP CALL, and this is really hard to write but I know that what is happening is for the best-I'm shaking, and I'm completely scared and i need as much help as i can get. I've... (1092 words)

My ex got bitchy by text when I told her I still wanted to be with her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - Ok, I'll try to keep this short. My ex girlfriend is going to Hawaii for a week with her rebound guy (started dating him right after we broke up and then had a fight). We have been broken up for just over 3 months, and while it was tough for a while, we finally managed ... (483 words)

Why am I doing all the work in our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - Hey, My Boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and I feel I am putting in all the effort. Last semester I was always the one going up to see him, cos he didnt want to come home, and that was fine. However now I can't go up there this semester (working w... (149 words)

He's very busy so should I call him instead of waiting around for his calls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - to whom it may concern, i have been seeing a gentlemen for about 3 months now, he seem's to be sincere, he strongly believes in god and goes to church every day... when we get together we laugh alot and have fun being with each other... here's my question:: he is sin... (179 words)

Does my boyfriend like men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 599 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - How can u tell if your boyfriend is gay? Umm all my friends think he's gay, although i thought he was just camp but its making me wonder, so can anyone tell me? I know it's stupid and he's probably not but i have to know. I already asked him but he says he's not, i think i ... (75 words)

Text Rejection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I asked a boy out a few days ago and he said yes. He said he is going to be busy with work for a while so we decided not to go out until early june, he then asked for my number, i didnt have my phone with me at the time and so i got his number off him and he asked me to text ... (111 words)

Feeling the blues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I get so upset alot. I'm young and depressed! Is that normal? It doesn't feel like it, but, I do really well in school, have lots of friends, but get so depressed! When i am depressed i write in my book, or write songs, do art. None of them seem to help me though! Give me help! ... (63 words)

Is our love dead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - i've been with my fiance almost 5 years. No relationship is perfect but for 3 years we had as close to perfect as it can get. Yes we had our little arguments and issues over things, but nothing that we didnt come to a compromise on, and neither of us had cheated. A year and ... (226 words)

How can I make him dump her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I like a boy,but he already has a girlfriend.How do I get him to dump her and make me his girlfriend?... (21 words)

Strangers! How can I make it like it was?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't pay any attion to me at all since I moved in with him and since then things have become really awkward. What can I do to get the relationship back on a loving level where we do not feel like strangers anymore?... (45 words)

Is it too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - There's this guy who's my ex but we're good friends (maybe more?) and he keeps talking about coming to meet me afterschool. He texted me the other day saying that he was going to meet me but he'd be 10 minutes late. Unfortunately, i didn't get this message until i got home ... (309 words)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

This question has 51 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been having itchy feet. I know he loves me b... (236 words)

Forbidden Chemistry

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - i have developed feelings for this guy in work. I've always liked him and we hit it off straight away when i first started, but recently over the last month or so theres just been a spark between us, like the room is just electric whenever we're close, we get on so well,and we ... (215 words)

He is not my intellectual equal

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F)

- so im with this great guy...problem is just(this is going to sound harsh)that he is not very intelligent. He is nice, sweet, caring, affectionate, tolerant and not jealous at all of my male friends. I am also very attracted to him physically.....but the fact that he fails to... (198 words)

I fancy someone from work but does he fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - ok - this is daft, as I am a fully grown 32 year old woman but I have a major school girl crush on one of my colleagues - actually I'm kind of his boss. We get on really well and he was really kind to me when I split up with my husband last summer - inviting me out for drinks a ... (196 words)

My boyfriend told me he stopped using drugs, but he lied!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - hi i have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months now in the beginning i knew he smoked pot but after a couple weeks in to our relationship he told me he was quitting for good and i belived him. nine months went by and i asked him if he really quit and he said no he had ... (109 words)

Ex is ignoring me BUT I'm PREGNANT by him!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I was just wondering why ever since I told my ex I'm pregnant by him he has turned nasty, ended are friendship and completly ignores me whan I try to contact him. I dont know what to do.... (38 words)

I want out, but I am finding it impossible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 794 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - i want out of my relationship of 10 years i have 3 kids, i suffer with depression and my partner is very domineering he stopped me working checks the milage on my car basically have no life. he wont let us split up i have tried to run away before and he tracks me down each time ... (130 words)

Stay With The Bf I Don't Love Or Move On With The Guy I Do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I have been with my b/f for 5 years but I'm not in love with him anymore. I've falling in love with someone who makes me happy, what do i do? 1)Stay were i'm unhappy 2)Try again with someone else.... (40 words)

What's the difference between his flirting and teasing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - One of my colleague always teasing me but means no harm, I suppose. Anyway,I don't exactly know what's difference between tease and flirt sometimes from his behavior? Besides, we are very good company and have some the same interests. He looks charming when he is smiling.I coul... (103 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend, he wants to be friends but ignores me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I'm inlove with this guy he said he's inlove with me to!We dated for a month then broke up cos i cheated on him,but then we got back together for a couple of weeks but then before school started he told me he thinks it's better if we just stay good friends,so i agreed!But now ... (70 words)

Is my boyfriend cheating on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - Kind of freaking out here: My b/f is away and doesnt get cell phone reception in his room--he needs to walk about 5-10 minutes away from the hotel to get reception. At the bars where he is at--its a lot of open area so he always gets my text messages and calls. I spoke t... (176 words)

How do I get my girlfriend back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. she broke up with me because i can sometimes be a little jealous and paranoid. This sounds quite normal, but we live next door to each other in halls of residence at university. we have been together since starting university in ... (196 words)

My husband likes porn and I am in an abusive marriage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 762 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I have been with my husband for over 20 years and have experienced an abusive marriage with regards to his alcoholism, infedility, mental and physical abuse, masturbation, sexual demands as well as him being able to carry out conversations and communicate with total strangers ... (197 words)

Getting out of a bad marriage and having an affair with married man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 738 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I have just come through a dreadful breakdown in my marriage, he has left and I am battling with divorce. The thing is, I have met someone who has given me a shoulder and we have begun an affair. I know it won't help in the long run but for now he has become my sanity. He is as... (252 words)

Torn between my boyfriend and my ex, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - Im still having difficulty with the situation I wrote about a few days ago. I am still intouch with my ex discussing us getting back together as we are still intouch (6 days after seeing eachother). It seems to get harder everyday as we both realise that we are only in the ... (199 words)

Back with my ex but he still sees another girl, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - i was with my boyfriend for 2 years and 2months,we recently broke up for 2 months and hes with somebody else, were back in touch and its great were sleeping together again and he keeps telling me hes going to break up with his new girlfriend to be back with me, yet secretly hes ... (125 words)

My boyfriend never turns up, or turns up late always!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - ive been going out wit my current boyfriend for two months (yesterday) and i am completely in love with him and adore him. the problem is that im starting to wonder if he is still in love with me, even though he says he is, actions speak louder than words. everytime he says he ... (205 words)

I still love my ex and I dont know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - My ex and I have been seperated for about a year on and off. We have a child together and have shared custody of her.I try to go about by life and try to meet other girls but I am still in love with my ex and I am not sure if she feels the same every time we start getting ... (220 words)

He has been cheating and I am pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - at the moment im 17 weeks pregnant, i already have 2 boys to my ex who is still a massive part in there lives, my problem is ive had two miscarrages to the partner im with now but i found he was cheating as i was loosing my 2nd baby, we split for a while but we ended up getin ... (190 words)

How do I get better breasts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - My problem is i am a 20 year old virgin engaged, i love my fiancee very much but i have a very short breast tell me how to enhance my figures ...plz help meeeee... (34 words)

Mixed race relations are banned by his father

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I hope someone can give me some advice on this... Basically I've just split up with my boyfriend of two years (for the second time) the reasons for our split is that his dad will not meet me or allow me to go round his house as he doesn't believe in mixed relationships (I am ... (190 words)

Did my boyfriend cheat on holiday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - what are the signs a b/f or g/f cheated while away on vacation without you? My b/f has called me atleast 3 times a day and the times i did call him--most of the time he would pick up even if he was out at some loud bar with friends. He would go outside and speak with me at ... (236 words)

Id like to get out to socialize but he becomes jealous & flips out about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I married one of my ex-husbands friends, he lived with us as a roommate and then we began an affair after he moved out. I have a child with both husbands, aged 20 and 11. My husband/ex-hubby's friend/father of my child is extremely jealous and possessive, even though I have ... (166 words)

I married my exhusbands friend and he is a jealous man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

My partners ex is being awkward

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - i have lived with my partner for several years. I have had problems with an ex of my partner who wanted to be friends with him but not with me. this was sorted and my partner cut all ties with her which has resolved this. now she is moving nearer to us and still keeps contact ... (130 words)

His very special to me but he is so lazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - dear cupid,i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and we are the BEST of friends..BIG problem he,s LAZY!!!!He makes excuses to not work and everytime i say something about working he gets upset.people tell me to DUMP him,but he,s very special to me..wadda think??... (47 words)

She cheated on me with a tall,dark and handsome man, how can i rebuild my self esteem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - Hi, calling all girls out there. Please can you give me your honest opinions. The saying goes tall, dark and handsome is what girls are looking for. I'm 5 foot 6 and my girlfriend has been cheating on me with a guy thats 6 foot 2 and built like the side of a house. Please ... (88 words)

She cheated on me, i need advice on how to move on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 799 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - Hello, I seriously need advice. A quick fix if possible. My girlfriend asked me to marry her last year and I said that I was not ready but I loved her and would propose soon. She then moved out and in with a group of single girls. She limited contact with me to one phone cal... (465 words)