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writes: My girlfriend is accusing me of becoming too clingy.Things were fine up until a month or so ago. Now she pushes me away. We were very close and always inseperable, but now the rejection is getting worse.Is it my fault? Am I too clingy? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2007): IF she says you're needy, it's code for: she's boning some other dude...if not physically than mentally . If someone ever mentions the word "needy" in a relationship, it's over.... Sorry dude....you're f#@ked
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2006): More details would be useful, but don't be texting her and hanging around her every two minutes etc. People need their ow space too. Sometimes at the beginning of a relationship, less is more. I don't mean dont pay her an attention but just make sure its quality time and not quantity time. If you're never gone how can she miss you?
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reader, ill give you everything +, writes (21 May 2006):
 everyone needs a little space from time to time you know maybe just sit down talk to her about the situtation. go out and have some fun with the guys once in a while so she can have her space and maybe she will actually realize how much she does enjoy your company :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2006): First of all, you haven't expressed any details. [ponders] You see, Mr. Anon, I don't know if yo're a clingy person or not... More info would be nice........ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
However, if indeed you are 'accused' of being clingy/needy, then I suggest that you stop being clingy/needy. When you say "inseparable" for some reason, it gave me a shudder and suddenly I wanted to run away. [laughs]
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