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writes: I have been going out with this boy for a year and a half now and he breaks off with me for no good reason al of a sudden, and then he would be horrible to me sending me pics of him naked with other girls and saying he only wants me for sex then he will be all nice to me again and want to start again.whys he behaving like this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (22 May 2006):
 Consider yourself very lucky that you aren't with him. What a loser and a creep! He is really an idiot.
Tell him to leave you alone and then just ignore him, delete his phone number from your phone, block his email, put return to sender on his mail, etc whatever you have to do. Don't let him upset you!
Just don't let him get to you - he is very immature and insensitive. You deserve much much much better than him.
Leave him alone and consider yourself lucky that you got out early.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (21 May 2006):
 He sounds really juvenile, and frankly, not worth a second look.
Next time he sends you a photo of him with someone else, send it back with the comment "She's welcome to you, idiot!"
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reader, matron +, writes (21 May 2006):
 Hi,Only he can explain why he treats you the way he does, what you need to ask is why you keep letting him!
You have to stop going back for more, he's a control freak and enjoying every minute of it. No-one with an ounce of emotion would treat someone in that way once let alone repeatedly.
For the sake of your sanity and self esteem tell him you are never going back, have no contact with him and start enjoying your life with friends who respect you. You will look back and ask yourself why you put up with so much,think about the advice you would give to a close friend if they were going through the same thing. You know what you must do be strong it will be worth it i promise. Good luck LoLx
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reader, Ainley +, writes (21 May 2006):
 you want to start again? sorry but you may have feeling for him but it's time you woke up and smelt the crap he's doing to you! he knows exactly what he's doing! he knows that he can do that and you'll come running back for more because he's groomed you so to speak. you dont deserve an idiot like him, you deserve someone who'll treat you right like the lady you are, so go out there and find him and when you do send that plonker a picture or two, dont forget to delete his number and even buy a new phone afterwards! remember you deserve more! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2006): Get rid of him he's not a nice guy. It's as though he gets a strange kick out of making you feel like crap. Find someone to love who can give you the respect that you deserve. Dunp him now and move on !!!
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