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Archived questions from: 23 May, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He wants me on top, but it just doesn't work!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 772 days ago

23 May 2006 (F)

- My Boyfriend always likes me to be on top when we have sex, but I honestly can't do it! His penis keeps coming out and I can't keep control and rhythm at all. I've tried it a few times and I just can't do it. I hope this question gets posted on here, I have tried not to make ... (95 words)

I'm starting at the beginning. What does having a girlfriend mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

23 May 2006 (M) - Hey: I'm in grade eleven, 16 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I have been told that I'm attractive and have a good personality, and I am pretty popular. I don't exactly know why I haven't had a girlfriend before, but it's probably because I'm afraid of change. Whate... (183 words)

Can a condom cause pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 772 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Can using a condom make sex more painful? I'm planning sex and I'm on the pill. I'm aware of the STI risks of not using a condom but I don't want to use one if it is going to make anything less pleasurable. ... (43 words)

Bisexuality: common phase for other teens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Is it common for a teenager to go through a phase of being bisexual? I don't want to tell my parents I'm bi in case things change, as I don't know any adults who are bi, but I know lots of people my age. Is it just that it's becoming more common in my generation, or is it a ... (68 words)

Would nude photos of me, given to my boyfriend, be considered "child porn"?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 771 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I'm 15, my bf is 18. He wants naked photos of me, which I'm up for 100%, but would it be illegal, considered as child porn?... (26 words)

Family hates my BF, but he makes me happy. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I'm probably getting back with my ex. The thing that's holding me back is my family hate him. My mum hates him because I run up the phone bill and act differently when I have a bf, and she has heard bad things about him from my brother who has friends who went out with him... (148 words)

Should I give my ex another chance and hope we can move on together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I was very much in love with my bf but he dumped me and lied about his reasons and really hurt me. We're getting on really well at the moment and we may get back together, but I'm still damaged by the pain he caused even though he's apologized and I've forgiven him. I can't tr... (98 words)

Is it like Xmas? Better to give than receive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Is it normal to get more turned on pleasuring your partner than it is for them to pleasure you?... (19 words)

Tops or bottoms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - First time sex-I've been recommended being on top but having someone on top of me turns me on. My guy says he likes more dominant girls. suggestions?... (27 words)

I miss my abroad lover

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (M) - Hi, I am really stuck emotionally right now and need some of your advice please. I have been living with a girl for 5 months as a friend / flatmate, but i really fancied her but never made a move as i was too scared of blowing it. She moved back to her home country 2 months ago ... (274 words)

To shave or not to shave!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 772 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - My ex bf asked me to shave 'down there', which i did for a while but now i'm no longer with him i want to stop. I'm 15 and i'm kinda nervous as to how other guys would react, and whether the whole world would find out. Does it look normal when you stop or is it really thick and ... (77 words)

I'm great, So why cant i see it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I used to have really REALLY low confidence. More recently i've been trying to come across as more confident so that i feel more confident. It's really frustrating because i've realised that it's not a problem i can just solve because i don't know the source. Any ideas? I don't ... (107 words)

We're on a break but still together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 772 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - My ex and i were considering getting back together. After talking about it for a while we (mainly him)decided that we should wait about a month until my exams are over and he's sorted his life out, and if we both still feel the same then we'll restart our relationship. It's ... (107 words)

Contraceptive issue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 772 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Ive been going out with my partner for a year and half. I'm 16 and am wondering if there is another possible way of getting hold of contraceptive pills other than visiting the family Doctor? I was also wondering how long does it take before your first one becomes ... (58 words)

My wife has post-natal depression, help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (M) - my 23 year old wife gave birth 3 months ago to our second,she was diagnosed with pnd and now she has left me 5 weeks later saying she doesnt love me is pnd the cause if so what do i do... (41 words)

I dumped my ex but I cannot stop thinking about her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (M) - I mostly treated my girlfreind of 5 years badly but on christmas day i came home to find another man in our house we broke up. 2 days later i called her and said all was forgiven but she would not get back with me she said he treats her right i was gutted so i forgot about her. ... (215 words)

I am dating a homeless guy with anger problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I'm having real trouble with this guy with behavioural problems that i'm seeing. His parents kicked him out because he broke his stepdad's jaw in a fight. His mum won't let him come home unless he starts taking the drugs the doctor prescribed to calm him down, but he won't take ... (344 words)

I wish I was skinnier as I would be more attractive then

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 772 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Hi. I have a problem. I believe that if i become skinnier that people will become more attracted to me. I am 5 7" age:16 and i weigh 137 pounds. so i have started to become bulimic i dont do it everyday though just when i feel like i have eating too much. can someone honestly ... (77 words)

He likes me shaved, but it hurts....what can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 767 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - My bf has a shaved pussy fetish. I met his needs, but it bleeds a lot when i shave and it stings. I want to keep it up for him though. What do i do? ... (35 words)

How do I not get too involved too quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - How do I stop myself falling for someone too early - I am prone too being too eager but I do feel its best to keep a slight distance for a couple of months until you get to know someone and its also good to keep some mystery. But how to i stop myself getting too involved too ... (63 words)

I need advice on how to get over a broken heart...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 746 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - What is the best way to get over a broken heart and all the pain?... (15 words)

All my friends boyfriends seem to like me...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 770 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - heya i have a love problem, atm i like 5 guys which sounds bad but i would never dream of two timing so thats nnot the issue. The problem is that my friends think i am a boyfriend steeler!!??!! this hurts when people say that coz it aint my fault. Anyway moving on my fri... (112 words)

Do guys thing pregnant women are sexy??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 728 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Question for the guys. Do men find pregnant women sexy?? im heavily pregnant (8months) and feel like im letting my husband down because i dont feel sexy in myself. we have a great sex life but im worried he doesnt enjoy it as much any more. any tips or advise to make this last ... (64 words)

I need advice on how to dance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - this is a different question to relationships. how do u dance lol? i know its a strange question but i am a 15 year old gal and i dont know how to dance. i want to be able to dance so when i start going to night clubs i wont just be standing there. i mean i hardly know what ... (84 words)

He has a whole box of memorials of his ex....should I say anything?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 770 days ago

23 May 2006 (F)

- I had recently asked a question concerning my boyfriend bringing a box over to my house (he lives with me) from his parents. When I looked in it I found a whole photo album of him and his ex. I was a bit bothered by that because when I asked him what was in the box he just said ... (227 words)

My friend is with this guy that others would like and she likes someone else also, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F)

- Hiya I've really liked this guy for ages, and the other day my friend asked him to rate me. He gave me an alright mark, and all of my friends were saying that I should ask him out. But my friend then also told me that he said that he wouldn't go out with me at the minute b... (201 words)

He cheated on me in the past and I just don't trust him any more...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - hi my boyfriend cheated on me at the start of our relationship but we got over it and moved on he has lived with me for a year and 8 months but i have trouble trusting him when he makes friends with girls , i get really jealous and insecure even when he tells me nothing is ... (160 words)

Did he mean no when he said yes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I have really fallen for this guy that I met a few weeks ago, I dont know him very well but from what I do know he seems like a really lovely guy! I asked him out a few days ago and he said yes!! but now im thinking maybe he only said yes because it was too difficult to say no ... (73 words)

My boyfriend moved for a job and now he wants to finish our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - have been with my boyfriend for 6 mths . 2 of those mths he has moved away to a new job. literally half an hour away by plane. he has decided to end it cause the distance is to far and his feelings are not strong enough he won't talk how can I get him to talk to me and sort ... (65 words)

I want this boy but I hate the thought he has had previous girlfriends

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 769 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - i am 16 and this boy that i really like has been the only person i have fancied in my life. i will ask him out soon but the problem is i dont want him to have ever had a girlfriend before. i want to be the only girlfriend he has had. i want us to lose our virginity together. i ... (138 words)

I have a partner but I flirted with the girl from work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (M) - Hi there, Im 37 and live with my partner of 14 years and have two sons aged 6 and 11. Let me start by saying that I am a flirt, but with no intent on hurting anybody, just friendly. I wish I could say the relationship was flawless but as we all know that dosnt happen.There is a ... (302 words)

How do you flirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - simple question... how do u flirt? (i am a 16 year old girl)... (13 words)

My boyfriend has cheated but wants to make a go of our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - This is really complicated but I’ll just tell you what has most recently happened. Had a long distance relationship for 2 years with a guy who was at uni but it didn’t work cos he couldn’t stay faithful cos he was out with lads drinking etc – uni lifestyle and wanted to be ... (310 words)

What turns on teenage boys to girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - just wondering. can i have some boys opinions. what turns a 16 year old teenage boy on about a girl?... (20 words)

My boyfriend thinks I am stupid and it is not true

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend treats me like a child, the kind that should be seen and not heard. He likes to talk to me about his subject, science, which is great, but ignores me when I want to talk to him about something I know that he doesn't. When we're in a group of three he'll ... (165 words)

Am I still protected??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I missed one pill and had unprotected sex the next morning - I was virtually at the end of the pack (3 pills left) - would i still be protected?... (30 words)

I slept with my bfs best friend!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I slept with boyfriends best friend and my boyfriends other friend saw us and told him. I denied doing anything and then gave in a bit by bit I told him the truth. I never meant it to happen and I regret it, my boyfriend says I only regret getting caught. How do I explain ... (72 words)

Do boys want to have sex with someone they love??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - do teenage boys want to have sex wiv someone they love or dont they care? do they just want it wiv anyone on their first time?... (26 words)

Pregant with my exs child and now hes nasty!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 770 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I am pregnant by an ex.i told him and he has turned very nasty and doesnt want to be friends with me anymore,he already has a child of 9 by an ex and they dont get on but he puts up with her to see his child why is he dismissing his unborn child with me,i cant understand this, ... (68 words)

Is he crying and asking me to stay because he's in love or because he's upset?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend has been having a tough time lately. He moved out of his ex's home they shared with their kid. He says hes having trouble coping being away from his kid. He says he doesnt know what he want, he says he loves and cares for me but he doesnt want to hurt me. i asked ... (129 words)

How will the debt he ran up "being a batchelor" affect our shared finances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Can i take on his debt? My boyfriend and i have been through a troubled 5 months. Earlier in the year he decided he'd had enough of being a family and wanted to enjoy himself, and live the batchelor life for a while. Throughout this time he ran up £10,000 on his credit cards. ... (249 words)

Do guys wait to make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 771 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - hey i was just wondering if majority of guys will make a move as soon as they like a girl or do they tend to wait like us girls until they make a move first and after they make a move do you just go for it without thinking?... (50 words)

My bf is going away on holiday... is he going to cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 774 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - im not sure how to feel, my bf is going on hols with a group of guys in a few months, they are all 28-32 and he is the only one not single. i had no problem with it as i was chaging jobs an cant offer to go on a hol with him as i dont know what ill be doin/where ill be/or if... (352 words)

Is this meant to hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Is this meant to hurt? My boyfriend and I have just entered an intimate relationship, althought we are not having sex yet. I am getting quite worried though, because when he puts just one finger inside me, i am experienceing pain. I dont do it myself, because it hurts too much... (63 words)

Is sex all that boys want and care about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - i am 15 and my boyfriend is 16. me and my boyfriend had r first date a few days ago. we have been together for a week. on r date he asked me if i wanted to go somewhere to have sex wiv him. i didnt really answer and just sort of laughed it off. he didnt say anything more about ... (115 words)

Is my girlfriend of 5 years cheating or just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (M) - I am currently in a relationship with woman for last 5 years and don't know which way I am heading. In the past she use to go on online chatting and than she came off it. Recently she told me that she came across her college days friend who she use to fancy. She spoke very ... (147 words)

Engaged to someone, but still in love with my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I broke up with my ex 3 and a half years ago, and I'm now engaged to another man who I have been with for nearly 3 years, but I cant stop thinking about my ex. He broke it off with me and now he keeps telling me he misses me and still loves me, and wants me back. But he tells... (132 words)

He's lost his mojo... can anyone share their experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Okay, so I have been asking advice on this blog for a while now, so some of you may know me. My ex and I started talking and hanging out again, because the truth came out about what had been the major problem in our relationship. He told me yesterday that he is losing his... (509 words)

Now my guy is riding to work with the Other Woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 772 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I wrote before about the other woman moving her mother in next door. Well, her and mom moved in this weekend while I was at work. Since her and my guy work together, they're also riding together now to save gas. I'm trying hard to be understanding but I could use some advice h... (70 words)

she no longer trusts me,what can i do to regain her trust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, My girlfriend no longer trusts me because i kept deep personal secrets about my family from her and when i eventually told her she reacted in a way that she was mad, upset and dissappointed all in one. What should i do to get her to trust me again?... (51 words)

Just can't bring myself to go to the next level!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 772 days ago

23 May 2006 (F)

- Hello everyone, I'll be quick and tell my "problem"... I have been with my boyfriend for about four months now and everything is good but one thing. I can't bring myself to do anything sexual with him besides making out. I want to soo bad, and I think about it all the time, but ... (218 words)

internet guy still has a dating profile online,is this abnormal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I met a man on internet dating site, it has been about 4 months. I cancelled my profile after about 2 weeks and to my surprise he is still on there. I confronted him...and he says that we are compatible and the age difference is what he is concerned about, there is 10 years ... (197 words)

Worried about Sis and her boyfriend... He has a temper!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 774 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I'm not sure wht to think of my sister's relationship to her bf. They seem to love each other, yet there are a few flaws I worry about. My sister has been with her bf for 9 months and they are already talking about kids and marriage! She's only 16! But what really troubles me ... (138 words)

His mom is giving me pickup hints for her son! What does it all mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 769 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, What does it mean when a guy's mom starts dropping hints on how to get him to notice you and telling you what he likes and stuff like that? See, the woman who cuts my hair works with another woman, who is the mother of a sixteen-year-old boy that I find quit... (163 words)

Am I ugly or too fat? Is that why my friend isn't interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I am on my friend's computer, so I have to cut this kind of short... I just turned 15 this year, I am 5' 5" with mid back length curly hair, fairly clear skin... that all sounds good but I am 200lbs. My mom has a condition called PCOS which makes your hormones all wac... (122 words)

14 and never been kissed, how can i get the guys to notice me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - i'm 14, i've never had a boyfriend and in turn have never been kissed. I'm shy and I am a little over weight... is that such a turn off? are guys really that shallow? ...how can i get guys to notice me for me and not for what i look like?... (51 words)

He is smoking cannabis and its breaking us apart!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - my boy friend and i have been togther for over a year now and although when we met i knew he smoked cannabis that didn't matter because ive known him for many years and what kind of person he is, when we first got together he really cleaned up his act but after a few months the ... (199 words)