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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to know if he's in to me, but I don't know what signs to look for...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 97 days ago

8 May 2006 (M) - I'm a 22 year old gay college senior. I'm still in the closet and have never told anyone, but I've been really contemplating coming out lately. A good friend of mine since the beginning of college 4 years ago is openly gay. He is pretty much my best friend and we've never ... (384 words)

I'm not ready to come out of the closet yet, but I find myself attracted to others........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 882 days ago

8 May 2006 (M) - I am bi curious and 16. I find myself very attracted in many ways to some of the people i know, physically and mentally. I want to know how they feel but i dont want to ruin a friendship and im not really ready to come out. I really have no idea what to do!? Please help.... (57 words)

My guy has changed so much,....how do I get over him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 882 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - this boy ive liked for ages has now become a total prick he was really sweet before but now hes just a total prick. I wish i didnt like him so much how can i get over him?... (38 words)

Am i stalking this girl??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

8 May 2006 (M)

- Please help me! I like this girl and I asked her out but she said no (wanted to concentrate on exams) yet i can't stop thinking about her. I've even gone as far as knowin where she lives, her phone no. and i fond a picture of her on the internet. I'm worried that this looks li... (85 words)

My bf watching porn is starting to bother me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 864 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - Hi guys i know i'm hardly on here but i need some help/advice on this problem i have... Well i'm 12 and have a b/f who is also 12.Hes really nice and i love him to death he also loves me and we have also been going out for like 8 or 9 months.This has never bothered me before b... (156 words)

To her he was a rebound guy 15 years ago but now we are getting serious!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 882 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - Okay, here's the scoop..... Over 15 years ago, my best friend, now and then, was dating a guy. Nothing serious, no love, no sex (they were 14 at the time). Anyway, we met up with this guy 15 years later as adults. We all hung out as friends. The guy pursued me and I... (122 words)

He's sending very flirty emails and is good at lying!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 year has always had a lot of female friends and is very helpful if anyone (especially women) have any problems. I see this as flirting and get jealous which I can't help but now I have proof. He has been emailing/talking to a female colleague late at night an... (156 words)

Why does this boy keep looking at me but not talk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - Theres this boy in the class below me and he keeps lookig at me. its being going on since 7 months now, but he has not talked to me, plz help it is getting really annoying now. ... (37 words)

I want to call her house and talk to her...what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (M) - i want to phone my previous girlfriends' house. i have thought on no one but her for the last 2 years and dream of her a few times per week. both of us are shy and we don't talk to each other in school but when we went out a couple of years ago we never stopped talking. she ... (174 words)

My fiance says lesbians turn him on and I can see that it does...I get hurt over this....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - i need advice im so confused hurt and do feel cheated on in a sense. me and my fiance were cuddled in bed when hes stupid fantasy comes up lesbians. i feel really uncomfortable when he always go on and it puts me off him otha than that hes the best man in everyway. but anyway i ... (178 words)

I like my ex wifes half sister...can I do anything about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (M) - Im feeling confused,i have a female friend who i spend alot of time with as we both have a lot in common,the problem is ,1- she is 23 and im 36,2-she is my exwifes half sister.How do i find out if she wants to be more than mates with out upsetting my exinlaws(who like me more ... (61 words)

He likes me, I like him, but he's got someone else...what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - the person ive liked for ages has just got a girlfriend, i know he likes me too but what can i do?... (22 words)

I think he's cheating, I can't prove it, he says he wants to be with just me...what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 877 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - I am in desperate need of help. I have dealing with this guy for a year now. It has been straight sex between us two. He is known to a lot of being a gigolo, hoe, whatever you can think of. Just recently, he told me that I was his girl, but for some reason I don't believe ... (223 words)

He's always too busy for me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - hi i am 13 and i dont know where i stand wiv my boyfriend. he doesnt go to the same school, i met him at the park and we both go there every week. recently i keep phoning him and he always says he is busy, then i say what about sunday? monday, tuesday? and he says he's too busy ... (146 words)

I have no sex life because of my wife, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

8 May 2006 (M) - I am 39 and been married since 1990. I have two beautiful children whom i adore, and a lifestyle which surpasses my expectations.My problem is that my relationship with my wife is totally unfulfilling for me physically. We have sex approx once a month, her on top, me pinned ... (176 words)

My friend keeps copying everything I do!! HELP ME!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - Hiya. I've got this mate who is a really great mate to me, helped me through tough times and always made me laugh. We have always been really special freinds and I wouldn't ever want to lose her. The only problem is that I feel she is copying me with everything. I told her the... (258 words)

I set up my friend with the guy I like....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - i have just set my mate up with the one i fancy i had to becuz the lad n me were good friends i didnt mean to i'm just that sorta person n now i feel realy sad what should i do? ... (42 words)

We broke up, he wooed me back, it seemed like he had changed and we got back together - but now he's back to his old ways!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 864 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - I need some advice please. My boyfriend and I got back together in Jan after a break of about 3 mths. We both cheated (only kissed) other people, so decided it would be best to go our separate ways and see how we feel. After a while when he found I was seeing someo... (277 words)

I don't know if he's serious about me or not, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - me and this lad have been flirting i want things to move forward but nothing seems to be happening he flirts with other girls i am told but i don't no what to believe he says he loves me n i tell him i love him to but i dont whether he's serious or not he's kind and nice n i ... (81 words)

Please reply here if you're on MySpace!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 880 days ago

8 May 2006 (M)

- Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here. If you have a MySpace account post a "yes" and let me know your profile name, either reply to this post or do send me a private mail (click my username, then send private mail from there). I'm doing a survey on how many people here are... (88 words)

I've been with him for awhile, I KNOW he won't cheat, but I have a feeling he will???...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - hi. basically ive been with my boyfriend 2 years now, he has never cheated and neither have i but for some stupid reason i have become very insecure that he will. also i just cant seem to stop nagging him! I love him so much, and just want some advice really on how to keep ... (63 words)

My son likes to have food fights and no punishment makes him stop!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (M) - I am a father-of-three from Birmingham, who's been married for 20 years. My 16-year-old son has recently been in trouble at school over allegations of having 'food fights'; he's just been suspended for a week for having one in the canteen. He even got his school banned fr... (119 words)

My mother said she heard people in our bedroom when she came home. Should I believe her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - My name is "Sue". i have been dating an older man, "Bob" for a year and a half. My mother recently moved in with us because of some money issues. She hates us dating, because he is older than i am. I love him more than anything and would trust him with my life. I was away on ... (112 words)

He's told me to have sex with other men, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 880 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - I am 24 and my husband is 27. Recently he has been telling me if I want sex, I should sleep with other men. I told him I don't want to cheat on him, and that he's suggesting cheating. However, he insists he has no sex drive at all, and says he never wants it anyway. Our ... (118 words)

I'm struggling with who I am or how I should dress since I enjoy the thigh-high boots my g/f bought me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (M) - im a 26yr old guy who is straight and has a lovely girlfriend of 6 yrs. Sounds good so far yeah. Well I am struggling to come to terms with who I am or what I am how I look. Me and my girlfriend have often played in the bedroom dressing up etc inc make up she has even bought u... (157 words)

I'm not sure if he'll cheat on me while he's away, but I keep worrying about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - im worried that when, next month, my boyfriend goes on holiday to spain, he will cheat on me, just because he will be far away and probaby thinks that i will never find out and that its fine. He doesnt come across that way but i have found that he has talked to some girls se... (135 words)

I don't think I'll beable to deal with it when we break up, I love him sooo much...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - hi, i have a boyfriend who i have fallen in love with, the problem is, all i can think about is when we actually do break up, we have been close to breaking up quite a few times and just carried on when the arguements sorted them selves out. But i keep putting my self down, an... (127 words)

He's given me two STD's and narrowly missed prison for beating me... not sure what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - im 19 and have been with my partner for almost 4 years we have a 2 year old daughter but since being with him he has givin me 2 stds in a result of cheating on me he has just narrowly missed a prison sentence for beating me badly its not the first time he did it but its the ... (136 words)

I'm in my first relationship and not sure how to handle his ex... Am I spoiling things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 97 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - I started a relationship with a colleague 8 years my senior. Before we got together, we were merely on a working relationship and teased each other occasionally. During that period, I got to know of his past relationship. His ex (who also worked in our company, but she... (791 words)

Any tips of how to start a conversation with the flirty guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - theres this guy who lives across the road from me and ive never spoken to him but we flirt a bit as i am going to school and he is waiting for the bus. i really want to ask him out or something, but im just not sure how to start off. i want to get to know him first, but i dont ... (71 words)

My husband lost my trust and I've been talking to a male friend...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - Hi guys I need some help here. I know most of you are going to judge me or call me names but this is my situation. I'm 23 years old and been married for 2 1/2 years and have no children. After one year of marriage we moved to another country from my country. I had no friends ... (442 words)

My married lover wanted to be with his wife again, how can I deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - Hi. married for 19 years..un happy no sex no relation with my husban met this married man and he is the love of my life my first , last and only love ever liked and loved everything about. had four year relation full of happiness and love shared everything we were soulmates ... (163 words)

Loving someone and being IN love, advice please...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 882 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - what's the difference between loving someone and being inlove with someone?... (11 words)

I love my husband of 11 years but I'm in love with my lover of 7 years.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - My problem is deep. I love my husband of fifteen years, who, unfortunately I have outgrown because he lacks vision, ambition and the ability to plan for our future, which includes our eleven year old daughter. I'm in love with my lover of seven years who happens to be my ... (259 words)

I love him, but he seems too troubled and may think he's not good enough.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 884 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - I started seeing a family friend, the one who I never even thought I had a chance with. So when we ran into eachother, he told me he wanted more. So things were great we had no issues. He asked me about living together and I said give me a year. Then he was talking about ... (447 words)

I like this guy, but I promised a friend to not see him again, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 884 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - Recently I just made out with a friend. A lot of mutual friends call him up to party, but they don't really talk to him that much. I was the first one out of all my friends to get to know him and he turned out to be a really really great guy. We have so much in common and I ... (177 words)

I still love my ex-husband and is now getting a divorce from his new wife.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - After our 21 year marriage ended in divorce approximately 2.5 yrs ago, I still love him and want him back in my life. We've both hurt each other deeply, he re-married quickly and has now filed for divorce, he knew he made a mistake and jumped to soon. I've had 3 relationships ... (215 words)

He don't know if he wants me, his wife, or his freedom... anything I can do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 883 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - i'm seeing a married man who has only been with 1 woman for 18 years. he wants to leave her but is scared of the unknown. now he's walked out he doesn't know if he wants her, me or freedom. i love him to bits, what can i do... (50 words)

I'm 17, he's 40 and we met online, I want to tell my parents about it. How will they react?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 879 days ago

8 May 2006 (F)

- This might be a bit long but i hope u can bear with me! Basically i'm 17 (18 in about three weeks) and female and with a 40 year old guy and we've been properly seeing each other since march. We met online (not on a dating site or anything - it was actually on a football... (728 words)

Why did he leave??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 631 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been in along distance relationship for about 6 years. I love him very much but i dont feel the same from him. So in a way we have broken up. We shared a beautiful realtionship and some good memories are there. I have come to realise that som... (131 words)

Is our relationship coming to an end??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 882 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and although I love him very much I feel a bit trapped in the relationship. He is 10 years older than me and I feel as though I am living the life of a much older woman and missing out. But i do love him and he would change if I told h... (112 words)

Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom but he pulled out, Is it still possible to get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - recently me and my boyfriend were drunk and we startin kissin and it lead on further we have never had sex and i let him put it into me but he pulled away before he came to make sure there was no chance of me gettin pregnant as we had no condoms! i told my friend and now she ... (78 words)