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writes: ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend since last summer,although i met him and dated him three years ago for a while. i recently found out that when i met him he had a girlfriend that he never told me about, i can't understand why he chased me for so long to go out with him when he was already with someone. He also cheated on me last year with a few other girls, he tells me its because i never showed him any love and that he needed an ego boost from these other girls. i really love this guy and yearn for him every second of the day but is our relationship going to work because after what i have found out i'm very jealous and don't trust him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2006): I was in a relationship with a guy like this for 3yrs. I always kept giving him the benefit of the doubt, especially when he promised that he wouldn't do it again. Eventually I caught him out again, not only was he seeing me but another two girls also. He seemed to enjoy the chase, but as soon as we became close, he was off chasing another,even the following day after we had made love when it was so intimate! I think as he said he does it to boost his ego, but also I think he has serious relationship issues and is definately not wanting to give you any commitment. Although it hurts right now, you must be strong and leave him. Find a guy who will treat you with respect,because if you carry on this way you will only end up hurting even more.
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