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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We broke up, and he refuses to take me back, did i scare him off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - If you love, deeply care for and are physically attracted to someone still shouldn't you be together? My live in boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me 2 months ago and now when we communicate he refuses to talk about it all anymore or even entertain the idea of giving it ... (174 words)

Best friend blues, please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - I am in love with my best friend but he is in love with someone else. They are making me as their bridge. It hurts me too much. Should I avoid them?... (32 words)

Will he cramp my style when I go to college?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - should i break up with him when i go away to college? my boyfriend and i have been going out together for 8months now but i wil be going away to college in september. im afraid il miss out on the real college experience if im still attached. i dont want to sleep around or a... (76 words)

What can I say in a horny text without sounding *stoopid*?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i are apart alot and he has kinda compained that i dont send him horny texts! i like recieving them from him and would love to be able please him with some but i am worried i wil sound stupid or wont know what to say after the first few. what should i do? ... (60 words)

Flirtation makes me feel sexy and wanted, now I have cold feet about my approaching wedding, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - i am getting married this year to the father of my child plus i have been with him nearly 9 years but i keep thinking about this other guy i dont really fancy him but i seem to be thinking of him.i seem to go out in the evening just to see if i can see him.he is really sweet he ... (171 words)

Talking dirty, tell me how!! I go shy round my fella!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6545 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - when me(18) any my boyfriend(19) are making out, usually in a car or something he often asks me to tell him what i would like to do to him - in other words talk dirty. we havnt slept together yet and so usually when we are 2gether either one of us might voice our wish of ... (173 words)

I'm miserable, lonely and feeling isoloated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - I feel very miserable, I can't seem to make any friends at college. I am always ignored, nobody asks me to go out to luch with them, I feel very lonley at college. Sometimes I have to do the asking, if I want to go out with them its very rarely they acknowledge me also i'm ... (98 words)

How do I get a guy to ask me out? Advice please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - what is girlfriend material? i am 15 and i want to know how i can become girlfriend material. at school i act quite young and mess around a lot and i know boys would think, "noone would go out wiv her" but boys think i am 'fit' cos i over heard someone say it to someone else. ... (130 words)

Do I just stay friends or make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

16 May 2006 (F)

- There's this boy and I known him for 4 years and I consider him my bestfriend. Well I like him more than a friend. He found out I do and I was told that he liked me more than a friend too. I kind of love this kid but how do I know if he really likes me more than the friends ... (113 words)

Miserable for no reason-but not depressed, can anybody help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F)

- I am disatisfied with my life all the time and I don't know how to stop it. I simply cannot seem to count my blessings and am always miserable because of some imagined slight against me. I know this is no way to live, I am not depressed just fed-up and never happy with what I ... (77 words)

Terrified of pregnancy and birth but want another child, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F)

- I am in my 30's and married with one child. I am desperate for another but frightened to death of going thru pregnancy again. I hated every last minute of it last time, although my son is worth it. I even had an elective c/section as I am phobic about giving birth. I would ... (133 words)

I want to be there for my brother's but need advice on how to handle mum and step-dad to be, please help. (long but worth it)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (M) - Sorry that this is long. please read Hi, my names Tim, Im 25. My situation is very very complicated but I will try and explain it the best way I can.Im not sure if Its a relationship problem or what but I need help,Hope someone can understand my situation. ... (1249 words)

Text from an ex! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F)

- hiya im 18 and seeing a man of 32 and we both like each other.its been about a month now and i think im falling for him..i love his company and i get excited when he txts me or rings me and when i think of him.but today i was lookin over his shoulder at the tv but happened to ... (108 words)

My sister's boyfriend as taken over her life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - Possessive or Insecure?? Dear Cupid, My sister has been currently dating a Libian young guy for around four months now. She use to have such a gorgeous look to her when she first started dating him but now she wears no make up and baggy shirts and pants. She told me that ... (147 words)

Short and sweet! does what you eat cause premature ejaculation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

16 May 2006 (M) - Can what u eat cause premature ejaculation? ... (7 words)

Rumours I've been cheating while my boyfriend is in prison

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and he has been in prison for the last 6 months. I have always been faithful. However, people have recently been telling him that they've heard that I have slept with someone else. This is totally untrue, and it seems no-one is willing ... (79 words)

I'm a virgin should I use the pill and a condom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - I am a virgin and am planning sex for the first time is it reccommended that i use both a condom and the pill ?... (25 words)

I'd have bet my life my wife would never, ever cheat on me. But she has...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

16 May 2006 (M) - I met my Wife when I was 21 and she was 17, we were both virgins and this was our first serious relationship for both of us. We have now been together for 17 years and happily married for the last 11 years, we also have an 8 year old boy and a 3 year old boy. My wife is a v... (745 words)

Torn between two men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - 10 wks ago during a drunken arguement i told my fella to go and he did, he wouldn,t answer my phone calls or reply to my texts for weeks it broke my heart. 3 wks later we began to talk as we had a holiday booked for a wk after. I secretly hoped we would get back together but it ... (409 words)

Is it wrong to break up with my girl because her hair is falling out!?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6548 days ago

16 May 2006 (M) - Hi, I'm Tom. I've been going out with my girlfriend Anna for almost two months now. Everything was great until a few weeks ago when Anna decided to dye her hair red. Because she has very dark hair, she needed to bleach it first. She's always had really sensitive skin and has to ... (143 words)

A rollercoaster ride in my relationship... he is great but there seem to be so many problems...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - Hi, I have been with my b-friend for almost 4.5 years now. It's certainly been a rollercoaster ride. I really don't know where to start without sounding as though I'm trying to blame my b-friend over I. He's very strong-willed, competitive, bright, focussed, diligent, tidy a... (775 words)

Wife likes to receive but doesn't like to give any more!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

16 May 2006 (M) - Oral one way only. When i met my wife we both gave and recieved lots of oral sex. Its something that ive always loved. Since marriage a few months ago its become one way traffic, i still go down but never get a BJ anymore. Ive tried talking to her about it and been told s... (173 words)

Why do men run away and avoid responsbility when they got someone pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - Male point of view why do men suddenly change and run away and wont take responsibility when they have got someone pregnant.its 50/50... (23 words)

He broke up with me and now I don't want to do anything but have him!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - my boyfriend has just finished with me and i dont know why, He said he was losing his love for me. what can i do?? i dont wanna eat sleep or do anything else except for being with him help!!!!... (40 words)

Told my fiaance's sister about her abortion, she's depressed and i'm not sure what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (M) - I am in the Royal Navy and serving in Scotland. My Scottish fiance of 4yrs has helped me through a patch of depression brought on by my exwifes reluctance to let me have access to my children. I am now recovering with professional help but recently my fiance discovered that i ... (230 words)

Boyfriend is being horrible since i told him I was pregnant. Why is he being like this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - me and my ex split few months ago but remained mates til i told him i was pregnant, then he turned horrible.i excepted he was not gona be in mine or the babys life so i returned all his possesions i stil had.ready to move on.but when i asked him to return mine he wont, why is ... (61 words)

Not pregnant but should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - need advice,i had a pregnancy scare last week, im not!! but do i need to tell my bf or is there any point in worryin him since theres really nothin to worry about? also the reason i was worried is because we had stopped using condoms (im on the pill and take it responsi... (149 words)

My perfect boy has a girlfriend, he said he will leave her... but what kind of a person is he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - I have a big problem, a few weeks ago I noticed a very cute boy at the library-looks wise he seems completely perfect for me. I soon realised he was attracted to me because he would always give me a smile when I would walk pass-due to the fact that it is the exam period I have ... (203 words)

ex-boyfriend is being really nasty since i told him i was pregnant.. need advice on what to do next!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - im pregnant by an ex and although we were friends before i told him he has turned nasty ever since.i told him i excepted him wanting nothing to do with it but when i tried to ask him about a serious matter concerning the unborn babys life he ignored me.all i wanted to know was ... (112 words)

I dont want him to go!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - I have posted a few times already about this, but would just appreciate some more advice, because I really don't know how to deal with it. My boyfriend of 18 months is going overseas on his OE in only 2 weeks time. He's had this plan for years (he's 24), and to him, its all ... (193 words)

Are school nurses correct when they say it's IMPOSSIBLE to get pregnant on your period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - I had unprotected sex with my bf on the first day of my period, a few hours after taking the Pill for the very first time. I took the ECP "Plan B" almost 48 hours later, and have continued to take my Pill at the right times (my gyno said that if I do that, there wouldn't be a ... (227 words)

Pill Protection

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - Hi, I need some advice.I have just started taking the Pill Cerazette and my doctor advised me to take it the day it was given to me which was the 2nd day of my period. I had sex last night which was 2hours after taking my 7th pill and im worried that I should've waited for the ... (84 words)

Should i trust his cheating friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year, but have known each other for some time now. Our relationship is great except for one problem, he is still cool with this girl who he helped cheat on her boyfriend. I am usually an understanding person and tried to accept ... (153 words)

Am I a dreamer... Or is she attracted?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

16 May 2006 (M)

- PRELUDE It appears I was born blind, or so it seems to me. My brain gets a little selective when it comes to picking up signals from the women I'm attracted to. It's a horrible handicap to have, and all the more frustrating when your friends give you that look of absolute... (378 words)

Am I over-reacting about this woman moving her mom in next-door?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - the woman i have become crazy jealous of from my mans work has become interested in the place next door to us for her mother,but if mom moves in she will naturally be there often.this is just too close to home for me but what can i do w/out causing stress between me and my ... (71 words)

We are dating and he is so caring, but does he still has the hotts for his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - okay i have been dating my boyfriend for a very long time and i lost my virginty too him recently he broke up with me and he was going to go with his ex gf well he didnt and later he asked me out again and of course me i say yes and he has told me he cant leave me cause wat he ... (150 words)

I used to cheat but now I know I won't... So how can I get him to trust and marry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - My problem is BIG!!! I have been with the father of my two daughters for almost 6 years now. In the beginning, i admit to cheating, but not nearly as much as he did. I know I've been faithful to him since before I was pregnant with our second daughter, and I know she is his, ... (242 words)

Chatting online to other women, is this cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 May 2006 (M) - Im a married man. I was just wondering if its considered cheating on my wife when I chat online to women? I dont carry on a relationship with these women, or have made an attempt to meet them. I DONT think im interested in that. I do chat about sex and all when I talk to thes... (117 words)

How long will it take to mend a broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - I need to ask all the people out there who ever been dumped by the person they thought they were going to spend the rest of their life with does it really, truely get easier? I thought my partner of 6 years was considering proposing to me but instead he turned around and dumped ... (233 words)

How do I not crowd him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - Hey guys this is sweetie pie here who needs your help/advice... I am 12 and in the 6th grade i also have a b/f who is 12 and is also in 6th grade... My problem is that i dont want to crowd him because last time i thought i was crowding him he dumped me because i wasnt cro... (137 words)

Should I have said "no"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6556 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - i am 15 years old and i dont know what to do!!! i hang around with boys mostly at school and my boyfriend is fine with that. one of my mates are in year 11 and asked me to go to the school prom with him. i want to go i asked my boyfriend about it he said i dont care but if it ... (104 words)