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writes: hi. i have been seeing my fiance i love for two years almost three. i want to know if he's cheating on me? the one night my freind went out with him and went to a freinds house. they were outside and my freind went to go to the toilet leaving my fiance and this girl behind and when he came back to where they were it looked like my boyfreind pulled away from her. this is what my freind told me and i confronted my fiance. he completely denied this and got upset. also last night he went out with his freinds and i went to my freinds house. i phoned him to take me to the shop and he did so. when i asked if i could go with him he immeadiatly said no and got angry and when i asked why, he said that there were to many people in the car. i said to him they aren't more important than me and he said that he already arranged it. the next day i looked on his phone and all of his messages were wiped clean as well as his call register.i don't know what to do our relationship is not up to scratch too. because he never talks to me never pay's me attention and we barely have sex. please tell me as i am very confused and need closure if he is cheating. we also have a child.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2007): Well, I found out my partner was not only cheating on me, but was a serial cheater. Plus putting me at risk by having unprotected sex. The way I found out was painful, but at least once I found out, I could deal with it, and I was in control because I had it all written down. I'm not saying its the easiest way, but sometimes better the devil you know. It worked for me and it wasn't expensive: http://www.wouldmypartnercheat.com/
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reader, matron +, writes (21 May 2006):
 Hi,I'm so sorry you are going through all this. Your friend told you what he thought he saw, is he a friend of your partners? to jump to conclusions like that i would have thought he would have spoken to him first being on the scene and all that. You asked your partner what happened that night and he denied everything, you then started to get a little paranoid and your imagination ran away with you,perhaps he always clears his phone, have you ever checked his phone before?
You both need to sit down and talk about what you both need from this relationship.
As he spends time with his friends why dont you spend time with yours, if you are stuck for babysitters have a girlie night in. What ever happens a relationship always works better when you both have interests and friends seperate from each other, it is all based on trust.
Have that talk sooner rather than later, be open and honest with each other and soon you will know where you stand. Good luck LoLx
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reader, Ainley +, writes (21 May 2006):
 you poor thing! its hard really is especially since you've got a child together. i think the best thing is to sit down and talk things through, tell him your fears and worrys, dont just accuse him of having it off because that'll get you no where but more pain, it sounds like you both are suffering from wedding jitters/end of new found luv syndrome. theres not much else i can give you at this point but hope you'll come back and let me know if its helped so i can give bit more help for you. xx
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