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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Will my ex want to hear from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 815 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - i don't know what to do, i broke up with my ex nearly 9 months ago and since him i've come across some really nice guys but i just don't fancy them. i'm still totally hung over my ex. my ex was my best friend aswel, but my friends have told me to get in contact with him just as ... (96 words)

Where do I stand with this guy??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 809 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - I have been very close friends with this guy for 4 months, although I have known him forever. (he is younger than me). I am not sure how I stand with him. We definitely both fancy each other like crazy, but there has been nothing physical yet. When we returned home from an ... (314 words)

His friend is moving close by and I dont want them to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 812 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - My bf and i had issues this school year. Major events took place. Now one of his friends who helped with the issues is moving here. He kept this info from me until recently when it was final. To make things worse the only reason he is moving here is because of my bf and his ... (207 words)

He says it is like he asked God for the perfect woman, and I was delivered to him... But he broke up with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - I am suffering hard core from a break up. I got some closure from my boyfriend (now ex) last night. He says the past two weeks have been hell for him too, as we broke up two weeks ago. He says it is like he asked God for the perfect woman, and I was delivered to him. He ... (507 words)

What do you do if you have a friend who's very depressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (?)

- My friend has suffered with depression for years, and he tends to lean on me a lot because I have been through a similar experience. Sometimes he talks about not wanting to go on anymore. He's on the waiting list for counselling, and medication is tricky because of the work ... (91 words)

Boyfriends friend is proving to be a dropout, What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - Urgent, HELP ! My bf and i have dealt with many issues this school year. Some that really could have broke us up and it almost happened. One being my bf smoking with a friend ocassionaly to be social with him and he kept it from me entirely. I was crushed from this. I felt like ... (440 words)

Boyfriend wont leave porn alone, Whats the best action to take??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend lies to me all the time about his internet porn and chats. We've been together off and on for about 4 years and we have a son together. What can I do to make him realize this is a NO NO for this relationship to work? Both the lying and the internet porn?... (55 words)

Perfect relationship has went sour, What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 815 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - I have been dating this man for a year now. we used to get along perfectly but he cheated and i triped we went through some rough times because he would leave alone the other wemon and it was driving me to act crazy. athough all this has happened he is still a wonderfull man ... (92 words)

Im so depressed and stressed in this life, How can I lift my spirits??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - i don't know what to do. i am 22 years old and living with my boyfriend who is 29. i live at his house but his mother lives here also who is older and is a very negative person. we have been together for two years. when i first started talking to him he had a decent job and a ... (546 words)

I think I'm falling in love with my hot lady-boss... Could she ditch her hubby and go gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 815 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - Ok, I'm in a tricky situation. There is this woman at work and basically she is gorgeous. Trouble is she is married and she is my boss. Well she is the assistant manager, but that don't make much difference! I'm a female too and I am a lesbian, trouble is how do I know if she ... (120 words)

We're meeting this Saturday but I don't know what to say, to make him like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 815 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - hi, i recently wrote about this boy at army cadets and i liked him and you guys gave me some advice into phoning him, i dint phone him but i txted him and i found out that he liked me, and we are meeting this saturday (may 6th) and i don know what to say cause im usally ... (96 words)

How do I improve my fella's lovemaking technique? He goes by the "quick in and out and no-one gets hurt" method...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F)

- So, I'm with a great guy!Love him to bits, he's lovely and perfect...almost. Thing is, he doesn't have a clue in bed. Always in a complete rus and heads straight to the sex spots if you get my drift...I'm more used to adventurous lovemaking with lots of foreplay and ... (73 words)

How do I get this sweet guy to notice me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - Ok, i don't know what to do! I'm 15, and never really had a boyfriend, but there's this guy that i really like! He's not very popular or good looking but i'm falling in love with the way he's so sweet and funny. A couple of my friends know about it, and they don't see why he ... (108 words)

Worried about working life, How will I cope??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (M) - Hello there, Im nearing 16 and finishing school this month. However, Im am very much still undecided as what I wish to do with my life, yet we have had to choose A-Levels and talk of University is already arising and all my friends know what they want to do and where they want ... (113 words)

Ex wont let me have fun, What should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - Ok this new guy asked me to the prom and i said yes so prom is in 4 days and my ex found out and now he is being all flirty and he kissed me... i still have really strong feelings for him and he said that if i touch this new guy at prom then it is totally over i dont want that! ... (79 words)

My son strips to his underwear during school and activities, what's his problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - My son is 15 years old and has a problem. I found out about it at school just last week when I received a phone call off the principal saying that my son keeps stripping to his briefs all the time in school no matter where he is. He did it in PE and the lesson had to be... (281 words)

I'm not sure what to do about him, can anyone help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - Hi I've known by boyfriend since July 2005 but have only been dating seriously since December 2005. We have been getting on great and he wants us to go on holiday together soon and has already bought my birthday present even though it's not until July. I've noticed he's been ... (151 words)

He has lied to me many times, what do I do about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 813 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - Ok, so, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months. We knew each other in school (about 3 years ago), and when we were at school, he kept bragging to only me, about this girl who he was having cyber-sex with on msn. When we got together, I thought I could just ... (540 words)

She's gonna be leaving and I haven't asked for her new phone number yet...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (M) - 2 years ago a girl and i used to text each other everyday and we both liked each other but never used to speak in school. we are both kind of shy and at the end of the year she got a new phone number. i never bothered to ask for it but ever since the day i saw her i think about ... (113 words)

My boyfriend started lying to me and now we argue alot...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been arguing alot lately, and he has started to lie to me about things. I love him loads but I don't know what to do anymore, I want to scared him by finishing it - thinking that he will come back to me, but I don't think it will? What should I do???... (58 words)

How can I possibly get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 811 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - Hi all, Basically I broke up with my ex about 4months ago. I lived with him and I have to say it was one of the hardest things I have ever had to get over. We broke up on bad terms, basically didn't trust him and the relationship broke down,. After we broke up he star... (310 words)

How does she deal with this guy who has dumped her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 24 days ago

2 May 2006 (M) - i have a friend who is in love extremely and she thinks that this person really loves her and that thing which i doubt any way last week she had discover that this person had betrayed her and when she tried face him by what he had done he quarrel with her and insult her and ... (107 words)

I moved and he said he can't do long distance....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - i have boyfiend of 3 years. i moved to the capital some 800 km from him. he told me that his not ready for distance relationship and that his afraid of losing me. i know he does loves me and i do. he doesnt call me i try to call him he did here and then called but i do belive ... (67 words)

I want to be with just him, but he likes having many partners...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - I really really like this guy. I've never really like anyone as a partner so much. The thing is, I've seen him through webcam. We've talked for over a year. But we know each other through the internet! And live in opposite parts of the world. Recently he hasn't came on and I've ... (92 words)

My ex kissed me and I know hes the one for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (M) - Hi. Just need a little advice. I split up with my gay boyfriend (21) a few months back after he left me as he said he was having feelings for his friend who is 33 and has just had a marriage break-up and he has two kids. Anyway, contact between us since has been good and we m... (235 words)

Hes emailing female escorts, what do I do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 555 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out nearly 4 years last christmas he cheated on me. Since then we have got back together but he says he wants to be with me and other times hes not sure. I have checked his phone bill and found nothing but hes been emailing female escorts as i ... (78 words)

Depressed over losing my guy again!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - I am 13. I had a guy who is 16 in my life until 4 months ago. People at school harrassed him for seeing me because of the age difference so he asked me for a break. Last week he came back into my life only to walk away again. He told me he regretted losing me. I was just ... (140 words)

He says he loves me and wants us to be a family but hes lied and cheated so much!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - I recently had a little girl. Her father broke up with me when i was 7 months pregnant. He said he had another girlfriend and that he wanted to be with her. He has since come back on several different occasions and said he wanted to get back together. He would lie and say he a... (169 words)

Would like a separate life from boyfriend, What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - I lived with my boyfriend and he threw me out of his house, entirely devastating me. He said he couldn't handle being with me. I can never forgive him for what he did but we do still see each other. I have ended up living some where I don't want to be and because I have alw... (166 words)

Feel guilty about my collegues crush, Whats the best option??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (M) - OK, so i am a married man, and work in a small shop with four other employees. Recently everyones has been meeting up outside work, and although we are good friends, i feel that i am missing out. One lady in particular i have a really good bond with because we spend every d... (293 words)

His psychologist's suggestions are making ME feel down now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 817 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - My botfriend is now seeing a psychologist to help with his depression and anxiety. The things that the psychologist tells him to do in order to help his moods makes me upset. For example, the psychologist told him to take pictures of me down because he has too many and this ... (95 words)

We're getting married in a few days but she doesn't enjoy sex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (M) - We got married a few days and my wife dosent enjoy sex. She says she dosent feel anything during sex and it is painful. We had sex 3 times now. Is this normal for woman for first few days or how can we overcome this.... (48 words)

Friends bad influence is ruining my relationship.. Please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - Urgent, HELP ! Well, how to start. My bf and i have dealt with many issues this school year. Some that really could have broke us up and it almost happened. One being my bf smoking with a friend ocassionaly to be social with him and he kept it from me entirely. I was ... (478 words)

Can you fall in love over the net?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 800 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - I am currently involved in an online/long distance relationship. Can you fall in love over the net? Is it expecting too much for me to want him to restrain from chatting to other women, especially ex's or girls who he had a previous interest in?? Flirting, sex talk ... (101 words)

I've heard rumours my boyfriend is seeing someone else! Should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 817 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six years now. We lived together for five of those years my mother got sick so i had to move home to take care of her. he didn't move with me he found his own place. we still were together. I have a 3 year old son for him. Lately i have bee... (185 words)

Should I reach out and make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 9 months now. This is the first serious relationship that either of us have had, and so there has been a lot of...exploration in the physical realm. In the beginning, I often got upset about what happened when we made out, and ... (190 words)

I'm in love with a younger lady, but she lives with another man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (M) - Hello. I am a 43 yr old male in love with a 26 yr old female. we were friends to begin with and are now talking about a possible relationship. the catch is she lives with another man. he treats her poorly and is a jerk , her words not mine, i have offered to have her come live ... (106 words)

Looked on MySpace and saw how happy he is with his new girl...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - oh dear. i'm feeling like rubbish coz i went on my exes myspace (for sum reason) and there was a pic of him and his new gf on there and they look so happy, he's written some well sweet stuff about her too. i should be happy for him but it just made me cry and ive been sad ever ... (132 words)

I'm so insecure and worried that my boyfriend is living life while I'm worrying about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - hello, i just feel like a total loser at the moment, i'm at uni and feeling really lonely. my boyfriend is at a different uni and he has loads of friends and i just seem to get more and more paranoid that he doesnt need me or hes cheating on me. i only see him every couple of ... (108 words)

My wife has developed gay tendencies... How can we deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

2 May 2006 (M) - I'm in a right pickle. I've been married for four years and over the past several months it's become clear, in discussion with my wife, that she is uncovering the details of her orientation - personally supressed due to childhood environment - and that she is, on balance, gay. ... (143 words)

Is there a chance we'll get back together or should I let it go.. ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 816 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - My fiancee and I just broke up about a month ago, he already has a new girlfriend and she's pregnant. Not with his kid but her ex husband's kid. He and I are still really close and we still talk and hang out together along with his new girlfriend. However, I really miss him and ... (119 words)